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Topic: The Dark Side of the Light Chasers
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Valus Knowflake Posts: 2691 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 04, 2010 02:15 PM
The Dark Side of the Light Chasers: Reclaiming Your Power, Creativity, Brilliance, and Dreams http://www.amazon.com/Dark-Side-Light-Chasers-Reclaiming/dp/1573227358 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Editorial Reviews Amazon.com Review We know the shadow by many names: alter ego, lower self, the dark twin, repressed self, id. Carl Jung once said that the shadow "is the person you would rather not be." But even if you choose to hide your dark side, it will still cast a shadow, according to author Debbie Ford. Rather than reject the seemingly undesirable parts of ourselves, Ford offers advice on how to confront our shadows. Only by owning every aspect of yourself can you achieve harmony and "let your own light shine," she explains. "The purpose of doing shadow work, is to become whole. To end our suffering. To stop hiding ourselves from ourselves. Once we do this we can stop hiding ourselves from the rest of the world." As threatening as shadow work may seem, it is often very effective in creating transformation. Ford's step-by-step guidebook is modeled on a highly successful course she developed about embracing the shadow. Ultimately, she helps readers illuminate the gifts and strengths that lie within the shadows. Although this works sound vague, clouded in dark metaphors, Ford manages to make it clear and specific. She has the writing gifts of a successful seminar leader--inspirational, trustworthy, and able to convey murky material with grace and ease. --Gail Hudson From Publishers Weekly
Everyone possesses the entire range of human traits and emotions, "the saintly and the cynical, the divine and the diabolical, the courageous and the cowardly" contends Ford, a faculty member of California's Chopra Center for Well-Being. The problem, as Ford (and Freud) define it, is that in growing up, people suppress those behaviors, thoughts, feelings and characteristics that are unacceptable within their particular environments. But rather than daily sessions on the couch, Ford advocates re-imagining and reclaiming lost aspects of self, urging readers to "unconceal" and embrace those traits buried in their "shadow," in order to find their "gift." She offers exercises designed to bring such traits to the surface, including directed self-questioning; listing one's characteristics for closer examination of positives and negatives; and "discharging toxic emotions" physically. Her advice is often drawn from anecdotes of experiences with friends and in workshops that she has taught or attended, and from her own struggles with various aspects of her personality. What some will see as disarming simple methodology may seem shallow to those with a more analytical bent. But even those not looking for the "Resistant Rita," "Lovegirl Laurie," "My-way Marvin" or "Competent Ken" locked inside them may find him or her in spite of themselves.
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teasel Knowflake Posts: 877 From: Ohio Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 04, 2010 02:19 PM
This is a good book. IP: Logged |
Yin Knowflake Posts: 1464 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 04, 2010 02:21 PM
Looks good.IP: Logged |
Valus Knowflake Posts: 2691 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 04, 2010 02:37 PM
Yup.IP: Logged |
mermaid26 Knowflake Posts: 303 From: just visiting you know Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 04, 2010 02:46 PM
I'm about half way through this. Works for me. It's helping me handle some people in my life better, which is always a GOOD thing.IP: Logged |
mermaid26 Knowflake Posts: 303 From: just visiting you know Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 04, 2010 02:47 PM
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mermaid26 Knowflake Posts: 303 From: just visiting you know Registered: Jun 2009
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mermaid26 Knowflake Posts: 303 From: just visiting you know Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 04, 2010 03:44 PM
Valus, have you ever read "Heaven Knows What" by Grant Lewi? I have two copies. A lovely Scorpio friend gifted them to me a while back. I find his insights profoundly accurate.IP: Logged |
SunChild Moderator Posts: 695 From: Melbourne. Victoria. Australia Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 04, 2010 09:29 PM
"Thy character shows many a beautiful side, and many an ugly flaw. Thou hast to thank for both, for they are the result of thy previous experience and thoughts....
...The karmic powers, however, beheld all thy deeds in former lives, and all thy most secret thoughts and feelings, and determined accordingly thy present self and thy present mode of life... ...My spectral form is woven out of thine own life's record ...As a form visible to thyself I will never for an instant leave thy side, once thou hast crossed my Threshold. ...Seek not, then, to cross this Threshold until thou dost feel thyself entirely free from fear and ready for the highest responsibility. Hitherto I only emerged from thy personality when death recalled thee from an earthly life; but even then my form was veiled from thee. ...thou has formed me, but by doing so, thou hast undertaken, as thy duty, to transform me.... -the guardian of the threshold The student's preparation must aim at enabling him to endure the terrible sight without a trace of timidity and, at the moment of the meeting, to feel his strength so increased that he can undertake fully conscious the responsibility for transforming the beautifying Guardian.
the second warning: Only the esoteric student learns what it means to be entirely cut off from his family, national, or racial spirit. ... ...For everything inculuted by education completely melts away when the threads binding will, thought, and feeling are severed.. ...Utter darkness, relieved only by the rays issuing from the Guardian himself, unfolds before the student...
