posted July 02, 2022 01:21 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Sadly, I'll have to agree based on personal experiences.
I SHOULD, maybe, get along with them but the only Cancer placement I can actually stand is mars, and I'm a Cancer sun, mercury, venus. I think it's my Cap moon that gets rubbed all kinds of wrong by a Cancer moon.

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posted July 02, 2022 04:37 PM            

He got caught initiating an affair with a woman and refused to apologize because in his words, "nothing happened, so it didn't count". Lol!

posted July 02, 2022 05:42 PM              

My Mom was a Cap Sun and Merc with Cancer Moon, Jupiter, and Uranus. Late Scorp Asc with early Sag Venus Rising, and Scorp Saturn in the 12th, and her traditional/faster moving chart ruler, Mars, in Pisces. Since she was born during a full Moon, she was an "ultra Cancer Moon".

She was not immature, petty, selfish, or the like. She was very loving, kind, spirtual, and an older Soul. But she was highly emotional and emotionally (and psychically) sensitive. She and I were best friends and very close for awhile. While we got along very well, sometimes her hyper emotionalism and occasional emotional subjective bias did bother me a bit, but not too much as she was still grounded and mostly logical most of the time.

She let her parents upset/bother/unbalance her too much at times. Yeah, they were kind of jerks and not particularly understanding etc, but she let them get to her way too much. On the flip side, they had some really big issues with my step father and rightfully so. They saw more clearly into him than she did. They knew he was no good, and at one point, it was my Mom, my step father, my 3 siblings, my 2 cousins (my Mom took them in), and I all living at my grandparents with them. It was crowded and stressful.

Sometimes I wonder if part of her intense emotionality was part of the reason for her getting cancer. That, and constantly absorbing the negative, slow vibratory, angry energy of my step father. It was like her energy kept him in check, even though he is a sociopath.

My Mom was beloved by everyone that knew her. Many considered her something of an "earth angel". She was one of those rare, very unconditionally loving and exquisitely empathic people with a bigger picture focus. But, she was too naive to my step father's deeper and true issues. I think she thought she could "heal" him with her love.

When she was dying of cancer, she somehow found out that towards the end, that he was cheating on her with a supposed friend of hers. F'ing Annette, a Scorpio **** whom she would babysit her child for. See, my step father in his hey day was a shade under 6'4", built like a brick shite house, had the real "bad boy" vibe going for him ("tough guy" etc), and could be charming when he wanted to be (I don't know his accurate chart, as he has two birth years, but in both, he has Leo Sun conjunct Leo Pluto).

Apparently many women like that kind of thing. If the outer package is good enough, who cares if it is rotten on the inside eh? Many women are hypocrites. They objectify men just as men objectify them, just in different ways with different criteria.

posted July 02, 2022 06:17 PM              

She was very mildly narcissistic in youth (or rather, very self centered), but still basically a good person. We would hang out some as young adults. We cared about each other, even though we sometimes clashed some.

But, she ended up following in her mother's footsteps and became a raging alcoholic. Since then, she and the quality of her consciousness has gone way down hill. She is now a raging, hard core narcissist. Part of the problem is that she is actually fairly psychically sensitive (seems to run strongly in my family. Her somewhat younger brother, my other cousin, has Scorpio Sun and Moon).

And ever since she started drinking heavily, its like she has become a vessel/vassal of and strongly influenced by very negative nonhuman beings. They started to resonate her more to their super slow vibratory level.

Her dead mother came to me in a dream one time, and asked me, "Justin, can you please warn S. that she may get caught in a fire?" I tried, and I relayed the message, but she didn't want to hear anything I said. We live several states apart, and I was briefly visiting up there, and went out of my way to make some time to visit her at her place. When I got there, she was so plastered that she fell asleep not long after I got there.

I sat around for awhile, waiting for her to wake up and interact, but it wasn't happening so I left. Later on, I texted her, "You know S., I love you very much, I just wish that you loved yourself too." And I relayed the message that her mom had given me. She became very upset by this combo message, and then cut me completely off (literally said, "Don't ever contact me ever again!). We haven't spoken since years later. Course I still love her, and would talk to her again, but she will have to approach me. I'm not particularly interested in partaking in her drama, and she is truly full of same.

