posted December 08, 2025 11:53 AM            

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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
And I feel like I’m being told I don’t feel enough, even when I feel I do.

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Excuse me for intruding, but who is telling you that?

It seems to me you're okay with who you are, but when you weigh it against outer standards, that is what is causing worry for you.

posted December 08, 2025 08:22 PM            

But usually it's the hardest right before it starts getting better.

posted December 10, 2025 04:28 PM            

Those watery planets would definitely color your moon, because the moon does not exist in a vacuum.

The late Princess Diana is an example of someone with Aquarius moon. She had Neptune in Scorpio trining her Cancer Sun and Mercury. She has never been accused of having cold detached emotions.

posted December 13, 2025 03:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage2:
The images are not showing up anymore, but when I looked at your chart 2 days ago, I noticed that while you do have Aqua moon, you have tons of planets in water signs.

Those watery planets would definitely color your moon, because the moon does not exist in a vacuum.

The late Princess Diana is an example of someone with Aquarius moon. She had Neptune in Scorpio trining her Cancer Sun and Mercury. She has never been accused of having cold detached emotions.

And lastly, if a particular astrological description does not fit you or you don't relate, it's okay, don't knock yourself out over it. There is so much we don't quite understand in astrology...

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posted December 13, 2025 12:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Moon in your 1st house changes the game. It makes one more sensitive.

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posted December 13, 2025 03:34 PM            

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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
Oh no it disappeared?! Do you know how to upload pics on here? I have no idea how to do it anymore

Thank you for taking the time to respond even if he hadn’t had a chance to look over my chart . The only water placements I have are Pisces sun, mercury, and Venus. My moon, Jupiter, Uranus and Neptune are in the 12th house but another astrologer told me that the 12th house placements does not give water traits to my moon… so I’m not sure

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I just checked again, and no worries, the pics are showing now. Maybe it was a glitch on my computer...

You have 3 PERSONAL planets (sun, mercury, and Venus) in Pisces, the wateriest sign there is!

posted December 14, 2025 03:10 PM            

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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
I thought my moon was in my 12th house?

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I use whole house sign.But yes,by Placidus its not. Its in your 12th.

With Moon in 1st house ♒, you perceive life(1st house) through your emotions. But since its in airy ♒(cerebral),your approach is more objective(rather than subjective).

So your perspective is always in communicating(air) how you feel(Moon). Analyzing with a fine toothcombe the emotions and translating them into logic

Your dependence on logic means that there is a strong emphasis on words, on communication and how well you express yourself. As well as how well you are received.

In these two things, you are sensitive. To understand. And to be understood.

Notice how Ic is in Mercury ruled Gemini? And Pluto ♐ sits to conjunct your Mc? But Pluto squares your Mercury-and this joins the Ic with the Mc. And Jupiter( ruler of Mc) conjuncts your Moon.

This means that you are driven by private,inner counsel in driving your public interaction. You try to align to your inner feelings in how you deal with the greater public.

So how you are seen publicly , affects you emotionally. And perhaps this could also be why you are so concerned about not being seen as "cold". Because you are not cold. Just very cerebral.

This means that when something upsets another close to you, your style of nurturing(Moon) is in discussing the issue, fleshing it out through reason and logic(Aqua).

Your compassion is through finding ways to remedy the wound caused with carefully chosen, deeply resounding words. Not a hug.

And it is in the former action that others experience the Moon in Aquarius as "cold". When most people are looking to connect with them via hugs, tea and sympathy.Aqua pulls out a book by ancient Greek school of philosophy Zeno of Curium on "Stoicism".🤷🏿

posted December 15, 2025 03:02 AM            

This especially when investigative Pluto is also squaring the Ic ruler Mercury? Emphasizing digging and the expression of depth in ideas(also word centred). Then session is over. Bring in Robert Hand.Coz i am stumped.

Sun-Ven are widely conjunct in Pisces. But then there is that verbal Mercury joining them toi. So even that aspect suggests words and expression, are a big part of the native's personality.

Moon in air isn't like Moon in water. These are two very different expressions of energy. This even if in house 12(as per Placidus).

If it don't fit. Then acquit🤣. Love that line. I was just reading what's there in the chart(with whole house sign). Maybe someone else will catch something I didn't 🙏🏿

posted December 15, 2025 03:55 AM            

I think Moon in the 12th house and also in Aquarius can make it a bit difficult to understand your own emotional world. Maybe… see if you can relate… I also have Moon in the 12th, and lots of planets in Aquarius and some Pisces influence. I think I really understood my emotional world after the age of 30. It’s not that I was disconnected when I was younger - I felt a lot, I was more sensitive to the environment than most people, but it was all private and I didn’t know how to communicate it. It was shielded, many times even from myself. The world rewards intellect and practicality far more than sensitivity and empathy, so we find ways to shield ourselves.

posted December 15, 2025 12:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:

When someone says"i don't care for words " and yet Gemini( the exchanger of ideas and intellect) is on their Ic? I stop everything. Coz there is nowhere else i can go.

