posted October 21, 2022 11:28 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
What about Venus/Uranus? Wouldn’t this cause an electrifying sense of “needing” each other but also fear/obstacles of not being able?

In my case we both have Venus sq Uranus in natal. Venus sq Uranus Synastry. Venus op Uranus in Composite and Venus conj Uranus Drac. I think maybe this might explain the physical agony I explained in first post? When we’re near each other it’s just…so freakin hard being normal. It vibrates :-/ We want SO badly but can’t.

So there’s that, a whole lotta Pluto and a hefty pinch of Saturn so yeah..

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I believe this is exactly the case.

When you see reoccurring aspecting planets through the charts, which you have, it will show as a reoccurring theme. One that fits with your own reoccurring personal life themes.

Personally, I’d see this as karmic.

With the Draco chart being the conjunction.

Your souls having Venus conjunct Uranus in their natural relationship.

The composite being opposite. So the relationship in this lifetime is trying reconcile the opposition to work together. Opposites are complimentary when they reconcile.

The squares in your natal and synastry applying pressure to find a release of this energy.

The square in the synastry brings that tension to this lifetime. This gives you both a point of relation being you both have this tension natally and it is now coming into focus through your interaction. The opposition in composite is putting focus on your relationship, to find a compromise by showing you both how your personal difficulties with these positions natally can function in a compromising give and take relationships together. If you can both accept that what one lack the other has. If you can learn to value (Venus) the oddities of yeah others love styles and values and create an extraordinary relationship that fits your personal needs.

Needless to say the Draco kinda being the objective of the souls ,you want to find a way to reconcile them to where they can function in the conjunction on a soul level.

Being that Saturn and Pluto are transiting these,you are going to feel a restless push/ pull effect.

And given that this isn’t a welcomed relationship or interaction , it would add to the anxiety.

If you concentrate on your own Venus sq Uranus and find ways to channel it using those transits you can still find your personal growth and energy release.

It is not reliant on this other person.

It’s just the chemistry of this reaction when you are around each other that is seeing a natural release of energy.

posted October 21, 2022 12:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Lamplighter848:
I believe this is exactly the case.

When you see reoccurring aspecting planets through the charts, which you have, it will show as a reoccurring theme. One that fits with your own reoccurring personal life themes.

Personally, I’d see this as karmic.

With the Draco chart being the conjunction.

Your souls having Venus conjunct Uranus in their natural relationship.

The composite being opposite. So the relationship in this lifetime is trying reconcile the opposition to work together. Opposites are complimentary when they reconcile.

The squares in your natal and synastry applying pressure to find a release of this energy.

The square in the synastry brings that tension to this lifetime. This gives you both a point of relation being you both have this tension natally and it is now coming into focus through your interaction. The opposition in composite is putting focus on your relationship, to find a compromise by showing you both how your personal difficulties with these positions natally can function in a compromising give and take relationships together. If you can both accept that what one lack the other has. If you can learn to value (Venus) the oddities of yeah others love styles and values and create an extraordinary relationship that fits your personal needs.

Needless to say the Draco kinda being the objective of the souls ,you want to find a way to reconcile them to where they can function in the conjunction on a soul level.

Being that Saturn and Pluto are transiting these,you are going to feel a restless push/ pull effect.

And given that this isn’t a welcomed relationship or interaction , it would add to the anxiety.

If you concentrate on your own Venus sq Uranus and find ways to channel it using those transits you can still find your personal growth and energy release.

It is not reliant on this other person.

It’s just the chemistry of this reaction when you are around each other that is seeing a natural release of energy.

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Thank you! No, this is not welcomed but I love him. There, I said it! And I love him enough to not tell him. I don't need him to know how I feel, with words. I LOVE that he's in my head and I know that he exists! Not sure this even makes sense. I could move to the other side of the planet tomorrow, knowing that I'd most likely never see him again, and it wouldn't bother me because he'd be with me anyway.

posted October 21, 2022 05:01 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Thank you! No, this is not welcomed but I love him. There, I said it! And I love him enough to not tell him. I don't need him to know how I feel, with words. I LOVE that he's in my head and I know that he exists! Not sure this even makes sense. I could move to the other side of the planet tomorrow, knowing that I'd most likely never see him again, and it wouldn't bother me because he'd be with me anyway.