(I don't know what it is, but I seem to be especially triggering to Aries Sun women, apparently!).

So yeah, Cancer Moon can really vary depending on the individual, the full chart, how they are using their freewill, etc.

posted July 02, 2022 09:16 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Sadly, I'll have to agree based on personal experiences.
I SHOULD, maybe, get along with them but the only Cancer placement I can actually stand is mars, and I'm a Cancer sun, mercury, venus. I think it's my Cap moon that gets rubbed all kinds of wrong by a Cancer moon.

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posted July 03, 2022 04:41 AM            

TRUTH this is exactly how many of them tries to ‘’get’’ their way and acts. It’s so manipulative and off putting and the very reason why they rarely learn from their mistakes because they very rarely think they do any. They can also hold a grudge over you if you address your issue with them or call them out on some bs.

@Galactic

Your mother seemed like a wonderful lady, too bad she had to deal with such a toxic situation around her it can really take a tool on us water moons not only physically but mentally too because we are so absorbing we can ‘’pick’’ up others negative thoughts and emotions. I know Cancer moons can have a really nice side to them too like the reasons you mentioned.

@bbyamphet

Haha i actually find Cap moons to be admirable because they can keep their emotions in check it takes a lot to have them crumbling down. One of the best moon signs to handle the toughest situations. Just look at Johnny Depp and the **** he went through, it took 6 years before he had enough. Not one time i think did he shed a tear during the trial even though this was something that hit him hard and it’s probably one of if not the most difficult situation he has been through. Very responsible too and hard working, probably the ‘’rock’’ in their relationships. I also like that they have a hidden softer side to them that comes out from time to time. On Cancer moons we can also be like that while also being slightly immature or unevolved it’s just our natural nature. I can’t tell you how many times i got thrown in my face if i was considering becoming a psycologist growing up. The world of emotions and people’s inner lives was always something i was drawn to.

posted July 03, 2022 08:15 AM            

But yayyy for healthy Cancer Moons LOL

posted July 03, 2022 08:28 AM            

Moon is associated with the Ic (lowest point in the chart) and is thus more preoccupied with the articulation
of internal feelings than outward assertion I.e. what am I feeling? And what does it mean?

I always encourage Cancer Moon to spend more time alone in meditation or reading etc.So that they can learn more about themselves and enjoy their own company.

The Moon finds its joy in house 3 in Hellenistic astrology because (I think) here the moon can preoccupy itself with self-exploration and self enquiry.

Moon in Cancer is actually quite mysterious.And it's erratic nature (at times) is a call from itself to itself to be explored by the native privately. And not to be "understood" by others , then explained back to the Cancer. (therein lies the rub)

So many Cancer Moon are waiting for others to "understand" them. To embody the "mother goddess" and attend to the Cancer's every need.

Sometimes the Cancer Moon will resort to manipulation, narcissistic tendencies and outright selfishness to get them to do that. Then cry that they feel "unloved" by that person if you don't comply to the specifics.

The reverse is also true I.e some Cancer Moons will try to attend to everyone else's needs and enable other's manipulation of them through clingy behaviour. All because this Cancer has a skewed perspective that to be "loved" is to be "needed".

Both views are not healthy. The Cancer is disabled in both instances and is catering too much to external demands than internal voyages.

The love language for most Cancer Moon is "quality time ". And this is linked to the solitary nature of the moon. It is very necessary for the moon in Cancer to take periods of self imposed exile to deal with what is happening within them

There is a saying " if you dont go within. You go without ". And this is true of the Cancer Moon as it will differentiate the Baby from the nurtured.

If you are dealing with a "baby" Cancer Moon, you will notice just how similar to a baby this person can be. They will be demanding of your attention, react to triggers externally, expect you to always attend to their emotional needs and just "know " when something is wrong (without them saying a word) and fix it.

