posted February 05, 2010 05:17 PM         

The relationship mentioned in my other thread is a purely professional one. I know you'd like to think that all the women on LL are pining away over some guy romantically (so you have something to criticize and entertain yourself with). I think you should pay more attention to what you read.

I am 23 years old. I am very happy with the direction of my life. I am not interested in ANY sort of serious relationship right now (maybe sometime in my 30s I'd like to have a family.. but not for another decade). I'm very much focused on my friends, my family and particular things I'm working on. I feel like we're all a part of everything else, in a sense. I know you were being sarcastic, but I couldn't feel "lonely" because we are all surrounded by people, nature and the universe.

I'm only telling you all this.. because I get the feeling you won't stop. You've made sarcastic comments before. I just wanted to let you know that different people have different lives -- and your assumptions + slumping everyone in one basket is not very accurate.

posted February 05, 2010 05:25 PM         

I read your thread, and totally understand where you are coming from/what you were asking. I though it displayed a very mature and actually quite 'advanced' attitude towards your career. However, I had nothing to assist from an astrological perspective,

I have come to realise that professional success if so much to do with how you 'get on' with more senior people, and not necessarily how you 'perform'.

It might not be right, it's just how it is.

posted February 05, 2010 11:27 PM         

Mr. Entity -

From one entity to another - here is what I have to say to you. Please read it carefully.

Your reply was completely out of place on my thread and evidently sarcastic. It is obvious to me that you are working on the following assumption:

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I noticed that a lot of people here, not just in this thread but many, seem to be obsessed with searching or finding out about their love interest. Is it wrong that I find this vain, silly, childish, pretentious and almost meaningless of a search? Isn't there more important things to focus on and isn't it almost pointless to be preoccupied with these things?

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Nothing in my topic was love-related. If everything you READ appears love-related from your perspective (even MY thread where I clearly stated that was a *professional* situation) - then maybe you should be wondering why it is you have this strange perception - rather than - asking "why people on LL post love-related threads?"

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I believe that you will continue making these snippy sarcastic comments. If other people in your life, on and offline are OK putting up with this attitude problem of yours then you're welcome to keep this up with them. But I am NOT in this category of people.. so please think twice.

Please avoid commenting on my threads in the future, if your comment is entirely off-topic, DISRESPECTFUL, GRATUITOUS and unreasonably-sarcastic.

I find this offensive, not only to myself but to the relationship I was referring to and the person in question. I have a lot of respect for this person and you are implying we are in some sort of sexual relationship.

Whatever in the world you meant and how this was a joke from your perspective.. is beyond me.

It was disrespectful - Period.

posted February 05, 2010 11:36 PM         

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whoa, me? No

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I really have no respect for people who *both* take stabs and refuse to acknowledge that they did.

To put your VIEWS in context, the views that you believe are "blind" to Cara or anyone else on here. They are definitely NOT blind to me. I have a great nose for unjustified criticism and over-inflated egos.

Sanchenuss Quote 1:

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hmmm, judging from the chart, it looks like you are a very lonely girl. You are wanting anything to come into your life right now. This guy appears to enjoy having sex but he doesnt openly tell you this. You will make a good match only if you learn to communicate to him how lonely you are.

Peter? Yes, lord. I can see your house from up here.

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This comment was posted on my thread regarding a professional relationship. It was completely unrelated to anything I said.

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I noticed that a lot of people here, not just in this thread but many, seem to be obsessed with searching or finding out about their love interest. Is it wrong that I find this vain, silly, childish, pretentious and almost meaningless of a search? Isn't there more important things to focus on and isn't it almost pointless to be preoccupied with these things? Once again, I don't want to seem too judgemental and condescending but it was a feeling that came over me when seeing all of this obsession in finding out about love interests, most of them being unobtainable. I want to differentiate between curiousity and obsession.Some are curious and it is just a passing thought and I can understand that but there are others that seem obsessed and I think that this type of mentality can be detrimental. With Love, Sanchenuss.

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I've noticed that a lot of people here seem to use astrology as a reason to keep up their negative and selfish behaviors. "Oh, I have a so and so conjunction or you are so and so, this explains why you dominate your partner and won't change the way you think". This seems incredibly lazy to me and characteristic of a person who doesn't want to take responsibility for their own actions. This type of mentality is not good at all. This isn't the purpose of astrology.
As for getting upset that a potential partner has its relationship status set to single on something as mundane as facebook.... this is extremely, extremely, ridiculous. If you ever want to be involved in a meaningful relationship then you are going to have to learn to stop being so possessive and jealous. You do not own anyone. If you let something like facebook get in between your relationship or furthur your relationship, just think what would happen if you ever formed an actual relationship with someone?

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Again!! You did not READ the thread.. You say "a lot of people" and don't mention who you are referring to. The attitude you describe might exist - It might be *out there* but it definitely did not suit the posts on that thread. Perhaps you are reading your imagination and not the actual thread.

