posted November 24, 2010 04:02 AM         

Randall,

Firstly I wanted to say that I have been coming on here for years and I have never had an issue with yourself or anyone on here and neither has Spanky. In fact I don't think I have ever spoken with you because I am always on Astro2. Anyways that day I woke up and found out Spanky had been banned, I got on my computer and read through the thread within minutes of you banning her and I do admit I was pi$$ed off you banned my friend especially once I read what was going on and she didn't do anything wrong. There was no foul language or any abuse towards anybody. Ami kept bringing up your name even though she never mentioned you. She kept insinuating that she knew it was you. I don't feel the need to message you privately because I would prefer it happened publicly so that everyone else could see what really went on...

Spanky quoted:

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PS AMI - You misunderstand & I need to clear this up.

I am not opposed to those threads & as you've seen, some damn naughty things can & do come out of my mouth quite frequently.

What has sickened me is the blatant innuendo coming from a man almost 50 to a young impressionable girl.
I don't care what other people call it, I say it's predatory & makes me wanna hurl my breakfast.
Sorry for the misunderstanding ladies. I have no beef with you. Ami, take a chill pill sweetie, it's all good.

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Regardless of what she has said here she has stated her personal opinion which shouldn't be discriminated just because your the webmaster. I understand this is your website but to compare this place to your personal home when this is a "public forum" is a bit ridiculous. - referring to Ami.

Now after Spankys comment Ami commented:

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I am glad we are friends again, Spanky
The thing about LL is that it is Randalls home, if you will.
He gives us LL as a gift. Most people have never even donated anything to him.
This is all his gift to US.
He allows us in as guests by his generousity.
It is not right to be in his home and complain about him in such a way
I would like you to erase it, Spanky,if you would so he would not have to see it.
I will erase my post ,too.
Ask your heart what is the right thing to do.
I trust you to do what feels right to you.

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Can somebody please point out where Spanky mentioned your name? I believe your not even 50 am I right? It was AMI ANNE who accused her of talking about yourself. Had Spanky directly referred to you I am alost certain she would have agreed with Ami rather than object her point of view. She furter wrote comments such as ..

Why do you mention Randall specifically Ami? I mentioned no names & post no links to infer him. - I'm also curious where you came up with this Ami?
We have a differing opinion on my original question & that's cool Ami. She was referring to your initial post/misunderstanding prior to your accusations.
To each their own I guess.
PS as ps not PlutoSquared
I'll not apologize or remove my words. That implies that I have done something wrong & I haven't. - What is she apologising for Ami? Which of the above comments were addressed to you Randall?

EFIT - As I understand it Randall created a public forum based on Linda Goodman & her principles and life's work. One of which was an open attitude to discussion.
I do have that right don't I? - We all reserve the right to have that. An opinion regardless of what the matter is. I also believe as Webmaster you need to maintain your sense of equilibrium and remain subjective .

Again spanky commented saying to Ami.. "Still not mentioning Randall here Ami" and then Randall commented after it and didn't have a problem with it at that point until Spanky commented 3 more times to which she understood was "either party with us or F OFF". Fair enough Spanky doesn't need to post there if she doesn't like it but is she not entitled to give any feedback? Is it only Nickig's or Frauleins opinion that matters? We have all been regulars on here for many long years and to mention that Pluto Squared is loyal is a JOKE! She's been on here for 3 months.

Ok before I end up all over the place trying to explain it in the end I commented back saying something which wasn't out of conext or rude in any way and was a response to your message saying who the F do you thnk you are to my friend. Of course I will defend her because I am loyal to my friends. At that point in time I was not rude to you either. But guess what happened? Within minutes my initial comment was DELETED and I was banned as well. This time I signed back on with my other username because I was fired up and mad at the fact that you deleted the thread and my post. I retaliated and wanted to get my message across but this time came back with something not so nice but I felt you used your power over us to manipulate the situation which resulted in me posting F YOU everywhere.