This Cancer Moon is exhausting to be with because essentially at their core, they are a CHILD. They are "without" and are thus demanding for their cup to be filled. And their thirst/hunger is never-ending (it can happen even at the most inconvenient of times).

The nurturer Cancer Moon will be the type who takes care of themselves in the same swoop that they care for others. They don't take pride in being "needed" but will often teach you to empower yourself(moon finds its joy in the 3rd house)for when they are not there. As this Cancer Moon actually enjoys its independence. They go "within" and this have a lot to give.

There is often a warm, tender energy to the latter that is magnetic (on both men and women). They steer clear from triggering people and are spontaneously affectionate with people.

posted July 03, 2022 10:17 AM              

A very, very deep bow to you and the wisdom expressed above.

(Truly, I am rarely blown away by the perceptiveness of others like this).

I feel Capricorn shares a bit of this Cancerian like dynamic in some ways, btw, but the difference being is that we project it more onto the collective and society as a whole, than just the people closest to us, our family and "tribe" so to speak.

This is the biggest challenge of my life, to go within and love self so much that I can go through anything in life. Because I receive very little love/attention from others in my life. I was told by guidance during a particularly vivid dream that the reason why, is because I'm at/on a very different vibration than most, and after all, Like doesn't only attract, resonate with Like, but also "likes" Like.

People IRL either do these things with me, they either despise/irrationally hate me, they distance themselves from me though they basically like and respect me, or they put me on some kind of pedestal.

Doesn't matter which it is in the above, but all creates distance between them and myself, when all I want is closeness, sharing, and merging. Because where I came here from, we were One and intimately knew and loved each other. There were no barriers, no secrets, no ego--just pure Love.

But in this human life, I must find and nurture that Love from within, for self, for Source, and for the Oneness of the Whole.

posted July 03, 2022 10:32 AM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
Holy Guacamole Aries23Degrees!

A very, very deep bow to you and the wisdom expressed above.

(Truly, I am rarely blown away by the perceptiveness of others like this).

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posted July 03, 2022 10:53 AM            

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I was told by guidance during a particularly vivid dream that the reason why, is because I'm at/on a very different vibration than most, and after all, Like doesn't only attract, resonate with Like, but also "likes" Like.

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Do you have any master Numbers in your numerology chart ? I have heard that people that have these Numbers in their chart are on a different vibraton. Esp 11’s have really strong and psychic dreams.

posted July 03, 2022 10:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Cancer Moon here.

Moon is associated with the Ic (lowest point in the chart) and is thus more preoccupied with the articulation
of internal feelings than outward assertion I.e. what am I feeling? And what does it mean?

I always encourage Cancer Moon to spend more time alone in meditation or reading etc.So that they can learn more about themselves and enjoy their own company.

The Moon finds its joy in house 3 in Hellenistic astrology because (I think) here the moon can preoccupy itself with self-exploration and self enquiry.

Moon in Cancer is actually quite mysterious.And it's erratic nature (at times) is a call from itself to itself to be explored by the native privately. And not to be "understood" by others , then explained back to the Cancer. (therein lies the rub)

So many Cancer Moon are waiting for others to "understand" them. To embody the "mother goddess" and attend to the Cancer's every need.

Sometimes the Cancer Moon will resort to manipulation, narcissistic tendencies and outright selfishness to get them to do that. Then cry that they feel "unloved" by that person if you don't comply to the specifics.

The reverse is also true I.e some Cancer Moons will try to attend to everyone else's needs and enable other's manipulation of them through clingy behaviour. All because this Cancer has a skewed perspective that to be "loved" is to be "needed".

Both views are not healthy. The Cancer is disabled in both instances and is catering too much to external demands than internal voyages.

The love language for most Cancer Moon is "quality time ". And this is linked to the solitary nature of the moon. It is very necessary for the moon in Cancer to take periods of self imposed exile to deal with what is happening within them

There is a saying " if you dont go within. You go without ". And this is true of the Cancer Moon as it will differentiate the Baby from the nurtured.