"step not across my Threshold until thou dost clearly realize that thou wilt thyself illumine the darkness ahead of thee; take not a single step forward until thou art positive that thou hast sufficient oil in thine own lamp. The lamps of the guides whom thou hast hitherto followed will no longer be available to thee." (edited to add in the source, "how to know higher worlds and its attaintment" Rudolph Steiner. IP: Logged |
shura Knowflake Posts: 224 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 06, 2010 11:18 AM
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Valus Knowflake Posts: 2691 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2010 01:16 PM
mermaid,I'll check it out, thanks. I know I've come across some of his interpretations before. I've read a lot of astrology books. I'd recommend Jan Spiller to you. I want to read more Jeffrey Wolf Green, myself, but I'll put Lewi on my list. IP: Logged |
Valus Knowflake Posts: 2691 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2010 01:28 PM
Sunchild,I think my path is different. You might want to skip my thoughts because they may not be useful, but only confusing to you, on the path you've chosen. For what they are worth, and for whom they are meant: Nobody prepares for the next step. Nobody is ever ready for that. If it's an authentic awakening, there's no preparation for it. Everything you relied upon is thrown into chaos. How do you prepare for that? You don't. All efforts to prepare will be rooted in the old, not the new, way of seeing. You can't prepare to see things a new way. You just trust. You give yourself to it. And it gives you back Something Else. A new self. If it's an authentic step. IP: Logged |
Valus Knowflake Posts: 2691 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2010 01:44 PM
Some close their eyes so they won't see. They fear that, if they see, they'll be responsible for what they see. In their hearts, they say, "We are not ready to see, because we are not ready to do." But it's better to see, and not do, than to neither see nor do. The soul is torn asunder by seeing and not doing, yet this is a necessary step in the evolution of the soul.Before we can be willing to do, we must be willing to see. We cannot prepare to do the higher good before we have seen the deeper evil. And we cannot consent to both simultaneously. We can only consent to see. But for that, we are never prepared, since, to be prepared to see is to be prepared to do, -- and we cannot be prepared to do what we have yet to see! We can only come to terms with our responsibility after we have seen, and not before.
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shura Knowflake Posts: 224 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 06, 2010 05:02 PM
Valus, I see that your comment wasn't directed to me, but I hope you won't mind if I add an opinion to the pot anyway. I see from your post that you sense (and perhaps know firsthand?) the overwhelming experience of spiritual awakening. I agree. It is so 'other' it can't be explained. Maybe the disagreement here is the result of mismatched definitions? 'Preparation' is not merely explanation. Preparation places the student in the correct state, by which he will more properly assimilate the newfound information and experiences. In this sense, preparation is not only possible, it is essential. Without preparation, firsthand spiritual knowledge will be misunderstood at best ... and possibly even cause harm. It might require many years to undo that sort of damage. In other words, it would be unwise to drop a 10 year old off in the middle of the South Bronx and advise him to explore at will. Possibly the 10 year old will emerge unscathed. But if it were your child, would you chance it? IP: Logged |
SunChild Moderator Posts: 695 From: Melbourne. Victoria. Australia Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2010 06:53 PM
Shura, beautifully said, thank you. I was about to reply to Valus but did not feel totally inspired to write this morning, a little tired, so thank you so much for expressing it much better than I could have.
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Dervish Knowflake Posts: 558 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted May 06, 2010 08:21 PM
People who can't accept their own dark side often persecute it (or what they perceive as "it") in others. Such are the cause of many moral crusades and inquisitions. It's one reason why I liked the saying from Magic: The Gathering (*), "Those who fear the dark have never seen what the light is capable of." (*I've never played, and I only have one novel that I haven't yet read, I just came across the statement and kept it.) IP: Logged |
mermaid26 Knowflake Posts: 303 From: just visiting you know Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 06, 2010 08:40 PM
Valus, do you have a specific Jeffrey Wolf Green book that you would recommend? Earlier today I had actually narrowed in my mind a focus to Evolutionary astrology. LOA. For what it's worth, I see both sides of you and I choose to focus on your brilliance. Glad to know someone like you. (and Yin too.)IP: Logged | |