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Topic: The Leo and being open about feelings
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Stawr
Moderator Posts: 8426
From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 08, 2023 07:47 PM
  
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I can see how that can play out- this especially with Cap Moon in the mix
Ugh yeah, not the kind of person I want to be around while going though all these life transitions that are draining. Scorpio Moons and Cap moons are typically compatible. I've had a few good Leo Sun Cap moon bonds in my life. But yeah my dad's cousin came over. I told her about my divorce, and that's when my mom is all like "Who wants a scone, Stawr why don't you have a scone!" Ehh part of it though is I accept that talking about my divorce is going to make people uncomfortable. Being a Scorpio Moon/Pluto/Lilith is going to make certain people uncomfortable if I go there in general. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 10221
From: South Africa
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posted April 09, 2023 03:58 AM
I think it depends on the audience. Pisces/ Cancer placements are very comfortable with discussing feelings. This too strong personal placements in the above signs.Moon is what makes us feel emotionally secure. So unless that individual has Uranus/Sat on their water Moon (specifically by square opp or conj) they will want to talk about feelings. Water is all about going within. Feelings are EVERYTHING to these people. But Earth Moon tends to be about boundaries. They don't want to ever "fall apart" or let things go "out of hand". This is the boundary stuff. And the reluctance is to dig too deep into the self, then get "lost" or overstep a boundaries from which you can't return etc. Taurus for instance will often soothe you with "It will all be okay". This without delving deep into your emotions. They might listen. But it's unlikely that they will offer advice. They'll just say stuff like "it'll blow over. You'll be fine" etc. Their Venusian nature never wants to go "off balance" into the more darker areas. This unless there is hectic Pluto opposing the Moon or present in the chart. Virgo wants to establish intellectual distance to evaluate. Their advice is more about practical solutions than deep emotional involvement I.e " you need to get more vitamin D in order to get your energy levels up. Eat more....And you'll feel better" etc. Capricorn tends to accept the pain of life as if expecting it. Sometimes they don't seem sympathetic because of Saturn's influence on their outlook. So they would be the type "but it's just the way it goes" or "it's normal" etc. Capricorn tends to dismiss subjective emotions and wouldn't know how to comfort someone without sounding like they are critiquing them on how they "should" be feeling. This unless there is Cancer placements to oppose the Saturnian Moon etc. IP: Logged |
Stawr
Moderator Posts: 8426
From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 09, 2023 08:35 AM
My Aries Sun Scorpio Moon gets annoyed/impatient when other people don't want to do shadow work. Plus 6 house moon.
I got really frustrated with my Gemini Moon ex husband Leo Sun for not being motivated to do his own shadow work. He only went to therapy because I got to a new level of fed up in our marriage and I told him he needs therapy. My mom had to grew up really fast. But I wish she would talk about it more. She is the most successful out of all her siblings. Her two sisters will barely talk to her. My dad got really drunk when mom wasn't around and he said that her sisters are just mad that she made something of herself and they didn't. When I was a teen I knew I needed therapy for some trauma I experienced. I told my mom I needed to go to therapy and she dismissed it at first. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 10221
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 18, 2023 03:43 PM
^^^ I think because of your Moon in Scorpio, there is an expectation that others look as deeply into themselves as you do.For others,there is no shadow from which to do work on. Its not noticeable. This especially Gemini( whom is not likely to be inwardly searching)🤷🏿♂️ The Vir I am seeing right now is very much about sharing feelings. Mars is in Aries opp his Moon(out of sign) Virgo.He does tend to play "tough guy" now & then.But emotionally, he is very open. Leo is Asc with Venus in house 1. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted April 18, 2023 06:03 PM
I’m inwardly-searching, but I won’t do it on command. Not talking about Stawr here. My sister ordered me to go to therapy - so did her her arsehole husband, such a ******* cheek. I was supposed to go to therapy, change my mind about her husband, and lose my boundaries. I said I would go to therapy with her, but she refused. They are two Pisces moons who went to therapy long enough to go for SSI, and he lied and said that he talked to fairies, so they would think that he was crazy. They aren’t especially deep, earth suns, too. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 10221
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 19, 2023 04:27 AM
@teaselWhat aspects are made to their respective Moons? Under duress, I wouldn't go to therapy either. Going there is a personal journey that is more about the internal workings and clock telling you it's time to clean out long held trash. No person outside of yourself can tell you when that time is. Only you know. IP: Logged |
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