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You are welcome ☺️
I am glad I can help.

Sounds like you might have some valentine going on there…
Any aspects from valentine to mercury natally?

posted October 22, 2022 01:26 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
What about Venus/Uranus? Wouldn’t this cause an electrifying sense of “needing” each other but also fear/obstacles of not being able?

In my case we both have Venus sq Uranus in natal. Venus sq Uranus Synastry. Venus op Uranus in Composite and Venus conj Uranus Drac. I think maybe this might explain the physical agony I explained in first post? When we’re near each other it’s just…so freakin hard being normal. It vibrates :-/ We want SO badly but can’t.

So there’s that, a whole lotta Pluto and a hefty pinch of Saturn so yeah..

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Good point!

Natally I have Venus (Pisces h10 6 degrees) sextile Uranus (Capricorn h8 9 degrees)

w/ husbands
my Uranus
trines Mercury
trines Mars
trines Venus
conjunct Uranus
conjunct Neptune
conjunct Lilith

His Uranus
trines Mercury
sextile Venus
conjunct Uranus
conjunct Neptune

our life is pretty unconventional.

With college professor who is like 24 years older than me...
His Juno conjunct my Uranus

Coworker from the past
His Uranus
trines my Jupiter

my Uranus squared his Pluto

Now the party guy
My Uranus
sextiles his Mercury
squares Jupiter

his Uranus
squares my Sun
sextiles Moon
conjunct Saturn
sextile Pluto

posted October 22, 2022 02:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Lamplighter848:
You are welcome ☺️
I am glad I can help.

Sounds like you might have some valentine going on there…
Any aspects from valentine to mercury natally?

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Trine

posted October 22, 2022 03:42 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Trine

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What a beautiful aspect to have natally.

May I suggest this:

If you are a believer of karma …

Then please keep in mind that when you consciously or subconsciously have a want or longing, this can register as karma.

When one fixates on another chart, inadvertently there is some wanting or expectation.

As it is easier (trine) for you to love selflessly (valentine) mentally. (Mercury), without expectation. That is ideal.

But when concentrating on your chart comparison with this person, to do so objectively.

As to prevent the longing or expectation of someone outside of yourself to complete you.

Look at the comparison as a map to see how you can find resolution in your own energies.

Then when you are meant to , you will be ready to desolve the karma between the relationship.

If you can separate the chart from the person, it will be much easier to be objective with what you need to work on until that time comes.

Then you are left with selfless love without expectation towards them.

You can remind yourself to not fixate on that love and focus it into energy work.

You can do this by designating a regular time to focus on this love.

Sit in a meditative state, grounding yourself.

Allow yourself to draw in and accumulate all the love you have for this person.

Allow it to fill you, then envision yourself sending it to that person and filling their soul.

Thank them and surrender the attachment.

Do this periodically, when you find yourself thinking of this person.

I believe this would be the most productive way to resolve karmic cycles.

Not only do we have karma with others but an innate objective to elevate our mind to best resolve our karmic cycles.

This is why we must do the work to become conscious of our minds and not just our actions.

Saturn=karma
Saturn = discipline

It is innately human to have such emotions.

They are not wrong.

But there is a spiritual need for us to evolve beyond our human existence.

We must operate beyond the expectations of our human life and function on a much larger scale as eternal beings.

Learning to love our selves and each other unconditionally.

That is the objective to breaking the bonds of karma.

I hope this helps.

posted October 22, 2022 04:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Lamplighter848:
Priapus’ energy has been noted as representing a compulsive need to merge. The Phallus being penetrative convergence.

Transiting Uranus conjunct natal true priapus and opposite bml,moon,Pluto .

