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Cheshire Kat
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posted August 17, 2009 12:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cheshire Kat     Edit/Delete Message
As my LL posts this month has been the "sour and bitter" or the downright "depressing" kind >.<, I am very stressed out with adjusting right now and I apologise.

I found out on Thursday, My Capricorn friend was in the hospital. He passed out and hit his head and will not be out until Tuesday because of his heart problems. I am worried because I am here and he is there and there is no way I can comfort him.

I feel like I have given my close Leo friend awful love advice. She fell in love with her ex while still dating this Gemini ( I am friends with the Gemini as well) but she wanted to be back with her ex but not hurt the Gemini. I told her to be 100% honest with the Gemini, that you fell in love with your ex. Well she did that and the Gemini did not take it well and they got into this big argument that had my Leo friend call me in the early morning the next day in tears. I feel very responsible for this and as giving me some anxiety..

Also I had vented to my Pisces friend about my Leo friend and some bad things were said about my Leo friend on both ends of the conversation. That when my Pisces friend told me how so and so talked stuff about me in highschool that it didn't bother me so much after what I said about my Leo friend, I felt I deserved it and accepted as God's way of showing me "It's doesn't feel so good when it's you..". My Leo friend as been the most kindest person and she trusts me more then I really deserve.

That now on Friday, I will confess what I had vented about to my Leo friend, not what my Pisces friend said but all the nasty things I had said and felt at that moment. She may cry or may never speak to me again but I feel I have to be honest about it.

School starts tomorrow actually and I am nervous and I don't feel like I am good enough or deserve this..I am trying to change this attitude this year and atleast stay positive.

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Lucia23
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posted August 17, 2009 01:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
Lots of hugs and wishes of good luck, health, fun, and happiness to you and ALL of your friends.

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DepTaurus
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posted August 17, 2009 01:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DepTaurus     Edit/Delete Message
huge huge hugs to you your gunna do fine at school. and your friends will all be ok. dont worry.

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lechien
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posted August 17, 2009 05:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lechien     Edit/Delete Message
a big virtual hug (but with genuine quality!) from me too. all the complications are temporary... hang in there and don't be discouraged.

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cpn_edgar_winner
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posted August 17, 2009 06:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cpn_edgar_winner     Edit/Delete Message
hugs ck....school will be fine....and so will your friend, learning is a process. and you are learning in each of these situations, don't be too hard on yourself, and don't be too hard on your friend...life is going to take twists and turns. the fact that you care about being a good friend and not gossiping will make you a good friend who doesn't talk behind backs. everyone makes mistakes and today is a new day.

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wheels of cheese
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posted August 17, 2009 07:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for wheels of cheese     Edit/Delete Message
Big big hugs to you. This all sounds like some goddawful brain melt. But it will pass. Deep breaths.

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Yin
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posted August 17, 2009 08:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yin     Edit/Delete Message
Awwwww! BIG HUGS FOR YOU!

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Unmoved
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posted August 17, 2009 08:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Unmoved     Edit/Delete Message
Awwww... {{{{{{hugs}}}}}

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T
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posted August 17, 2009 01:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message

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katatonic
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posted August 17, 2009 01:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for katatonic     Edit/Delete Message
you show the big-ness of your heart in your post. here's a million hugs, take as many as you need today and keep the rest for next time... OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO........

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pire
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posted August 17, 2009 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pire     Edit/Delete Message
much love to you

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Cheshire Kat
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posted August 19, 2009 08:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cheshire Kat     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks everyone, I survived two days now going on my third lol.

I am trying to figure out what to say to my Leo friend or atleast how to explain myself to her, I really don't like making her or anyone cry for that matter..I am kind of bad at these things.

I know the worst thing I said was her codependency on these guys..I guess in a way I want to tell her that she can be strong with or without a boyfriend, this is going to be hard..

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cpn_edgar_winner
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posted September 08, 2009 01:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cpn_edgar_winner     Edit/Delete Message
heres a hug!

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jane
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posted September 10, 2009 10:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jane     Edit/Delete Message
CK, how are things?

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