posted February 02, 2024 09:11 AM            

If you attract

Aquarius/Uranians believe me there is something unique and bizarre about you when you attract or appear into the lives of these people. You are probably someone that is more open-minded and independent too. You keep people on their toes because of your unpredictable ways and people should always expect the unexpected from you even you should expect the unexpected from yourself.

Aries/Mars: You are probably someone that speaks your mind and will say exactly what you mean there is no sugar coating here. You are probably a bit more on the passionate side too and might have a temper problem. You might also be into sport and are athletic. You might also be self centered too.

Taurus/Venus: You are probably a very solid and stable type who got their **** together. You don’t crack easily and are probably stubborn in your ways. Might be on the lazy side with most things except when it comes to work. You might be good with money and are probably someone who’s financially well off.

Cancer/Moon: There is probably an obvious sensitivity about you that appeals, you might be a moody person who ebb and flow constantly. You have a lot of emotions which you tend to express in roundabout ways and you might let your mood affect your decisions.

Capricorn/Saturn: Similar to Taurus you might be a solid and stable type who’s financially well off. You might not be an emotional person and it takes a lot before you shed any tears. You might be a Debbie downer sometimes and are not into any immaturity. Work will probably be your top priority and when you retire you will have a hard time with your free time.

Scorpio/Pluto: There is an intensity about you and you might be unusual in a dark twisted way. You might also have problems with jealousy and paranoia. You read what is unspoken and you will get to the bottom of things. You make people feel really cared for because of your intense focus on someone and when you no longer care they will feel an empty space even the ones that didn’t care about you.

Virgo/Mercury: These people might attract people who criticize alot. You are probably not the emotional type and critisism is your best language. You probably are a fault finder and sometimes can be a Debbie downer similar to Capricorns/Saturn. You view yourself as an intelligent person and you probably are and therefore have a hard time having your own flaws pointed out to you and have difficulty seeing or admitting when you are wrong. You are good with work and are helpful and very rarely take time off from work.

Leos/Sun: You are probably someone who can be dramatic in your ways and there is a pride and confidence to you which appeals to these people. You are strong with a feisty side to you too and you might need attention from time to time.

Pisces/Neptune: You might be someone who’s hard to read and define, you never know and they never know when it comes to you. You might tend to mirror people around you and be easily influenced. You are sensitive and caring too and don’t have any problems putting yourself aside for others.

Sagittarius/Jupiter: You might have a great sense of humor and are very sincere and honest. You might also be more on the naive side and be overtly optimistic and positive. You probably avoid any negativity and have a bad habit of brushing it under the carpet instead of dealing with it more properly. You like to discuss things and can be set in your views.

Libra/Venus: You probably have a charm to you and are likeable but you might think you are smoother with your charm then what you really are too. That charm might also wear off because of your fickle ways and what you say might not be taken seriously because you might be very indecisive. You like to be the middle person too and be passive in your ways and you’ve probably had people tell you that they don’t really feel like you got their back because you can always see the opposing view.

Gemini/Mercury: You are probably someone who’s witty with your words and like to debate everything. You might confuse someone too because you can be changeable in your attitude. You are probably also too in your head and should learn to put more heart and emotions in your ways. People might not take you seriously after a while because you might not follow through with a lot of the things you say you’ll do.

posted February 02, 2024 03:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Yes and no. I would say I attract martian because I don’t like to reach out. I feel more empowered when someone comes to me. Martian dominated is the opposite they feel more in power when they reach out. So we compliment each other this way. However, they mistake it with being pushover and that’s when problems start.

I might possess many qualities of signs I attract, but I could change 🙃

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Haha you sound like my friend who’s a Libra stellium. She too likes men that are not so shy but her Masculine planets like Sun and Mars are making major aspects to some extroverted Planets like Mercury, Jupiter and Uranus in her chart and she got Sun square to Mars too so shy men are not her types at all.

posted February 02, 2024 05:19 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Haha you sound like my friend who’s a Libra stellium. She too likes men that are not so shy but her Masculine planets like Sun and Mars are making major aspects to some extroverted Planets like Mercury, Jupiter and Uranus in her chart and she got Sun square to Mars too so shy men are not her types at all.

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posted February 02, 2024 07:22 PM            

Or, they attract what energy they are missing. Like I'm a Sagittarius, and in one of my jobs, once, I worked with 5, or 6, Taureans. I was in a mentally unhealthy (or unstable) place, so I was 'missing' stability, so I attracted a bunch of Taureans!

It can also work both ways too.

posted February 03, 2024 04:11 AM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
[b] Mine is a little tricky as my chart is more introverted. Despite of liked to be approached, I end up leading naturally. Some don’t acknowledge it till certain time lol
I like water guys so I can accept shyness in some situations if they know how to assert in the right ones.

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posted February 03, 2024 07:22 AM            

The Gem I've never really understood and not sure how deep One should look in the charts to make it logical. Vedic and Draconic? If those count, then yes, I have plenty of Gem there. I do like to play with words and I also have 1 million interests, all at once, so they might find it attractive.