We would possibly see an instance or instances (slow transit) where your natal bml/moon/Pluto- independently strong emotional and sexual nature is looking for compromise (opposite) with your need to merge (priapus) through sudden extraordinary events (Uranus transit).

Squaring your Mc would possibly have an effect on your life’s mission or public image.

This may be why you are feeling that tension a bit at work. Your seething sexual tension there. Truly it’s squaring the ic/Mc so we are seeing a bit of possibility cause and effect. What isn’t being expressed at home is being carried into your public persona inadvertently.

Especially,the case with it squaring the sun in the 10th. The sexual tension you are expressing is being hit by transiting Neptune causing confusion as to why you are being perceived in this way. Double that with the square of Neptune to the ascendant.

With the Pisces mc and transiting Neptune over it and your possible cancer ascendant? You are possibly coming off very neptunian and watery …This may be why you have work colleagues who are equals treating you like you are Naïve and also possibly why they believe why you are able to get away with it.

My son is on the spectrum and attends public pre-k at an elementary school. They provide programs for early start for children who need extra time to develop social skills. It has been an amazing experience and his teacher is one of the most amazing people I have ever met. My sons been in his class since march of 2021. So by the time he goes into kinder, we would have spent just over two years with him. We’ve become good friends and he is incredible with my son. I am so thankful!

Because my son is in a smaller class of 8 ,there really aren’t a whole lot of moms around. To be honest most of the parents in his class are not super involved. Because they bus many in from surrounding areas, you don’t meet all of them or see them regularly. Some are not English speaking, and work. So when you do see them on occasion, they aren’t really looking to connect with other parents.

Three of the children in his class are typical peers. Being a special needs class intending to work on social skills, they provide typical peers to lead by example. This is great in theory but because this is a full time pre-k and free , the school just uses it as a full time daycare for teachers kids. Because they use this program in such a way I can see some issues. Not all typical children are the best candidates for this. You need to keep in mind that they are being examples for children who have various social and possibly emotional hardships with adapting. And if the typical peer is a child that needs more reassurance this may not be a healthy environment for them. Inadvertently, these children do not fully understand that the other children have hardships, it may just feel like social rejection. Then on the other hand you have the three typical peer children. All of whom are teachers children and they pack around. So inadvertently you tend to see some clicking around and on occasion exclusion of the children they are there to help assimilate. Thankfully, my sons teacher is amazing and I trust that he is on top of being inclusive with everyone.

Needless to say though, looking behind the curtain makes you see things you’d rather not.

The primary tension concerning working vs stay at home has been with the administrators. Their lack of respect for our time. You can tell there is a general lack of respect too.

What they do not know is that: I am an older mom who had my first child in my thirties, i have worked my whole life until that point. Working extra hard to be able to stay home was a goal. One me and my husband purposely made because we valued that. That I’ve known my husband since I was 16, together since 20 and married 10 years before we even had a child together. We purposely waited to be stable and provide this because it was something we wanted and valued. The fact that our son needed to attend school early to help him develop was not planned. It’s a sacrifice in a way because I love spending time with him but because he needs this , I come into the school to be a support to our community. I successfully ran my household , career and my own schooling for years. I accomplished my goals and am enjoying the fruits of my labor.

I understand that this isn’t the most common scenario…and the fact I’m showing up all relaxed in my leggings and a bit homely after 2 years of Covid hibernation. So what I think it is… is they are judging me superficially . The fact that I’m not super kept and not working makes them believe I am an unmotivated person. Where in fact I’ve settled into a very comfortable and practical time in life where driving a fancy car, using expensive purses and getting regular spa treatments aren’t really a priority. I can have all those things. I have and do on occasion. When you are moming full time it’s really not necessary. Plus having a child with special needs makes you more conscious of preserving your resources. Knowing that you may need to provide them security for when you won’t be there.

