posted November 04, 2023 08:39 PM            

This is my first time quitting a teaching job and not finishing up the year. They are trying to make me feel bad for the other teacher and I don't. she's a narcissist who is friends with the boss. My co-worker is a Pisces with Scorpio moon. Only known experience but I don't like it.
I'm an Aries with Scorpio moon. I know she wants to hurt me while acting sweet. I was just put off my her at first. Then annoying, then wtf. Then it clicked that she's a narcissist in October. She tries to act like she is looking out for me, while trying to make me look bad on purpose. When I got more assertive and confident she couldn't stand it and had to walk out of the room.

Anyways I am the third teacher to rage quit on her before conferences. The director is a Scorpio and I really see how sh!tty she was treating me now.

but yeah I don't think they thought I had it in me and would keep putting up with it.

posted November 04, 2023 09:45 PM            

Anyways OP, I have dealt with problematic Scorpios before and the reality is that they look for weakness and easy people to pounce on. A lot of them are predatory but in a "can I get away with it?" sort of a way. Many of them rely on secrecy as well meaning that the last thing they want is for others to expose it to others.

From my experience, Saturn dominant signs, particularly Aqua and Capricorn do a great job in putting Scorpios in their place. If you have a Saturn heavy chart, you can shut them down hard.

Taurus and the earth signs in general are also on the list for correcting toxic Scorpios. A lot of times, it is an overcorrection which involves a lot of punishment.

posted November 04, 2023 09:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Don't trigger the Scorpio. Leave well enough alone. I mean this in terms of both the animal and the human. Just don't do stupid hurtful things to either of them🤷🏿‍♂️

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I love how Astrologers assume that all Scorpios are innocent people that don't go out looking for trouble. Yes, there are Scorpios there like that and we have to take the chart into account.

However, I have met a number of Scorpios who have an entitlement energy and think the world owes them something. They think that there is preferential treatment meant for them and that they can get away with trying to attack people.

It just shows how biased people like you and most Astrologers are and why most people do not think modern astrologers seriously.

posted November 04, 2023 10:58 PM            

First, you have "understand" it for what it really is. Yes, there are good Scorpios out there but this applies to the toxic ones that modern "Astrologers" refuse to acknowledge. Toxic Scorpios think through the lens of envy and they have envy triggers. A lot of them are also woefully incompetent but have a very thin skin so they cannot take the feedback needed to grow as people. They are also the lazy types that try to profit off of the work of other people, in other words, a bunch of leeches. You commonly find this in Scorpio men but the women can be like this too.

So when they see someone who is outwardly charismatic and shows potential for success, they try to sabotage the person. A lot of times, they will walk this line of acting as a buddy or friend and then also acting rude towards you. That is how they do their damage, when they are friends with you or involved with you in any sort of a relationship.

As you have seen from "modern Astrologers", some of these people have never understood accountability in their lives. No one has held them accountable and so they go on living life the way they do. Then, karma hits them hard in the gut and in other cases, the right person comes along to teach them the lesson of a lifetime.

I knew one Scorpio who hit a girl much smaller than him. The girl's brother and dad found him, jumped him, and beat him senseless. After that, they took his shirt off and the dad whipped the guy with a belt until his skin was peeling off. Dude cried like a baby and spent a week in the hospital, never hit a girl again. He was one of the lucky Scorpios who learned.

Given that you know this, how do you handle them? Here is how and no, it does not involve beating them physically.

1. Set the hard line right to their face. Do not be nice to it and do not try to make any friendships with it. Tell it flat out to its face that you are not its friend and you do not want it anywhere near you. Let others know as well and be very stern with it. Do not show any degree of friendliness or kindness towards it, set that hard line with others present.

When others try to get you two to make amends, don't do it. Say it right to its face "we are not friends, we won't be friends, just stay away from me". It is important you establish this and let others know too.

2. Be loud. Scorpios do not do well with loudness. Be very loud and repeat what it said to you if it is provocative. Most Scorpios get scared of any sense of their privacy being invaded. If they realize they have an audience, they will start to fall apart. A lot of them rely on privacy and secrecy. The more people find out, the more scared they get.

3. Keep tabs on them and try to dig up a secret about them. If they press, then you can tell that secret to them. You can also pull a Pepperidge Farms from Family Guy and tell them "and I am not just gonna keep this to myself either, so go elsewhere".

