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Antiquarianbookcollector
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posted July 24, 2009 12:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Antiquarianbookcollector     Edit/Delete Message
Cor, thanks for the reality check Lucia. I guess a big factor in my not confronting him would be me being wrong about this whole situation. Since we would be in the same field that would be awkward. Most of the time, I tell myself that I'm just suffering from the "Neptune goggles." Sorry Lucia and all, you must be so exasperated with me...

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Lucia23
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posted July 24, 2009 04:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
You're clearly obsessing and suffering and even grieving over this.

How about, instead of a big confrontation, going up to him and touching his wrist and saying, "Hi, I've been really wanting to talk with you more. Can I take you out to dinner Friday?"

Then he can either let you know he's not comfortable with that, or accept your offer.

I wouldn't normally advocate asking a man out (unless it feels great and natural to you, which it probably doesn't)--but at this point when his weird staring and your obsessing have gone on for months and it seems pretty clear that they could go on for still more months, why NOT get a bit of real closure?

If he turns you down, then you can probably start letting him go. If he says yes, then you get to spend time with him. You will know that YOU have been clear, so if he's deciding not to get involved it's not from a mistaken belief that you are not interested.

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posted July 24, 2009 10:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Antiquarianbookcollector     Edit/Delete Message
Edit: I didn't approach him. I just tried to tell myself that it wouldn't be anything. I have the feeling it might not be the best time yet.

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