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posted August 20, 2025 04:14 PM            

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Sorry if this is wrong but those who have mommy issues due to this aspect did ur life get better after ur mom passed away

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posted August 20, 2025 04:15 PM            

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posted August 21, 2025 05:19 PM            

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Dad has this. And NO, they did not. He doesn't speak fondly of his Mom even after her passing.

I think if left unattended, the issues just mature in the place of hurt. You learn to steel yourself from affection. This even as you crave emotional intimacy, you paradoxically find it very frightening.

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posted September 01, 2025 10:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Hmmm:
Sorry if this is wrong but those who have mommy issues due to this aspect did ur life get better after ur mom passed away

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My ex has this (Saturn in Sagittarius, Moon in Pisces). I think his mom is still alive, but I don't see things ever improving - even if she was dead. He blames her for a lot. But he's also a narcissist, who was raised by a narcissist, so take that with a grain of salt.

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Lilith conjunct ASC in Taurus. Mostly fixed/cardinal energy. An emotional Cancer chicka. Pls send help

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posted September 13, 2025 08:46 AM            

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posted October 12, 2025 05:06 AM            

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posted October 14, 2025 11:04 AM            

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I have Cap Moon op Leo Saturn. I have an “umbilical love” for my mom (I went NC 2 years ago) and I know I’ll be free when she’s gone.
Edit: should add that Pluto squares all my personal planets, incl Moon, so my Moon is somewhat tainted..

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posted October 15, 2025 01:41 AM            

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I'd like to see a study on this.

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posted October 17, 2025 08:45 AM            

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posted November 01, 2025 02:00 PM            

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I have a conjunct Saturn/Moon. Lots of abandonment, shame and rejection issues from a fraught, complex and emeshed relationship with my mum. I went to live with my dad at 14 and didn't see my mum for 6 years. You carry your mum inside with you wherever you go. Traditional therapy helped as well as somatic and IFS.

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This is an intense aspect. One ex had this (moon in Scorpio exactly square Saturn in Leo). I started dating him thinking he was sweet and kind but also dependable, which he was.

But once I entered his life, I noticed he started abusing his mom a bit and I had no clue why, except the fact that my sun made a T-square with his moon/saturn square and it's possible my mere presence in their life was unknowingly triggering and stirring up their past issues.

It started when he told me he bought a big house and put his mom's name on it as well. Once the mom moved in she started doing some basic renovations, and when he found out after coming home from another state, he got ****** off. Later when he learned his mom had a lot of cash without telling him, he went mad. He told her to leave but kept her dog basically hostage, claiming he cared more about it. Then the mom took him to court for this pet issue (ongoing for a few years), and he told me they were going to court to fight over the house next. He also politically clashed with her.

Eventually I thought he was dramatic, selfish and attention-seeking, and got freaked out over how he would treat me, if he's treating his mom like that, so I broke up with him. That was one of the easiest breakups in my life.

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posted December 05, 2025 05:12 PM            

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