The lady that left knew they were judging me when she left. She was their secretary so she knew their feelings and judgments towards me. Probably making comments on my practical marvel comic crossbody and not so fresh pedicure. It’s easy to see in hindsight. She mentioned something about pedicures and fancy purses ..and how she was able to do those things too but was down to earth as well. She was comparing me and her. In hindsight she was warning me of their superficial judgments they were casting on me and acknowledging she knew that I was happy with myself and I should be. Just because I don’t doesn’t mean I can’t.

I suppose you see this in the upper ranks of all systems. Especially with women. There is this unnecessary need to compete to be at the top. I don’t really view life this way as productive.

I have a cancer ascendant with moon in the 2nd house Leo.

Funny how this fits into the whole scenario. Me being a public mom (cancer ascendant)and their judgments of me. How their judgments are projected at my image (ascendant)as a mom (moon) superficially (Leo)as if it defines my self worth(2nd). To essentially degrade my feelings (moon) or self worth (2nd).

It would be a Leo trap to allow myself to become defensive or try to prove that’s not the case. I need to be steady and know my worthiness…others perceptions of my worth are irrelevant. I know what I need to do for my family. The superficialities of life are nice and all but they do not increase the value of my richness in life itself ,love or the things I truly value.

To play into it would only suffice my ego and nothing else.

Yes, that totally make sense ❤️. I also love Virgo in the10th and how productive they are.

I believe everyone has their own approach to outsiders. Personally, I do hate excluding people. But also being very Pisces oriented I too need to learn to be more discerning of people. Having cancer ascendant and ceres/mercury Pisces makes me a huge magnet for those looking for help. My mercury/ceres has great intentions but on the contrary can enable people unintentionally.

Sometimes people need to handle their own tensions in life to grow.

Your prominent water definitely seems to overshadow your fire sun. People would probably be very shocked when they push you to find you spit fire back. Lol

Poor child..having parents trying to define her at such a young age.

I can relate as my parents also tried to raise me thinking my worth was the result of someone else.
Boy were they wrong.. my husband credits me for being the catalyst of growth he needed to become the man he is. He’s so incredibly thankful and appreciative. It baffles people who still wonder exactly what it is that I am doing to get so much praise and appreciation from him.

Ok now your speaking my language. I love that store! I’m totally obsessed with stationary and gift wrapping!! They sell the most beautiful wrapping paper there 😍.

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Now I need to look up that asteroid!
I can't find it on atrodienst. I do see Priamus though. Typo?

I've read somewhere on here that Lilith square MC can give off the vibe of sexy librarian. I sometimes wear sweater dresses. Very flattering on my figure. Not exactly sexy, but I definitely get increased attention in males when I wear them. Well I think one of my coworkers was being passive aggressive with me. She was all like "I don't feel comfortable wearing tight dresses. I'm not going to THE CLUB" Good for you! LOL I am too stubborn to be self conscious, I am not going to take my self down a notch because of that.
I became a preschool teacher at 28. The next youngest teacher there was in her mid/late 40's. LOL

My Sun is in the 11th house.
I'm a 11 degree Gemini rising.

I'm so glad you found a quality school and staff for your son!

LOL yes I do spit fire back! It takes people a while to find out.

I can so relate! The fact that I can be a wind tech wife, not do diddly squat. People can think what they want. I busted it witch college, teaching taking my work home. My time has not been my own for many years.

Yes that Aquarius rising girl...she would deliberately flirt with guys and then be like I'm too good for him.

That's amazing that even though you were conditioned that way, you made life your own.

My mom was a hippy, who has Capricorn moon. She became the bread winner when I was a teen. So I did not have that conditioning. lol

Ah see my husband lied about supporting my career. He even admitted that he lied because he knew I would not be with him if he was honest. His Vigo stellilum thought that he could change my field and political beliefs.