If you are dealing with a "baby" Cancer Moon, you will notice just how similar to a baby this person can be. They will be demanding of your attention, react to triggers externally, expect you to always attend to their emotional needs and just "know " when something is wrong (without them saying a word) and fix it.

This Cancer Moon is exhausting to be with because essentially at their core, they are a CHILD. They are "without" and are thus demanding for their cup to be filled. And their thirst/hunger is never-ending (it can happen even at the most inconvenient of times).

The nurturer Cancer Moon will be the type who takes care of themselves in the same swoop that they care for others. They don't take pride in being "needed" but will often teach you to empower yourself(moon finds its joy in the 3rd house)for when they are not there. As this Cancer Moon actually enjoys its independence. They go "within" and this have a lot to give.

There is often a warm, tender energy to the latter that is magnetic (on both men and women). They steer clear from triggering people and are spontaneously affectionate with people.

The latter Cancer Moon tend to also easily attract children because of this.

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posted July 03, 2022 10:57 AM            

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But yayyy for healthy Cancer Moons LOL
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posted July 03, 2022 11:48 AM              

Don't think so, but it's been a long time since I've looked at the numerology of my name. Birth date wise, I'm a 8 day and a 9 life path. I vaguely remember that in my name(s), a lot of 7's, 3's, 9's, and some 6th came up, I think.

My partner's life path number is 11 (well, 56 reduced to same), and while she is unusually intuitive/psychic as compared to the average, I'm more so than her. She gets a lot of her guidance via dreams, and I get a lot of it more consciously nowadays (though used to be more so via dreams when I was younger).

posted July 03, 2022 12:12 PM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
Hi SleepyDiary,

Don't think so, but it's been a long time since I've looked at the numerology of my name. Birth date wise, I'm a 8 day and a 9 life path. I vaguely remember that in my name(s), a lot of 7's, 3's, 9's, and some 6th came up, I think.

My partner's life path number is 11 (well, 56 reduced to same), and while she is unusually intuitive/psychic as compared to the average, I'm more so than her. She gets a lot of her guidance via dreams, and I get a lot of it more consciously nowadays (though used to be more so via dreams when I was younger).

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There are also challenge Numbers that shows what you gotta deal with during different periods of your life, maybe you had them in one of these? Maybe Neptune or the 12th house is strong in your chart too?

posted July 03, 2022 12:32 PM              

But people often seem to forget that Jupiter is very much still involved in being a co-ruler of Pisces. To understand Jupiter's true energy as is, you have to mix/blend about 55% Sag with 45% Pisces to understand/perceive it well. In color-aura-vibration terms, Jupiter is less lighter reddish purple than Sag, but not quite as violet as Pisces. But it is more of a royal purple i.e. a bit more reddish than Pisces, but less so than Sag. Jupiter is rising, in the first, and otherwise also highlighted in this chart.

However, you are looking and thinking too locally. More importantly is that there are some Arcturus paran aspects to Angles in this chart (self came into this system from a very different system, and as Edgar Cayce's guidance pointed out time and time again, Arcuturus is the primary gate/doorway from and to other systems to this one for us).

And most people don't know/realize that locally, the Sun is actually the most expanded, and fastest vibratory symbol of our system. The reason why people don't know/see t his, is because they overly associate Leo with the Sun and vice versa. They are not the same energy. Sun can express in a less mature, Leo like way, for sure, but when the violet/purple spectrum is mastered, then the golden light of the sun can and does become unveiled.

In this chart, Sun is fairly highlighted. (near Solar perihelion birth etc).

posted July 03, 2022 12:35 PM            

My sister says her Cancer moon husband can be childish when he gets upset. Mental illness runs in his family.

posted July 03, 2022 04:29 PM            

@Stawr - you mentioned their connection to children in another perspective! YES! He was a middle school teacher and would give the kids rides home, would go to the movies with his students, etc... and put himself in some crazy situations where he was alone with students. He was proud of it, that parents trusted him, but I always worried about one of the kids accusing him of something. And then later, I started to worry about why he was so preoccupied with youth and young people. It became unnerving. Cap moon here, so you get it. And yes, his family has mental health issues on both sides.