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Yin
Knowflake Posts: 1335
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2010 08:20 PM
 
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We are all only human, we are all flawed, we all have the potential to change or to fail, and we are all inherently selfish.
...and we have the capacity to love and forgive. Amen.  IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
Moderator Posts: 3300
From: Dayton,Ohio USA
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 22, 2010 08:22 PM
Wink;
Notice how I said "trying."  I do the same as you do. I cannot help it, I am double fire, if I am excited about a relationship/person, I don't know how to "act," I only know how to "be." And that would be FULL STEAM AHEAD. Trouble witH this, is what one of my exes told me, he said... If you are this into me this soon, it makes me wonder about your intentions, and if they are serious. If you act this way with me, you probably have acted this way before. (true) So, see, some people WANT to go agonizingly slow, to test the seriousness of your intent.
It may be a really outdated method, but, it DOES have logic behind it. *And I know logic appeals to you, as well. BUT DO YOU SEE HOW SERIOUSLY SKEWED THIS ALL IS?? We are saying, Oh be open, let your lover do what he/she wants, give freedom, and then we are saying, hold back your feelings, don't tell, play by the rules of your Grandmother! I swear, sometimes I just wanna throw in the towel. ugg. blech.
*But I know I won't!!! I hate living with myself sometimes!! Ahhhhhhhhhh!!!! (I just ran off screaming into the night, brb.)
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Valus
Knowflake Posts: 2454
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2010 09:32 PM
I just think it's funny...If you left them their freedom,
they wouldn't be able to "cheat". But you make laws only God can make,
and you're shocked when they're broken. Yes, it's funny.
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GypseeWind
Moderator Posts: 3300
From: Dayton,Ohio USA
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 22, 2010 09:41 PM
I would call that irony, not exactly comedy.But, V, you see, if a certain person was up front and said that these things could happen, it would be different. (and I know you said, what woman would look at you twice if you were honest, you may be surprised there!) but, when someone is feeding me blatant bullcrap, about me being the only, only - then, I am going to be ****** off when I find out different, because that was a LIE. If someone will lie about one thing, won't they lie about lots of things? BTW, your posts tonight made me think, and I know that is usually your intention. So, I sent a message to a person, saying that I am no longer mad at them for doing a certain thing, and, I had "no right" to be mad in the first place. Now said person is sulking. It can be a no win sitchyashun sometimes, you know? But, then again, I do choose them, so, again, it IS my fault!!
I have flawed "choosing skills." IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
Knowflake Posts: 2286
From: Bay Area, CA
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 22, 2010 10:16 PM
Gypsee, I think you're awesome and there's absolutely nothing 'wrong' with you.
Flaws are part of the beauty of the tapestry. I think you give some people waaaaaaaaay too much credit when they ought to be just drop-kicked to the curb. But we tend to do that when we love people, so it happens. IP: Logged |
WinkAway
Knowflake Posts: 435
From: The great beyond
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2010 10:23 PM
LOL Gypsee.. welcome to the flawed choosing skills club. Our members are vast. No application nessecary because chances are, you didn't choose correctly to join us anyway lol. And that's about the communication part. If I had talked with my partner about what we both expected in a relationship, I would expect them to honor that. If he decided to go a different way, then at least have the deceancy to talk to me about it. I would do the same. It's about having respect for each other. If you don't respect me enough to discuss your intentions then **** off. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
Moderator Posts: 3300
From: Dayton,Ohio USA
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 22, 2010 10:54 PM
Thanks, MVM, I just love people, flaws and all...Yes, I do that, it's my nodes fighting. Scorpio SN vs. Taurus NN, those two will battle to the death I think!! Hey, Wink, we could start a "flawed choosing club" on FB. I've seen alot stranger clubs! LOL! Yeah, communication.
I'm forever going around saying, "say what you mean, and mean what you say!!" (I did join that club on FB, btw!) But, I tend to forget that for some people that is like pulling teeth!
Some people JUST CAN'T say what they mean, for a myriad of reasons.
But there is that human tapestry thing again, I suppose it would be boring if we were all the same.  IP: Logged |
vapor-lash
Knowflake Posts: 1677
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Registered: Nov 2009
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posted April 23, 2010 05:45 PM
Gypsee -- quote:
Yes, I do that, it's my nodes fighting. Scorpio SN vs. Taurus NN, those two will battle to the death I think!
lol I have the same Nodes.. and also Venus conj NN and Pluto conj SN. This tug of war has been a huge theme in my life. It does feel like a battle to the death at times.
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