Chances are, with these people, you need to likely go at them twice or a few times until they get it.

4. Dig into the skeletons in their closet, bonus points if you find others these people have wronged. It helps to go at them like a community. Often times, you will find that it becomes overwhelmed having to go against so many people and will now try to retreat.

posted November 05, 2023 07:58 AM            

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Originally posted by plutonianmenace:
mee_chryssa sounds like the poster child for Stockholm Syndrome.

Anyways OP, I have dealt with problematic Scorpios before and the reality is that they look for weakness and easy people to pounce on. A lot of them are predatory but in a "can I get away with it?" sort of a way. Many of them rely on secrecy as well meaning that the last thing they want is for others to expose it to others.

From my experience, Saturn dominant signs, particularly Aqua and Capricorn do a great job in putting Scorpios in their place. If you have a Saturn heavy chart, you can shut them down hard.

Taurus and the earth signs in general are also on the list for correcting toxic Scorpios. A lot of times, it is an overcorrection which involves a lot of punishment.

Leos I think are capable but have to really be pushed. I think Leos rather not but when they are pushed to the limit, they can go all or nothing. However, I think a lot of Scorpios back off when they see Leos getting to that point. The sun threatens their sense of secrecy.

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great observations!

As a Scorpio moon Aquarius moons know how to get under my skin.
Leo's can just annoy me! I love Leos overall but sometimes I'm just like "shut up!" I also have Mercury Taurus in the 12th so I just need quiet sometimes.
I feel like with my moon pluto rx. I seem like an easy target until I reach a certain level of "they deserve it" I'll start flirting with their man, gloat in front of them when I figure out they don't like me getting attention. I wont say hi to them because they wont say it back to me. When I say it...oh and then they will want to say hi. Just one example. (This girl actually had Scorpio Sun and Aries moon.

Okay my Aquarius Mars does not stand a chance when it squares a hot dudes Pluto. I be like "I aM sO dOnE" then he'll throw a party and I'll be like vrroooom!!! Even got me to kiss him when I was still married.
But actually I had a good talk with him where I got to say my piece on a social situation in our group where we weren't exactly seeing everything the same. We could only talk about it so much though cause other people were around.

posted November 05, 2023 08:22 PM            

The day after I emailed her that I quit. She told me not to tell anyone until she does or something. Then that night she did her thing where she asks me a rhetorical question. "Did you tell your co-teacher yet? You should really do that out of curtesy."

I could not believe that. I know they did not have the other teacher do that who rage quit. They think I'm weak. I said I could do it over the weekend. She said that I should actually do it tonight. (It's 8pm at this point mind you) She can't wait because she is so busy this weekend.

I go to my sister for moral support she is a triple Scorpio. I screen shot it to her and she responded with "WTF" "I would say, she shouldn't be too surprised" "If she can't talk this weekend its fine with me."

My sister is super professional and has pretty much been working in corporate America since she was an adult. And Capricorn Mars baby!

posted November 11, 2023 04:32 PM            

I totally agree with what you say about Scorpio and Pluto; unless it is your luminaries and/or rising and ruler, I would attribute its effects to other people in your life. We can still access Pluto in that part (house it is in) but most people are not evolved enough to recognise that it is theirs and only act out the role of recipients of energy.

I like how you said “Taurus” is the antidote of Scorpio. I agree that with Scorpio it’s all about trust. Do we innately trust someone whose planets square ours and are in “negative reception” to ours? I think not. Eg. I have a Leo stellium as well. I get along better with people who have Moon and Venus in Taurus, which is my 7th, because those two planets are dignified, though square my own in Leo, than I do people who have Moon and Venus in Scorpio, even though that is my first.

posted November 11, 2023 04:35 PM            

With Leo planets, what you have a lot of is magnanimity. You don’t sweat the small stuff. You don’t magnify people’s wrong-doings and generally just let them be.

posted November 11, 2023 04:44 PM            

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Originally posted by TensionEmpire:
My father for ex. Says i have deep rooted issues with him, he hás only asc scorp ok, the rest of the chart matters most, but i cant do other than think "tf?? What he think hes só importand?? Why he dont think about his problems in his marriage First??" Moon in Leo maybe..
I have a Child tô be born, gastrites, tendonds that inflamate and Hurts like **** , hard labor on our land, problems enough in my eyes rsrs

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Don’t make the mistake of thinking it’s “only his rising.” His rising is why he took flesh form. It’s his physical body, how he comes across 1-1, it’s how he reacts to new stimulus, it’s him, basically. This is someone who will undergo crisis and transformation from birth to tomb; people think that they have to witness all this to be valid - that’s just from the point of the person who has it.

