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Topic: Everyone plz helps me to get my cancer guy bak!
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Tiffany920
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Sydney
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 06, 2011 04:12 AM
  
quote:
Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit:
((((Roshanrai))))
You son is SO beautiful. You are very fortunate! I see joy in his heart, he IS a happy baby indeed!You have such a sensitivity and kindness about you! I can feel so much love from you when I read these words and I KNOW you are completely genuine and these are heartfelt words  Thank you. Tiffany was not the only one that needed to read this today 
OMGGGGG! anyone hear me????!!!
guess wat haapened jus now??!
he emailed me!!!!!!!!!
"Hey I hope things r working out ok 4 u thank u 4 giving me space.
If u want 2 talk or nething I'm ready ok.
I'm sorry the way I had 2 push u away but I hope u understand y I did it.
N no I never moved on it was the only thing I could say 2 push u away."
so wats goin on now? anyone plzzz read me comment asap!!
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Tiffany920
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Sydney
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 06, 2011 04:12 AM
quote:
Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit:
((((Roshanrai))))
You son is SO beautiful. You are very fortunate! I see joy in his heart, he IS a happy baby indeed!You have such a sensitivity and kindness about you! I can feel so much love from you when I read these words and I KNOW you are completely genuine and these are heartfelt words Thank you. Tiffany was not the only one that needed to read this today
OMGGGGG! anyone hear me????!!!
guess wat haapened jus now??!
he emailed me!!!!!!!!!
"Hey I hope things r working out ok 4 u thank u 4 giving me space.
If u want 2 talk or nething I'm ready ok.
I'm sorry the way I had 2 push u away but I hope u understand y I did it.
N no I never moved on it was the only thing I could say 2 push u away."
so wats goin on now? anyone plzzz read me comment asap!!
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Tiffany920
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Sydney
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 06, 2011 04:12 AM
quote:
Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit:
((((Roshanrai))))
You son is SO beautiful. You are very fortunate! I see joy in his heart, he IS a happy baby indeed!You have such a sensitivity and kindness about you! I can feel so much love from you when I read these words and I KNOW you are completely genuine and these are heartfelt words Thank you. Tiffany was not the only one that needed to read this today
OMGGGGG! anyone hear me????!!!
guess wat haapened jus now??!
he emailed me!!!!!!!!!
"Hey I hope things r working out ok 4 u thank u 4 giving me space.
If u want 2 talk or nething I'm ready ok.
I'm sorry the way I had 2 push u away but I hope u understand y I did it.
N no I never moved on it was the only thing I could say 2 push u away."
so wats goin on now? anyone plzzz read me comment asap!!
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Tiffany920
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Sydney
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 06, 2011 04:12 AM
quote:
Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit:
((((Roshanrai))))
You son is SO beautiful. You are very fortunate! I see joy in his heart, he IS a happy baby indeed!You have such a sensitivity and kindness about you! I can feel so much love from you when I read these words and I KNOW you are completely genuine and these are heartfelt words Thank you. Tiffany was not the only one that needed to read this today
OMGGGGG! anyone hear me????!!!
guess wat haapened jus now??!
he emailed me!!!!!!!!!
"Hey I hope things r working out ok 4 u thank u 4 giving me space.
If u want 2 talk or nething I'm ready ok.
I'm sorry the way I had 2 push u away but I hope u understand y I did it.
N no I never moved on it was the only thing I could say 2 push u away."
so wats goin on now? anyone plzzz read me comment asap!!
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Tiffany920
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Sydney
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 06, 2011 04:13 AM
quote:
Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit:
((((Roshanrai))))
You son is SO beautiful. You are very fortunate! I see joy in his heart, he IS a happy baby indeed!You have such a sensitivity and kindness about you! I can feel so much love from you when I read these words and I KNOW you are completely genuine and these are heartfelt words Thank you. Tiffany was not the only one that needed to read this today
OMGGGGG! anyone hear me????!!!
guess wat haapened jus now??!
he emailed me!!!!!!!!!
"Hey I hope things r working out ok 4 u thank u 4 giving me space.
If u want 2 talk or nething I'm ready ok.
I'm sorry the way I had 2 push u away but I hope u understand y I did it.
N no I never moved on it was the only thing I could say 2 push u away."
so wats goin on now? anyone plzzz read me comment asap!!
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Tiffany920
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Sydney
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 06, 2011 04:16 AM
im confused now, so is he sayin he doesnt hv a gf now? but tats wat he said to me on the fone, n i talked his sis on facebook too, she said there WAS a girl came over their place n stuffs, so wat does he mean now? is he lyin?IP: Logged |
Tiffany920
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Sydney
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 06, 2011 04:37 AM
"I said it so u would stop trying 2 c me or b with me"IP: Logged |
Tiffany920
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Sydney
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 06, 2011 04:38 AM
"I said it so u would stop trying 2 c me or b with me"IP: Logged |
Tiffany920
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Sydney
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 06, 2011 04:39 AM
"I needed u 2 move on I'm the reason y ur life is so hard n without me u can focus on building ur career. Ur young u will find an amazing guy who I hope will love u as much as I do."
omg wat is he tryin to say?IP: Logged |
LEXX
Moderator Posts: 5388
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 06, 2011 07:22 AM
Posting glitches...
will try again.