This especially when investigative Pluto is also squaring the Ic ruler Mercury? Emphasizing digging and the expression of depth in ideas(also word centred). Then session is over. Bring in Robert Hand.Coz i am stumped.

Sun-Ven are widely conjunct in Pisces. But then there is that verbal Mercury joining them toi. So even that aspect suggests words and expression, are a big part of the native's personality.

Moon in air isn't like Moon in water. These are two very different expressions of energy. This even if in house 12(as per Placidus).

If it don't fit. Then acquit🤣. Love that line. I was just reading what's there in the chart(with whole house sign). Maybe someone else will catch something I didn't 🙏🏿

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posted December 15, 2025 05:11 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
This isn`t the first time the OP has made a similar post like this and no matter how many times people try to explain to her how an Air Moon might work in a Water house it`s never like "that" for her even when she is displaying her Airy side. The 12th house is your blind spots too and her Airy Aquarian Moon is in there so might be why she can`t see her "Airy" side so well. She clearly has a lot of indicators in her chart too that shows someone that may be more sensitive like her Pisces stellium and her 12th house Moon but it seems to not bring her any more understanding of why she is so sensitive. I hope she finds more confidence in herself and can get over this insecurity and embrace all sides of herself.

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posted December 16, 2025 01:01 AM            

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Originally posted by frida:
Be gentle with yourself. I am not a professional astrologer so most of my comments are based on personal experience. Do you think there might be a difficulty in matching your inner world (very receptive and sensitive) with the external world and that’s where the confusion comes from?

I think Moon in the 12th house and also in Aquarius can make it a bit difficult to understand your own emotional world. Maybe… see if you can relate… I also have Moon in the 12th, and lots of planets in Aquarius and some Pisces influence. I think I really understood my emotional world after the age of 30. It’s not that I was disconnected when I was younger - I felt a lot, I was more sensitive to the environment than most people, but it was all private and I didn’t know how to communicate it. It was shielded, many times even from myself. The world rewards intellect and practicality far more than sensitivity and empathy, so we find ways to shield ourselves.

Meditation and learning to notice and honor everything I feel helped.

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posted December 16, 2025 03:31 AM            

You can perhaps feel the energy, feel the atmosphere and things that many people miss. Maybe you feel it in your body. But not be overly expressive. You said that people don’t perceive you as cold, but Aquarius is not cold either (cold as in not empathetic, not able to feel)… just detached. That’s not the same. Being detached is not bad - it gives you and others space to be who you are without reactivity. Detachment doesn’t contradict with love either.

posted December 16, 2025 10:12 AM            

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Originally posted by frida:
You can be both sensitive (12th house) and detached (Aquarius) at the same time. Those are not mutually exclusive. Aquarius detachment doesn’t mean coldness - it means being able to be objective, look at situations from distance without getting entangled into emotions. And being emotional is not the same as being sensitive. Emotional is reactive. Sensitive has to do with sensing, perceiving, not necessarily with reacting and being carried away by emotions.

You can perhaps feel the energy, feel the atmosphere and things that many people miss. Maybe you feel it in your body. But not be overly expressive. You said that people don’t perceive you as cold, but Aquarius is not cold either (cold as in not empathetic, not able to feel)… just detached. That’s not the same. Being detached is not bad - it gives you and others space to be who you are without reactivity. Detachment doesn’t contradict with love either.

And lastly, you can be great with words in writing but not so good verbally face to face with someone. That’s all normal for a someone with strong Pisces influence.

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posted December 16, 2025 12:46 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Yes, exactly, fantastic explaination 😊 Something i have noticed with the OP is that she acts like a typical Aquarian Moon tbh but doesn`t feel like one deep down and therefore can`t relate to it even though us from the outside can sometimes clearly see her Aquarian side which is very typical of the 12th house making things blurry for the individual because the 12th house is your blind spots too. It`s nice to have a combo of elements it can give you many different great qualities.

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I think of inhabiting the 12th house as having access to super high resolution for empathy, spirituality, sensitivity, imagination... so "blind spots" are more like being in a vast world and not seeing all of it, or sometimes being afraid that what is out there in that complexity will break us so we resist going there. Someone with dominant earth in the chart for example may not even concern themselves with those matters, not have access, not see it, etc - they simply have different challenges.

It's a unique gift. On the opposite side, 6th house has super high resolution for all the practical, analytical, tangible things. Which is also a unique gift.

I think the reason it takes so long to understand ourselves when our personal planets are in the 12th house is that we live in the physical world, focused on our basic 5 senses. We don't get taught how to go beyond that.

posted December 16, 2025 09:32 PM            

Don't forget, that Moon in Aquarius, in the 12th house can also mean that you have a lot of compassion (12th house) for your family (Moon) and friends (Aquarius) too!