The Sun is what we all “aim” to be. Hence why Cancer Suns (myself included) are not necessarily caring pros.

The house where you have Scorpio on the cusp and where Pluto is located on your chart is where you encounter the most complications in you life. The sign Pluto is in will tell you what type of complications these are, aspects to, will tell you more.

Generally, unless you want a long protracted war, I would steer clear of Pluto anything.

posted November 12, 2023 01:29 AM            

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Originally posted by plutonianmenace:
I love how Astrologers assume that all Scorpios are innocent people that don't go out looking for trouble. Yes, there are Scorpios there like that and we have to take the chart into account.

However, I have met a number of Scorpios who have an entitlement energy and think the world owes them something. They think that there is preferential treatment meant for them and that they can get away with trying to attack people.

It just shows how biased people like you and most Astrologers are and why most people do not think modern astrologers seriously.

Thankfully, karma does its part in putting toxic Scorpios in their place. I am writing up a strategy to destroy toxic Scorpios though. Finally bringing some impartiality into astrology.

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🤣🤣. So passionate!👌🏿

posted November 15, 2023 08:18 PM            

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Originally posted by plutonianmenace:
mee_chryssa sounds like the poster child for Stockholm Syndrome.

Anyways OP, I have dealt with problematic Scorpios before and the reality is that they look for weakness and easy people to pounce on. A lot of them are predatory but in a "can I get away with it?" sort of a way. Many of them rely on secrecy as well meaning that the last thing they want is for others to expose it to others.

From my experience, Saturn dominant signs, particularly Aqua and Capricorn do a great job in putting Scorpios in their place. If you have a Saturn heavy chart, you can shut them down hard.

Taurus and the earth signs in general are also on the list for correcting toxic Scorpios. A lot of times, it is an overcorrection which involves a lot of punishment.

Leos I think are capable but have to really be pushed. I think Leos rather not but when they are pushed to the limit, they can go all or nothing. However, I think a lot of Scorpios back off when they see Leos getting to that point. The sun threatens their sense of secrecy.

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posted November 15, 2023 08:21 PM            

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Originally posted by StrangeCat:
@TensionEmpire

With Leo planets, what you have a lot of is magnanimity. You don’t sweat the small stuff. You don’t magnify people’s wrong-doings and generally just let them be.

Unless you have more compatible placements with your Scorpio family (Eg. Some water planets or conjunct Moons) I would be on my guard around them.

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posted November 16, 2023 12:05 AM            

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Originally posted by TensionEmpire:
I think The guy above me eddited his post.
.but i swaer bRO, watch out, my scorp asc. suster just beat The **** out of me ysterday, n they will go directly to tour genitals n try to castrate you

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Yes I did. These days I just want to keep things brief. Essays are not my thing anymore. All in all, what I said on that post ,was sufficient🙏🏿

posted November 16, 2023 02:56 AM            

** and this is only if there are no other aspects that could make it bad, like a Saturn or the Nodes **

but you're all here blaming a sign instead of looking at the whole chart...

this whole modern astrology has messed up the essential dignities which shows the layers to which degree something happens just with the saying "there are no bad placements, no evil, just a different expression" which is completely false... there are.. otherwise everything would've been pink and roses... the 8th house is an evil house, the 6th brings diseases, the 12th confusion and loss, but to modern astrology, those are not evil, but a walk in the park on a sunny day... Unless u look at the dignity of the planets, you will never know if something it's good or bad.

Anyway, the astrology podcast does a great job explaining the dignities and they have an episode for every sign and I've seen is accurate. I've watched only the one for my sign so I guess the others are good too, if anyone is interested... Most of the content on astrology online is pretty flawed. There are others too, but the astrology podcast is pretty extended and in depth.

posted November 16, 2023 03:06 AM            

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Originally posted by StrangeCat:
I 100% agree with your advice of finding “your own kind” because in the long run, it gets tiresome being in a relationship full of squares and “negative reception.”

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