But I spit my fire back at him. On many occasions. One time he tried to talk to me like I was lazy when I was already doing something and he wasn't doing anything. So I really did spit in his face.

posted October 22, 2022 06:29 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Thank you! No, this is not welcomed but I love him. There, I said it! And I love him enough to not tell him. I don't need him to know how I feel, with words. I LOVE that he's in my head and I know that he exists! Not sure this even makes sense. I could move to the other side of the planet tomorrow, knowing that I'd most likely never see him again, and it wouldn't bother me because he'd be with me anyway.

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That does make sense. And that is so beautiful.
For me, I feel like I need to move on. (for now???) Because I have not been present enough when I should be having the time of my life. Each day gets a bit easier.
It's impacted my health. I am burning a big red candle to get my Mojo for life back right now...
But then Mars is going to go retrograde soon. I've have been thinking about the coworker lately. This other guy took my mind off of him. But the coworker has Mars in Gemini. It was so much easier to be obsessed with someone who was a loner, that doesn't have a FB. This other dude it's that we all know the same people and he lives with roommates who are also friends with my husband.

posted October 22, 2022 07:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
Now I need to look up that asteroid!
I can't find it on atrodienst. I do see Priamus though. Typo?

I've read somewhere on here that Lilith square MC can give off the vibe of sexy librarian. I sometimes wear sweater dresses. Very flattering on my figure. Not exactly sexy, but I definitely get increased attention in males when I wear them. Well I think one of my coworkers was being passive aggressive with me. She was all like "I don't feel comfortable wearing tight dresses. I'm not going to THE CLUB" Good for you! LOL I am too stubborn to be self conscious, I am not going to take my self down a notch because of that.
I became a preschool teacher at 28. The next youngest teacher there was in her mid/late 40's. LOL

My Sun is in the 11th house.
I'm a 11 degree Gemini rising.

I'm so glad you found a quality school and staff for your son!

LOL yes I do spit fire back! It takes people a while to find out.

I can so relate! The fact that I can be a wind tech wife, not do diddly squat. People can think what they want. I busted it witch college, teaching taking my work home. My time has not been my own for many years.

Yes that Aquarius rising girl...she would deliberately flirt with guys and then be like I'm too good for him.

That's amazing that even though you were conditioned that way, you made life your own.

My mom was a hippy, who has Capricorn moon. She became the bread winner when I was a teen. So I did not have that conditioning. lol

Ah see my husband lied about supporting my career. He even admitted that he lied because he knew I would not be with him if he was honest. His Vigo stellilum thought that he could change my field and political beliefs.

But I spit my fire back at him. On many occasions. One time he tried to talk to me like I was lazy when I was already doing something and he wasn't doing anything. So I really did spit in his face.

I am so happy your husband is not like my husband in that sense. You are very fortunate and blessed.

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Mean priapus is listed under hypothetical point as h22 but true is considered the polarity point to true bml h13 which is not listed.

White moon/Selena h56 is listed under hypothetical points as well.

I’ve been studying the triplicity of the moon.
Mother, maiden crone
And need to actually take a look at calculating these points by hand to get a better feeling on their actual projections.

It is hard to grasp hypothetical points without understanding their physical relationship to each other.

So much of what I read is conjecture.
I can relate but I need to find a solid base to truly integrate the energy.

It’s been part of my study in polarities in general
And how much of that concept explains the concept of integrating masculine/feminine principles within ourselves as part our spiritual evolution.

That is an interesting take on Lilith square Mc.
I can see that.
I could also see Virgo or Sagittarius archetypes playing a role in that image of librarian.
But Pisces 10th would probably also project that dreamy lost in a book vibe too.

It’s great that you are comfortable with yourself and are happy expressing yourself openly. It is important to enjoy the things that you love about yourself.

Sounds like you really enjoy fashion and your own sense of style. You sound very comfortable in your femininity and expressing yourself through the way you dress.

Other people have the freedom to do the same. I would assume the age gap in your school probably has a lot to do with this judgment. As many of us get older we fall into more comfortable patterns of what works for us. Their projections on you may not be intentional as they are probably just relating from their own perspective.

