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posted October 20, 2009 09:05 PM         

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I just realized i haven't been on here for about a week. something else happened since then he quit his job

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posted October 20, 2009 09:07 PM         

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The smiley icon shouldn't be in my last post i just posted so fast

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posted October 21, 2009 12:13 AM         

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He quit his job? Was he on the road to losing it?

Great! If he thinks that you and his mother are in cahoots. It means you mean business and he may not be able to snake and manipulate his way out so easily.

Is it possible to look for a place without him. I know you have lots on, children and pets, but give it a go. There may be something out there for you. Because you have children, agencies are more willing to help.

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posted October 21, 2009 12:35 AM         

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Gee, it sounds like I'm advocating for you to leave. If there is hope in re-uniting under healthier conditions then that would be awesome (maybe)....

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posted October 21, 2009 01:04 AM         

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I could find a place for me and my daughter. Its the pets that would make it hard. he wasnt going to lose his job.He just cant handle life.I wish things would straighten out because i hate change.
The thing is even if it gets better now at some point i have to leave i don't Love him not in that way if you know what i mean. i did when i married hm and for many years after but those feelings are dead and gone and their not coming back.

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posted October 21, 2009 01:54 AM         

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The more you speak about Dee, the more I see where you stand. Do you feel you are becoming clearer with where you need to go with your life?

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posted October 21, 2009 02:18 AM         

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Yes

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