posted April 29, 2010 06:58 AM         

I haven't had a single eeny weeny doubt and i always have one niggly doubt when i start a relationship....

this time doubt and fear are 100% absent.

Mind you, this time HE came to me having done some research and told me he thought l was his twin flame.
Having had some quite spooky synchronicity moments and full on telepathy where we can even be together and feel each other when apart, i'm beginning to think we are.

It's great when you don't have to question anything.

posted April 29, 2010 08:31 AM         

we are very blessed. No doubts!!! Finally I realise how it's supposed to feel instead of subconsciously trying to fit my round peg into a square hole !!!!

posted April 29, 2010 09:22 AM         

I've been committed to my husband 26 years.
Maybe I have too much Virgo doubter in me but I think that would make me a "realist" vs. my Piscean "illusionist" nature. I'm working on "the happy medium."

Anyways, I love and need to hear your stories of positive encouragement.

posted April 29, 2010 09:26 AM         

Wait, are there any doubts?

posted April 29, 2010 11:40 AM         

Lara, it is just hard for me to take your words seriously because I've seen you claim around 3 guys/relationships as you finding your "Twin Soul" in the past couple years I've seen you around here. I realize that is just your fiery nature (which I don't have as much of) but I had the urge to ask why you thought the other one's were, and why you think THIS time is different but then I realized you had answered that. This time, there is no doubt.

posted April 29, 2010 12:29 PM         

I know and knew I had many doubts with my previous relationships.
Hoped they each would work out in the long run, but things only got worse.

Like Lara,
I was 42 also before the real thing came into my life,
And soon after I'd given pretty much given up any hope of it finding me.....
when I was not looking,
not expecting it!

Key things here, is to be totally yourself, no frills, let the other see you as you are normally, and no secrets, no games or forcing......let it just happen and unfold naturally!
Be best friends first!

posted April 29, 2010 12:41 PM         

and thin!

This relationship began when I was 400 pounds, and more disabled than I am now!
(this relationship, intense friendship, love, has been going on 13 years to date)
He is 15 years younger.
We just magically clicked!
We totally enjoy each others' company and he gave me and still does, in my personal opinion, the BEST compliments I have ever been given by a partner!
he said:

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I love your beautiful mind and your beautiful soul!

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I can see the real you inside, and you are more beautiful than any I have ever known!

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posted April 29, 2010 02:25 PM         

MysticMelody - actually it was IQ that said my ex was my Twin Flame. The other relationships were my marriages and i determined that they were very close soul mates

I never said that either of them were my Twin Flames.

I'm not saying that now either, he is. I am just going with the flow and being happy. I don't mind if he is my Twin or not; i'm happy and that is all i care about. It is highly possible we are Twin Flames but hey; who cares!!!
I don't. I'm not even analysing our synastry because i don't need to. We have really great synastry.

interestingly though, i read on the internet that if you think someone is your twin flame then it might possibly be that they precede your twin flame.

posted April 29, 2010 02:55 PM         

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Finally I realise how it's supposed to feel instead of subconsciously trying to fit my round peg into a square hole !!!!

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And soon after I'd given pretty much given up any hope of it finding me.....
when I was not looking,
not expecting it!

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posted April 29, 2010 03:20 PM         

this makes sense to me because it seems like people get closer and closer to "the one" each relationship, if there is such a thing... that we have certain lessons to learn and if we don't finish with one, they appear again with others... hmmm... I don't know... just been considering these things lately

posted April 29, 2010 03:26 PM         

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this makes sense to me because it seems like people get closer and closer to "the one" each relationship, if there is such a thing

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posted April 29, 2010 04:41 PM         

Yes Listenstotrees - interesting.

LEXX - awwww your beloved says the same things as mine does!!!!! Mine told me the other day that when we pass over we will turn into an eternal blue flame.

We are best friends first. We are amazingly similar with almost identical life paths, yet we come from completely the opposite ends of the spectrum. In fact, if i had not emailed him on his website - the chances of us bumping into each other in real life "now" would have been about 0.01% because we are from such opposing walks of life, even though we have had the same experiences, same relationships, same careers and even been at the same places at the same time spanning back 20 years ago

We are like non-identical twins. We have the same taste in everything, some of the same furniture, same vision, same attitude, outlook etc etc and we even defrost the same food to eat in the evening LOL
It's hilarious!! I will ask him what he ate for dinner and he will have eaten exactly the same meat and vegetables that i have.

Do you guys have these funny similarities?

posted April 29, 2010 11:55 PM         

This is the first time I have ever been with someone who I share such compatibility;- emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually (or sharing a path). I have never known a connection like this one, ever. It feels so natural. I could talk about some of the synchronicities I experienced that indicated to me when we first started talking that he is the one....but leaving all that aside the connection we share is just so incredible. Yet as you and your partner are, we also are from very different walks of life.

I can't say for sure if he is literally my "twin flame" (if such a thing exists)....but I feel inside that he is the one I have been searching for, and am meant to be with. If there are such things as twin flames, whatever these are, then perhaps we are.

I wrote something for those who are lonely. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/003821.html

posted April 30, 2010 10:48 AM         

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I have experienced much loneliness. I would like the happiness that we have found bring others hope, rather than make them more sad about what they haven't yet found. It is only a matter of time. The only thing that seems to make sense is that we come into this world to learn that we are co-creators (able to manifest our dreams). If one feels deep inside that there is someone out there for them who they haven't yet found, chances are those feelings are real. Our dreams can really come true, but it it a question of time. I've read that we don't always get what we want straight away, but we get what we need so that we may grow, learn, evolve. I know that this doesn't explain all the painful things that souls go through in this world, because I don't think there should be as much suffering that there is in the world anyway. But I best not go off on a ramble.

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posted April 30, 2010 11:29 AM         

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It is like "coming home".
It is a dance of the heart and soul that cannot end, the ethereal music of the two souls blending in a symphony that would make even the gods cry.♥

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posted April 30, 2010 11:38 AM         

I appreciate you. Just wanted you to know that, and to share this song with you.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X_Ji83e4mUA

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