Aries because I have Mars conj Asc and it's also the missing link in my Cardinal "setup". I kinda need Aries energy to make myself complete, if that makes sense. I am sporty and aggressive and I also don't mince words.

posted February 03, 2024 09:58 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
For me it's always Gem, Pisces, Aries

The Gem I've never really understood and not sure how deep One should look in the charts to make it logical. Vedic and Draconic? If those count, then yes, I have plenty of Gem there. I do like to play with words and I also have 1 million interests, all at once, so they might find it attractive.

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posted February 03, 2024 10:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Preppyarcher7989Wiff:
It depends on the person, I guess.
For some people it works one of two ways: They either attract what they are, at the moment.

Or, they attract what energy they are missing. Like I'm a Sagittarius, and in one of my jobs, once, I worked with 5, or 6, Taureans. I was in a mentally unhealthy (or unstable) place, so I was 'missing' stability, so I attracted a bunch of Taureans!

It can also work both ways too.

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posted February 03, 2024 12:59 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Is Mercury on your Sun, Mars or Venus? This i have seen has attracted Geminis into their lives or the Gemini attracts the Mercurial person into their lives. Like with me i have a conjunct between my Sun and Mercury in the 3rd house and the men i have been drawn to has had their Mercury conjunct Venus which i feel like i embody, I think these men attracts Mercurial types. I have found myself to be attracted to men sometimes who either are a Gemini or got some personal planets in their 3rd house and i think it comes from my Sun being in a conjunct to my Mercury in the 3rd. I noticed how a man talks and can sometimes be attracted to a man based on the way he formulate himself.

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posted February 03, 2024 01:37 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I only have Merc conj Sun in Natal, like many do. In Vedic I have Gem Sun, Merc and Venus and Draconic a Gem Moon but like I said, not sure if those affect me. But it's something about Pisces and Gemini. I can almost "smell" them coming.

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posted February 03, 2024 02:56 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
These are my views taken from experiences and what i have seen.

If you attract

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Gemini/Mercury: You are probably someone who’s witty with your words and like to debate everything. You might confuse someone too because you can be changeable in your attitude. You are probably also too in your head and should learn to put more heart and emotions in your ways. People might not take you seriously after a while because you might not follow through with a lot of the things you say you’ll do.

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I think people with this aspect fall into the trap of getting their heads into too many things or forming an opinion to early.

Being a mutable sign they'll realize later that the environment has changed and what they initially though at the time no longer holds true or there's now a better option.

If there's some Earth or fixed aspects along with this aspect you'll find the individual more consistent.

In other cases they'll encounter fixed or Earth signs that can stabilize them.

This is why i've always worked great with Aquarians and Leo's. Generally we see eye to eye on most things then they'll provide the right enough guidance to focus that Gemini mercury energy.

Leo's can be bossy, it's not so bad if their bossing someone with the same vision though. Leo provides the leadership, Gemini does the grunt work.

Aquarians have a unique way of seeing and solving a problem differently that's interesting to the Gemini, and will be stubborn about it.

@charlie

I never understood why I ended up with two cancer parents (Both Mom & Dad). Then I realized Cancers have the emotional side that Gemini's lack and can learn from.

So if your a Cancer that attracts Gem's this is probably it.

posted February 05, 2024 11:51 AM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
My friend she has a Water Ascendant, Venus and Mars both her Venus and Mars are in Water houses too and she got some Neptune aspects going on and how this plays out for her is that she with her more reserved introverted Venus thinks this is how she should act when she wants to attract but when she does feel more comfortable with a guy that is when she’ll start leading some more and since she got some Water influence on her Mars the opposite might occur where it’s the men she is drawn to who might have more introverted influence in their charts where she is forced to be the one that leads and approaches and it’s not until afterwards when they feel more comfortable they start being more assertive which she hates. Her being into men who are a bit more on the assertive side definitivly is a mix of her own passive/reserved attitude and the aspects her Sun and Mars makes to more assertive Planets. She needs someone who’s not similar to her or else they won’t get any far but sometimes she is forced to do the work because of the introverted influence on her Mars and bring the assertivness out of them. You also might have some of your Masculine Planets aspecting more assertive Planets or have them in opposition to your Ascendant which might be why you like someone who approaches you. But i have seen many times people with more introverted Venus signs suddenly act all shy or reserved when they want to attract someone.

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It’s interesting it’s often hard to see yourself. Libra is famous for changeability. I thought maybe I randomly change from being reserved to more assertive/dominant to confuse everyone lol But more often I probably need to be a certain way because nobody else can keep up. Also, I have Uranus and Neptune what I think is draining my energy so my energy level is changing . Sometimes I want to be in charge, sometimes I don’t want to assert and get too overwhelmed with everything.
I think I originally expected men to be like my Aries DC, but I don’t think they ever do. I’ve met many with Aries placements and Martian influence. They could be go-getters, but I don’t think they could actually lead, especially relationships or social situations.

