posted July 06, 2009 10:18 PM         

Indeed, while I criticize and label others as, for instance- "uncivilized", I am, in truth, doing exactly the same thing to myself- "categorizing" myself as an "uncivilized" person.

I shall rephrase what I had said, which, in this case, is the word, "uncivilized", into unempathic.

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/201458.html

The way you perceive me, PeaceAngel, is that I fear criticizm from others while carrying out my unjustifiable criticism onto the rest of the other LL members here.

The way you perceive me, PA, is that my approach toward other LL members here is about aggression, hostility, tactlessness, and about just that- particularly in the recent weeks, when I had been out of my mind- clinically, I would say. And yes, I would criticize myself for my own innuendos mercilessly.

PA, in spite of everything that has been said and done, I do respect your disposition, and for clarifying myself (it's funny how my intention of clarifying myself might very likely end up further mystifying my motives) as well as expressing my respect to you, PA- hence this thread.

THANK YOU RANDALL, OR ANY OF THE MODS, FOR CLOSING THIS THREAD.

posted July 06, 2009 10:36 PM         

Yes, that is how I perceive you.

I do think that you go off on tyrades and I must admit, that when I see a length of cut and past quotes and bolded replies, it puts me off and I don't read them. And that's not just you, there's a few Knowflakes that do that - and it just doesn't suit my attention span. So I tend to avoid those posts, generally, unless moderating is needed.

I think there are times when you over-explain yourself, where most people would have the ability to let things go. Eg. when Lara referred to you as D for Dervish and you made a long and manic post about it, when it was easily clear from observing Lara's personality that she would not have meant anything serious by it. My guess at the time was that she was being funny, but it turned out she was having brain farts. Which is pretty funny in it's own right.

The things you have to say - your points and your arguments - a lot of the time we are in agreeance - but the way you say it - I find you quite rude.

posted July 06, 2009 10:37 PM         

I just want to say thank you for expressing regret about your actions (if that is indeed what you did).
I could say a whole lot more, but I'm exercising restraint and practicing diplomacy, so I'll just say, Well Done, and hope for a better, more civilized and empathetic tomorrow.

PS: Instead of posting a public thread here at LL and demanding that it be closed after you speak your piece, if you wish to converse with a Moderator you can email us by clicking on the hyperlink at the top left corner of our forum header pages.

posted July 06, 2009 10:58 PM         

I don't recall the last time we were online at the same time. Damn those time zones.

posted July 06, 2009 11:27 PM         

I'm on holiday at the moment, hence my extra presence. Usually I'm doing volunteer work, but have today off. Catching up on housework instead. GREAT!

posted July 06, 2009 11:37 PM         

4 day housework weekend! Is that what Independence Day is about? I think not! You missed something somewhere.