I have had times on here where people have said some really nasty things to me including calling me a FAT PIG and a FAT COW (Here is a previous thread- http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/014733-3.html) and I didn't come this close to going insane ever but I love Spanky and the minute her or some of my other friends are not allowed or banned from here I don't want to be here either without them. Just like you I have Virgo rising and I am a Cancerian which happened to be provoked on a Full moon. I am very protective of those who I love and care about. I don't even get offended easily and have never provoked or insulted people with intention to hurt their feelings.

Note to Fraulein (PS) and NickiG: I also wanted to add that I got banned and my posts were deleted prior to me posting F YOU comments everywhere get your facts right before you talk sh1t!

I felt as if there was no justice in what happened and I retaliated.

posted November 24, 2010 04:56 AM         

star of venus girl, please point out to me where anyone in this thread "bashed" libra's?

and people that are saying things are disrespectful, which really aren't. knowflakes are used to open discussions and every little thing said isn't.... oooh thats disrespectful to master randall. mostly the butt kiss brigade. notice i did not say anyones name, notice i did not attack anyone. if the shoe fits, wear it. but if you ask me, that is what is the real problem is here right now. knowflakes are used to being able to have differing opinions without being pounced on for having them.

posted November 24, 2010 05:49 AM         

Does that make them wrong? No.
Does my Aquarian habit of picking a side regardless of whether it's the popular one and loudly proclaiming my choosing make me right?
No.
Just pointing out the difference.

And Starr of Venus was right. Without peacemaking Librans sometimes the world would spontaneously combust.
I merely asked Ami if she was one, due to her predilection for occasionally playing devils advocate whilst sprinkling fairy sparkles at the same time...

And she correctly guessed that I was an irritating Aquarian with a big opinionated mouth

Footnote to Ami
With no malice or sarcasm intended. Thank you.I take that as a compliment.
It's nice to be recognised for what you are.
And I would never deny it.

posted November 24, 2010 05:59 AM         

I agree about T. I'm gutted to see her go and I'm shocked but not surprised to see b1tches spreading her emails
I swear, there are way too many people here will to 'sit on LL's face and tell me that you love me' at whatever cost and it's disgusting.

This is why I pushed for truth and why I will stand up to the Frauleins an are lickers in this world.

T was one of the most genuine and kindest, gentlest people on here and I hope whoever fcuked her over gets a giant universal slapping
Grrrrr

posted November 24, 2010 06:25 AM         

And I said that to put it out there because of something that was said to me recently. That's all. Don't want to make a thing of it.

posted November 24, 2010 07:52 AM         

Stage 1) Post normally.
Stage 2) Arguing / flaming.
Stage 3) The passive-aggression of self-imposed ban requests (unbelievable lol) when it's just as easy to simply not post.
Stage 4) Sentimentality overdrive; the return to posting following a period of abstainence, albeit with a slightly more sheepish deameanour, aplogetic tone, but with a thinly disguised ravenous hunger for sympathy and positive-reinforcement.
Stage 5) The reciprocal and frenzied posting of red hearts, and meaningless apologies.
Stage6) Group applause and self-praise.
Stage7) Confusion by onlookers.
Stage 8) The seeds are sown, but temporaily put on hold for next weeks argument and a return to stage 1.

Please let this entertaining cycle never cease. xx (they're the letter x by the way, not kisses)

posted November 24, 2010 08:25 AM         

This site would have become stagnant as a pond if things had been allowed to stay under the carpet. I don't see the point of being right personally - thats kind of ego driven, imho.

posted November 24, 2010 08:27 AM         

* Comfort foods, indulgences.
* Family intensity - power dynamics, demands to stay in control, fear of emotions
* The dam bursting from stress....a time of decompression.
* Finding grounding by allowing emotions to live.
* Integrating your emotional needs, in your grand plan.
* Taking refuge in cozy atmospheres - your home with tea, a potluck with friends, or family time.

* Moon opposite Pluto (Cancer Moon!!!)
* Moon square Saturn"

posted November 24, 2010 08:46 AM         

And here are a flotilla of PDF hearts for:

Spanky :Heart:

T

and Captn

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