Also, I think I often confuse and mistake my type with Neptune as I think they should be assertive, but they’re actually not. And I might often not able to go far with any type of interaction with similarities in placements. Maybe, because we play the similar games lol

posted February 05, 2024 01:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
It’s interesting it’s often hard to see yourself. Libra is famous for changeability. I thought maybe I randomly change from being reserved to more assertive/dominant to confuse everyone lol But more often I probably need to be a certain way because nobody else can keep up. Also, I have Uranus and Neptune what I think is draining my energy so my energy level is changing . Sometimes I want to be in charge, sometimes I don’t want to assert and get too overwhelmed with everything.
I think I originally expected men to be like my Aries DC, but I don’t think they ever do. I’ve met many with Aries placements and Martian influence. They could be go-getters, but I don’t think they could actually lead, especially relationships or social situations.

Also, I think I often confuse and mistake my type with Neptune as I think they should be assertive, but they’re actually not. And I might often not able to go far with any type of interaction with similarities in placements. Maybe, because we play the similar games lol

What planet could make mars more assertive by aspect ?

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posted February 05, 2024 01:32 PM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
I think people with this aspect fall into the trap of getting their heads into too many things or forming an opinion to early.

Being a mutable sign they'll realize later that the environment has changed and what they initially though at the time no longer holds true or there's now a better option.

If there's some Earth or fixed aspects along with this aspect you'll find the individual more consistent.

In other cases they'll encounter fixed or Earth signs that can stabilize them.

This is why i've always worked great with Aquarians and Leo's. Generally we see eye to eye on most things then they'll provide the right enough guidance to focus that Gemini mercury energy.

Leo's can be bossy, it's not so bad if their bossing someone with the same vision though. Leo provides the leadership, Gemini does the grunt work.

Aquarians have a unique way of seeing and solving a problem differently that's interesting to the Gemini, and will be stubborn about it.

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posted February 06, 2024 06:05 AM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
If you have Neptune influence that can make someone have a hard time seeing oneself clearly, Neptune clouds. But what is interesting with Neptune is that although it is a more passive planet those with esp a Mars-Neptune aspect can actually like to be the more ‘’submissive’’ one esp sexually and can actually be drawn to more dominant partners. Uranus, Pluto, Sun and Jupiter on Mars can make Mars more assertive and less shy/passive. But your Aries on your Dsc i feel definitivly might also have an influence in what you want.

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Interesting about Neptune; I have a Leo sun but a stellium in the 12th house which is Piscean and I definitely have difficulty seeing myself. I attract Leos and Libras mostly.It's rare that the attraction is mutual which is puzzling because I don't know what energy I put out there.

posted February 06, 2024 10:39 AM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
If you have Neptune influence that can make someone have a hard time seeing oneself clearly, Neptune clouds. But what is interesting with Neptune is that although it is a more passive planet those with esp a Mars-Neptune aspect can actually like to be the more ‘’submissive’’ one esp sexually and can actually be drawn to more dominant partners. Uranus, Pluto, Sun and Jupiter on Mars can make Mars more assertive and less shy/passive. But your Aries on your Dsc i feel definitivly might also have an influence in what you want.

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posted February 06, 2024 11:17 AM            

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Originally posted by odalix:
Interesting about Neptune; I have a Leo sun but a stellium in the 12th house which is Piscean and I definitely have difficulty seeing myself. I attract Leos and Libras mostly.It's rare that the attraction is mutual which is puzzling because I don't know what energy I put out there.

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posted February 06, 2024 04:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
[QUOTE]For me liking someone to take initiative in some situations and liking to submit are the different things. I need my opportunity to lead as I believe I’m the one to make it work if the other party is willing to collaborate 😊
My mars is closer to Uranus than Neptune.
Neptune in my chart put fog everywhere. Sometimes I look around and wonder what is real.

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posted February 07, 2024 03:27 PM            

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Originally posted by kani:
I attracted Earthy types because that is what I lack in my natal chart. I'm very unlike a Taurus or Cap and that is what fascinated us with each other.

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posted February 09, 2024 04:51 AM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
There is more then Sun sign which attracts you might represent something that is aspecting their Venus or Moon or Mars or Sun and the same goes for you. You might have the Earth Signs in one of your relationship houses too or in the Water houses or Saturn might be doing something in your chart or you might have personal planets in Earth houses which has you drawn to them.

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I know it's not just sun sign. That's why I say Earthy types. My ex had Taurus sun and Cap ascendant and while the attraction was crystal clear due to our synastry, he is not the only Earth type that I attracted. It's with friends as well. My mars is in an Earth house and my North Node, too so that might play a part.

posted February 09, 2024 01:30 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
With Uranus on your Mars you might have some similirities with Aqua mars and their likes and dislikes esp if you have the opposition, square or conjunction. You might also deal with Males who are a bit unusual or who might have a problem having a "normal" relationship.

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