posted December 25, 2022 07:02 PM            

Another aspect of Gemini is agility. So if you're nimble and agile in the sack it might be especially appreciated.

They also are attracted to people who are androgynous, or faery or pixie, or gnome-like.

posted December 25, 2022 07:41 PM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
Some people don't have to find someone attractive to have sex with. Just saying.
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I have seen people with more detached moons be able to do this like Earth and Air moons but Fire and Water moons do need to feel some type of attraction or excitement with someone they are physically involved with even if it’s not that serious. Fire moons wouldn’t have come for a 2nd time if you are not exciting, fun or attractive in some way and Water likes depth of feelings and can be guarded about letting someone get close to them.

posted December 25, 2022 09:45 PM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
Some people don't have to find someone attractive to have sex with. Just saying.

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posted December 25, 2022 11:33 PM            

I am attracted to muscle bound hunks on Instagram who flaunt their sex appeal doing silly things to 🐓 tease.

These days its hard to tell on Instagram who is gay and who is straight. Coz all want to be drooled over-this regardless of which gender is doing the drooling.🤷🏿‍♂️

Anywho, I digress. Back to the issue. As much as I say that those are who i find sexually attractive, who i end up sleeping with (however) is a whole different other type altogether (physically).

The guys i sleep with are usually very attractive and handsome etc. But not as athletically fit/ big or into fitness as much the ones i drool over on Instagram.

There is fantasy with all its added filters . Then there is reality. We may (for instance) say we want on thing and think we do. But then our actions and dating history suggests otherwise.

posted December 26, 2022 03:09 AM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
He has Venus in Gemini they like intellectual stimulation and wits more than anything else these people go for brains more than any other sign. They also like a casual style.
He is having sex with you so he must find you attractive in some way even if its not that serious between you

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posted December 26, 2022 04:57 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
As a Gemini Mars I seem to attract men with Gemini Venus. The reason why I’m asking is because a situation happened the last time we were together. We had sex twice that day and the second time he said he was tired and he stopped in the middle. I don’t know if it’s because he has diabetes (which can cause issues in regards to sex). Or if it’s because he’s not physically attracted to me. I don’t know maybe I’m just overthinking things.

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Like you said you two have been having sex for a while now so i think he likes doing it with you and probably finds you attractive in some way but he probably wasn’t in the mood that day for whatever reason, and like you also said you already had sex earlier that day. But don’t take things so personally all the time esp with a Gemini Venus they will find this draining and needy. Also i have also noticed Virgo moons not really being all that into sex they might just do it because they feel they have to and not because they really want to but that doesn’t mean they are not into you but they tend to not be that into sex and can be fine keeping it to a minimum.

posted December 26, 2022 12:36 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Like you said you two have been having sex for a while now so i think he likes doing it with you and probably finds you attractive in some way but he probably wasn’t in the mood that day for whatever reason, and like you also said you already had sex earlier that day. But don’t take things so personally all the time esp with a Gemini Venus they will find this draining and needy. Also i have also noticed Virgo moons not really being all that into sex they might just do it because they feel they have to and not because they really want to but that doesn’t mean they are not into you but they tend to not be that into sex and can be fine keeping it to a minimum.

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posted December 26, 2022 02:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
First, this guy is more mental than average Gemini because Moon and Venus, both ruled by Mercury. Libra AC would also value mental connection. His Aries Mars is afflicted by hard Saturn, Chiron, Jupiter. So physical attraction probably is not the issue.
Second, If it happens after some time together, it was said in above responses..

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posted December 26, 2022 02:22 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Me saying he's not attracted to me because he stopped in the middle of sex makes me clingy? I think any woman would wonder what is happening in a situation like that.

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I’m not saying you are clingy i am warning you about not taking things so personally because this sign might get put off by it. I mean you have been having sex with him for a while plus you already did it earlier that day i don’t understand why you got so insecure because it happened one time. I wouldn’t have gotten that insecure unless i’m with someone i have not taken the time to get to know that well. It seems there is a lack of understanding between you and that you haven’t really gotten to know him that well and maybe you should change that so you won’t misunderstand or feel insecure about some of the things he does or might do in the future.

posted December 26, 2022 02:45 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
I’m not saying you are clingy i am warning you about not taking things so personally because this sign might get put off by it. I mean you have been having sex with him for a while plus you already did it earlier that day i don’t understand why you got so insecure because it happened one time. I wouldn’t have gotten that insecure unless i’m with someone i have not taken the time to get to know that well. It seems there is a lack of understanding between you and that you haven’t really gotten to know him that well and maybe you should change that so you won’t misunderstand or feel insecure about some of the things he does or might do in the future.

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posted December 26, 2022 03:38 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
He's a Cancer Sun and he has told me that he really doesn't like people I'm not sure why that is. It just makes me feel kind of awkward because I've never experienced a guy going soft during sex.

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posted December 26, 2022 03:59 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I haven't even said anything to him about this situation at all. I feel insecure because he asked me if I had an orgasm the first time. Asking me when exactly did it happen. Saying that he knows women fake it. So I guess he thinks I'm faking it? This is why I feel insecure. I don't understand why he would even ask me this after all this time. Like why now?