Ahh I see ..it’s like I keep building an image of your chart but it’s always fleeting.

That’s cool my north node is 10 Gemini 12th!
You probably have much to teach me about that!

Having cancer asc with fire moon has a startling effect on people too.

Yes, it’s funny that when your are married and you have a steady life, people seem to think that you didn’t put blood,sweat and tears into that 6th and show up every day to make sure it stays that way.

It’s funny my husband is like Capricorn on steroids. He can work very hard, be a great leader, steadfast in many ways but the guy cannot keep a routine at home or run a household to save his life. Let alone save money.

I had to teach him everything domestic. And it is not something he is good maintaining on his own. We’ve learned to compromise and utilize his bruit strength to alleviate the hardships of me carrying everything in the household on my own. It’s been a long journey and he swam against the current for many years.

I am happy to say, we are at a much better place after finding our complimentary skills worked best in their respective strengths.

And we also have more time to appreciate each other not just a husband/wife but as individuals who are more than a role to play in life.

I feel extremely blessed.

Yes, I was conditioned by my step father and mom to be a submissive domestic slave.
I was told that my grades did not matter if I lived in a dirty home.
That did not stop me from getting A’s.
I was told a lot of toxic crap.
But as young as I could remember, I always knew how wrong and toxic it was.
Being very piscean, I was very idealistic.
That optimism gave me faith
My father always tried to kill that in me.
I was fortunate to find that life wasn’t as hard as they always projected it to be.
Once I left home, I could control my direction
And because of that I found much success.
I always tried to be conscious of my power of free will
Truly after living like that, it wasn’t hard to find
I waited the last 9 years of my childhood to have my freedom much like a prison sentence.
When you live in darkness it is easy to find light.

Sn/Uranus/wisdom 6th house Sagittarius

We all have our moments of projection in marriage. My husband as well as I have been guilty of doing our own deeds. Finding balance of support and enabling each other, resentment. Many marriages burn out because the cycles become so redundant. You must find compromise where both people are valued. It takes time to integrate that into actually. It’s not easy…you just have to keep showing up. Inevitably, it requires both to, not just one pulling all the weight. Sometimes you have to give a lot more to get anything. And that can be exhausting.

posted October 25, 2022 10:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Lamplighter848:
Mean priapus is listed under hypothetical point as h22 but true is considered the polarity point to true bml h13 which is not listed.

White moon/Selena h56 is listed under hypothetical points as well.

I’ve been studying the triplicity of the moon.
Mother, maiden crone
And need to actually take a look at calculating these points by hand to get a better feeling on their actual projections.

It is hard to grasp hypothetical points without understanding their physical relationship to each other.

So much of what I read is conjecture.
I can relate but I need to find a solid base to truly integrate the energy.

It’s been part of my study in polarities in general
And how much of that concept explains the concept of integrating masculine/feminine principles within ourselves as part our spiritual evolution.

That is an interesting take on Lilith square Mc.
I can see that.
I could also see Virgo or Sagittarius archetypes playing a role in that image of librarian.
But Pisces 10th would probably also project that dreamy lost in a book vibe too.

It’s great that you are comfortable with yourself and are happy expressing yourself openly. It is important to enjoy the things that you love about yourself.

Sounds like you really enjoy fashion and your own sense of style. You sound very comfortable in your femininity and expressing yourself through the way you dress.

Other people have the freedom to do the same. I would assume the age gap in your school probably has a lot to do with this judgment. As many of us get older we fall into more comfortable patterns of what works for us. Their projections on you may not be intentional as they are probably just relating from their own perspective.

Ahh I see ..it’s like I keep building an image of your chart but it’s always fleeting.

That’s cool my north node is 10 Gemini 12th!
You probably have much to teach me about that!

Having cancer asc with fire moon has a startling effect on people too.

Yes, it’s funny that when your are married and you have a steady life, people seem to think that you didn’t put blood,sweat and tears into that 6th and show up every day to make sure it stays that way.