This person (GrlyGirl) replied to you that she and her bf were of different races and due to having been discriminated in the past she wasn't sure whether this was happening *again* and whether that was partially his reason to not acknowledge her as his GF on FB. Many people have family and friends on FB.. so its basically like not acknowledging someone as your SO publicly.
After she explained this to you.. Did you apologize? NO. You pretended you missed that

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More recently to GemGemGem – in her thread asking for a broken heart cure.. you said:

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3 ounces of sugar, throw it over your left shoulder
Chant: My broken heart comes from thinking that something belongs to me, My broken heart comes from thinking that something belongs to me
Go to bed with two candles lit, one at the foot of your bed and one at the head.
When you go to sleep and enter the dream world ask metapharcalus why do you think that you own people. He will explain your broken heart.
When you wake up, all will be healed

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You call people controlling ("owning" others). It's your favourite word. What the FUK are you talking about?

Do you think this is the only FEELING that exists? Is this the only FEELING on the range of human emotion that you are aware of?

How was it "controlling" for gemgemgem to have a broken heart? How the FUK would u know whether she has a broken heart because her cat died.. because her sis found out she has cancer or because her husband and her are getting a divorce or whatever else..

What in the world.. in her post could possibly lead to your assumption that she is controlling or that she needs to learn that she can't "own" people..

WHAT. THE. FUK??!

Further – How DARE you antagonize these people.. when you posted THIS!!!!!

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http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/202665.html

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also when I go out on the porch I notice this small stick and yesterday it had a big leaf over it connecting to a smaller leaf, there was another really small leaf closer to the center of the stick underneath it. I go went back outside and the big leaf was gone, there was no wind that day and the smaller leaf was still there. Today I went outside and there is a different big leaf going across the upper middle and there is a tiny leaf underneath the stick exactly parrallel to the stick. I made sure yesterday that these leaves were not there. It seems like I am being communicated to because I have no explanation how a really small leaf could get underneath this stick without someone putting it there and no one around me or no one I know would do this. Anyone think anything of this or am I just losing it?

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It is the most ridiculous thing I have EVER seen in a long time on a message board for someone who expects understanding for a post like the one above.. to turn on people, get on his HIGH HORSE - and criticize the way they use astrology - as though it's your place to tell others *how* to use astrology.

Is it my place to tell you you're insane because you think leaves communicate to you?

Is it my place to get sarcastic and tell you an alien race called "Yohoo" living in a different solar system is attempting to contact you (by use of leaves in your backyard) because you are the "chosen one" and you must find the orb that says: "in case of total destruction of the world please press blue button".. and then save us all from complete annihilation by the flying monkeys orbiting the galaxy.

What would you have said - if I was that sarcastic?

That is a rhetorical question ^

You can post what you like - It's a free world.. but DO NOT say anything to me .. because I am not interested in these snippy comments of yours. If you have something positive and interesting to contribute - then do that.. but this crap? Keep it to yourself!

posted February 06, 2010 12:56 AM         

"missed"

The “whoa me” wasn’t related to the No, me. “I have a great nose for unjustified criticism and over-inflated egos.” I don’t see how you can smell through a computer, ya heard?

posted February 06, 2010 02:00 AM         

Thank you.

I hope to see more of this..
And less of all the other stuff.

I like your leafy paragraph.. I love leaves, specially in autumn.

I wasn't saying leaves can't speak to us at all. I was saying that is *just* the kind of thing that a skeptic could target and make you appear foolish.. A great majority of people would be skeptical of that but here, you mostly received understanding.
Yet you are trying to make others appear foolish or "childish - vain" - whatever else you called it - for posting "love threads".
I don't think you would've liked the same sort of criticism being thrown at your own threads.

& I was going for a +10 on the attack.. but that's still ok lol
I was going to attack much earlier.. but I decided to shush.. because I thought you might leave or you might change.. Then it went on a few times - so I still didn't say much because no one else seemed to pay much attention.. But now you actually targeted my thread and I'd rather that not continue.. so I thought it was just about the right time to "attack".
But S - I didn't aim at you so I couldn't miss. I'm aiming at a goal and the goal is that you don't consistently patronize and criticize particular things and particular people, even more so when this involves personal-emotional experiences (with no justification – because I truly find it exaggerated & potentially hurtful, and thus deserving of an exaggerated come back).. Live and let live.

posted February 06, 2010 03:19 AM         

PETER! yes lord? COME HERE

PETER! COME HERE! yes lord?

posted February 08, 2010 11:08 AM         

Anybody who knows me and about my past know that I have a strong disdain for people being referred to as certain derogatory labels that imply low intelligence.

Raymond

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"Nothing matters absolutely;
the truth is it only matters relatively"

posted February 08, 2010 12:37 PM         

Sanchenus

youre only attracting some bad vibe sto oyyourself by doing what you´re doing..why dont you stop and look at yourself?

you dont want to help people here,so help yourself first and if you see that you have something important to share,then you will be welcomed here.

maybe the leafs were trying to say that to you....we didnt judged you that time,did we?