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posted December 26, 2022 04:14 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
If i remember correctly you have your Venus in Pisces so that means you have your Venus in the opposite Sign of his Moon and might even be in opposition by aspect too, plus it even might be square his Venus too. When a woman’s Venus hits a man’s Moon in a hard aspect he might get annoyed everytime she expresses her femininity and not really understand it and the woman might have a hard time emotionally pleasing the man and meet his emotional needs. The woman might not find the man’s core ‘’beautiful’’ or pleasing and might often feel irritated by his emotional needs and ways of being. The square between the Venuses might show two people that expresses their affectionate sides very differently too.

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My Venus is at 28 degrees Pisces it makes a sextile with his Venus. I've read a lot of different things about Moon opposition to Venus in synastry. The astrologer Jewel on Youtube says this is a good aspect in synastry. My Moon is in his fourth house which
seems to be comforting.

My Venus is in his 6th house he doesn't seem to have an issue with me helping him do things around the house like doing the dishes, cooking, cleaning, etc.

posted December 26, 2022 04:40 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
My Venus is at 28 degrees Pisces it makes a sextile with his Venus. I've read a lot of different things about Moon opposition to Venus in synastry. The astrologer Jewel on Youtube says this is a good aspect in synastry. My Moon is in his fourth house which
seems to be comforting.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KHkMaKazidM

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posted December 26, 2022 06:53 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
The love might be there but so will the differences too. The opposition can have it’s benefits but i think people sometimes forget it is also a challenging aspect even when it comes to Venus and the Moon for the reasons i mentioned, and it gets worse if you have other challenging aspects in the synastry too. This is an aspect that can be nice and add some ‘’spice’’ to an unchallenging synastry or it can add even more difficulty and lack of understanding and differences to a synastry that is already challenging. It really depends

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The scenario she mentioned about how both people compromise on deciding what to do together. Is how it’s been working with us.

I’ve had good synastry with people who I thought I’d get along with. And yet things weren’t good between us. The last guy I was involved with we had Moon conjunct Moon. I went to his place and I did feel comfortable with him. It felt nice but we didn’t work out not even as friends.

posted December 26, 2022 07:36 PM            

He loved watching models on catwalk (which I thought he liked thin figures meanwhile I didn't that thin but I didn't feel insecure about it so I only observed) and when he found out I had back dimples just like those models, he told me I was his dream girl because it was rare and it looked super sexy for him and the reason he liked watching super models on catwalk because he loved the back dimples. I didn't know that he had specific preferences in women physically until he told me.

But it can be tricky though, as he could change his preferences in a minute, from curvy to thin, from petite to tall woman, the only thing he despised was ugly and stupid woman. He has low tolerance to slow people and who do not take care of their appearance although most of the time he likes naturally beautiful woman. He used to watch me everytime I did a touch up in the mirror making me uncomfortable because the eyes couldn't lie, I knew he liked me too much.

The thing with any Gemini influences, I realize they often having this double-minded making them doubtful or indicisive, the source is insecurity but they won't admit it as the other twin doesn't feel like it due to high ego.

posted December 27, 2022 02:00 AM            

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The scenario she mentioned about how both people compromise on deciding what to do together. Is how it’s been working with us.

I’ve had good synastry with people who I thought I’d get along with. And yet things weren’t good between us. The last guy I was involved with we had Moon conjunct Moon. I went to his place and I did feel comfortable with him. It felt nice but we didn’t work out not even as friends.

With this guy I feel like I’m able to experience nonsexual physical intimacy (like hugging, kissing, cuddling) without feeling awkward. Initially it felt weird and strange to me and I was hesitant and pushed away. Being an Aquarius Moon it’s hard for me to even be physically affectionate. I really appreciate him for that reason for allowing me to have that experience.

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‘’ I haven't even said anything to him about this situation at all. I feel insecure because he asked me if I had an orgasm the first time. Asking me when exactly did it happen. Saying that he knows women fake it. So I guess he thinks I'm faking it? This is why I feel insecure. I don't understand why he would even ask me this after all this time. Like why now?’’

This is a good example of how this aspect can work too. You speak in different languages. Just because you have been feeling more comfortable doesn’t mean he has been feeling that too and this is a good example of that. You trigger an insecurity in him and as soon as he opened up to you about it you were left confused and thought everything was alright between you. Besides it’s the Moon person that feels their emotional needs aren’t met and not the Venus person. Venus doesn’t know what she is doing ‘’wrong’’ and might never know because the Moon person might keep their feelings to themselves for a while to give Venus a chance to ‘’improve’’ and when this doesn’t happen because really their isn’t anything ‘’wrong’’ with Venus they just do things differently the Moon will then start complaining about how Venus acts and the more Moon start opening up the more annoyed Venus might become by their emotional displays and core being.

posted December 27, 2022 04:29 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
I’ve found that the men who were attracted to me - most of them - exemplified the traits that people project onto moon and Venus in Gemini. It’s what I attracted, not what I wanted.

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posted December 27, 2022 11:31 AM            

Secondly, you stated you are having casual sex with this guy. Have the rules of casual sex changed? Casual sex implies no overthinking, no commitment. He cant get it up, I would move on to the next dude. I wouldnt'get emotionally entangled, I wouldn't start wondering what he is really attracted to...