It’s funny my husband is like Capricorn on steroids. He can work very hard, be a great leader, steadfast in many ways but the guy cannot keep a routine at home or run a household to save his life. Let alone save money.

I had to teach him everything domestic. And it is not something he is good maintaining on his own. We’ve learned to compromise and utilize his bruit strength to alleviate the hardships of me carrying everything in the household on my own. It’s been a long journey and he swam against the current for many years.

I am happy to say, we are at a much better place after finding our complimentary skills worked best in their respective strengths.

And we also have more time to appreciate each other not just a husband/wife but as individuals who are more than a role to play in life.

I feel extremely blessed.

Yes, I was conditioned by my step father and mom to be a submissive domestic slave.
I was told that my grades did not matter if I lived in a dirty home.
That did not stop me from getting A’s.
I was told a lot of toxic crap.
But as young as I could remember, I always knew how wrong and toxic it was.
Being very piscean, I was very idealistic.
That optimism gave me faith
My father always tried to kill that in me.
I was fortunate to find that life wasn’t as hard as they always projected it to be.
Once I left home, I could control my direction
And because of that I found much success.
I always tried to be conscious of my power of free will
Truly after living like that, it wasn’t hard to find
I waited the last 9 years of my childhood to have my freedom much like a prison sentence.
When you live in darkness it is easy to find light.

Sn/Uranus/wisdom 6th house Sagittarius

We all have our moments of projection in marriage. My husband as well as I have been guilty of doing our own deeds. Finding balance of support and enabling each other, resentment. Many marriages burn out because the cycles become so redundant. You must find compromise where both people are valued. It takes time to integrate that into actually. It’s not easy…you just have to keep showing up. Inevitably, it requires both to, not just one pulling all the weight. Sometimes you have to give a lot more to get anything. And that can be exhausting.

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I have Priapus 5 degree Taurus h12

sextiles Jupiter
sextiles Venus

I have White Moon 12 degree Cancer house 2

Conjuncts Chiron
opposes Neptune
sextile Mercury

Transit wise right now Priapus is in my 8th house.
sextile my Venus
oppose Jupiter

White Moon is in my 10th house

conjunct my Venus
trine Jupiter

Haha yes you nailed it with the dreamy head in a book face!

I have been really enjoying going down the rabbit hole with asteroids I haven't been able to spend so much time on them in like 10 years.

Very cool about our Gemini synastry! My husband also has NN Gemini, but in the later degrees. Trines my Mars!
Your Node is in my 12th house. I am enjoying our spiritual banter!

I am very drawn to fiery Cancers!

Thank you for being so honest and inspiring about your marriage.

I'm glad you brought that up that you knew your parents were wrong. Some people have a harder time admitting/knowing when their parents are wrong. I probably didn't start to feel this way until I was in middle school. My husband lets the women in his family boss him around. lol

posted November 02, 2022 02:30 PM            

"an excruciating urge to be with one another BUT, life decides otherwise"

the astro indicators imo can be seen more in our composite.

synastry:
my venus conjunct his pluto
my sun conjunct his beatrix
my moon conjunct his lilith trine his moon trine my sun

posted November 03, 2022 06:30 AM            

Well I was crying yesterday. Things hit me really hard...and this other guy I have chemistry with who I have not really mentioned on here yet. Reached out to me.

posted November 03, 2022 01:16 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
What to look for in charts between 2 people when there’s an excruciating urge to be with one another BUT, life decides otherwise (already married/dating/travel/illness etc)? Is this blockage also forever between these humans or could transits/progressions help?

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posted November 16, 2022 02:21 PM            

Personal planets into the 12th house or 8th house in synastry.

Sun/Moon to the Nodes, or Venus too. That creates a strong attraction.

** all without connections between Sun/Moon, Sun or Moon to ASC/DC, Moon to Moon, Venus to Moon, Mars to Moon, Saturn or Jupiter to Sun or Moon or 4th house placements. (conjunction, opposition, sometimes square between Sun/Moon)