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~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine.~Nikola Tesla
~There is no box.~H♥
~Balance is not letting anyone love you less than you love yourself.~Felipe
~I remember, therefore I am immortal~LEXX }><}}}(*>~IP: Logged |
LEXX
Moderator Posts: 5388
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 06, 2011 07:48 AM
quote:
Originally posted by roshanrai:
"WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE SO MUCH JUST SET IT FREE IF IT COMES BACK TO YOU IT'S YOUR IF IT DOESN'T IT'S NOT YOURS" 
quote:
Originally posted by Tiffany920:
"some ppl r meant to jus walk into ur life, teach u a lesson and then jus walk away."
Yes that is often how things are.
I have read this entire thread and I feel his
bluntness with you is frustration because he knows he is not the right man for you.
He knows he is holding you back from discovering yourself, and yes, most likely holding him back too.
I know it hurts
However,
try to see him rejecting you as a gift.
Do you sincerely want to be with a person who does not want you?
You cannot force him to want you in his life no matter how much you beg and cry.
In fact, that is a big turn off to a good man.
A good man would not fall for your crying and begging him to stay.
A bad man, a control freak abusive man would love a begging woman, he can control and manipulate.
A good man who knows he is wrong for you, or not ready, will let you go and or push you away if you will not go away.
Since he has been VERY CLEAR about ending the relationship with you;
my advice is please let him go, for both your sakes.
You can find the right fellow for you,
but you must free this fellow and yourself before new people and things can come to you or you to them.How old are you?
How old is he? Keep posting.
PS.
I have always been the one to walk out of people's lives.
I KNOW when a relationship is not working out.
They all cried and begged me to stay.
It was heartbreaking but I KNEW I had to free them and myself.
I helped all find new wives.
They are happy now! 
I am helping my current ex to find the right person for him too.
Love is not about trying to hold a person against their will, or keeping them out of pity or obligation, when one knows they are not the right person for the other person. I do not know if I am helping or confusing you.
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LEXX
Moderator Posts: 5388
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 06, 2011 08:49 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Tiffany920:
OMGGGGG! anyone hear me????!!!
guess wat haapened jus now??!
he emailed me!!!!!!!!!
"Hey I hope things r working out ok 4 u thank u 4 giving me space.
If u want 2 talk or nething I'm ready ok.
I'm sorry the way I had 2 push u away but I hope u understand y I did it.
N no I never moved on it was the only thing I could say 2 push u away."
so wats goin on now? anyone plzzz read me comment asap!!
He was blunt, even rude to you because you would not let him go.
And most likely got very frustrated at you even more when you continued to beg.
He is trying to tell you that he feels he is not good for you. quote:
Originally posted by Tiffany920:
im confused now, so is he sayin he doesnt hv a gf now? but tats wat he said to me on the fone, n i talked his sis on facebook too, she said there WAS a girl came over their place n stuffs, so wat does he mean now? is he lyin?
The first time I read that;
I thought....
hmmm...he made up the having a girlfriend so you would leave him be. quote:
Originally posted by Tiffany920:
"I said it so u would stop trying 2 c me or b with me""I needed u 2 move on I'm the reason y ur life is so hard n without me u can focus on building ur career. Ur young u will find an amazing guy who I hope will love u as much as I do."
I assume he said all that to you?
Then he is telling you every way possible, even to F-Off as you posted previously... quote:
"I keep begging him not to leave me, and i have been calling him but when he pick up just told me to F off, and leave him alone"
He is being very clear to please leave him alone, to let him go and stop begging and crying. quote:
Originally posted by Tiffany920:
omg wat is he tryin to say?
Trying? 
He is not trying dear;
he is telling you over and over....
VERY CLEARLY
to let him go!
That he knows he is not good for you.
He is telling you he wants to end the relationship.
Please respect that and let him go.
Respect yourself too.
Begging is desperation, not love.
I am sorry that hurts you.
You cannot force him to want you.
That is not love either.
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LEXX
Moderator Posts: 5388
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 06, 2011 09:09 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Tiffany920:
And and my ex is very sensitive, he was very loving n caring... Well bak in the days wen he used to love me
Remember that, treasure and cherish those good memories. But please let him go now. If you love him, do as he asks of you. Wish him happiness and love. Then let him go. Please.
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~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine.~Nikola Tesla
~There is no box.~H♥
~Balance is not letting anyone love you less than you love yourself.~Felipe
~I remember, therefore I am immortal~LEXX }><}}}(*>~
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Tiffany920
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Sydney
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 06, 2011 02:39 PM
quote:
Originally posted by LEXX:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Tiffany920:
[b]
And and my ex is very sensitive, he was very loving n caring... Well bak in the days wen he used to love me
Remember that, treasure and cherish those good memories. Yes i do understand, n i'v left him go, i hvnt been talkin to him lately, n hes jus deceided to email me bak.
Thank you Lexx, im jus glad tat he finally replied me after all, n his attitude towards me such a big change, im jus a little happy tats all But please let him go now. If you love him, do as he asks of you. Wish him happiness and love. Then let him go. Please. [/B][/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
Tiffany920
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Sydney
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 06, 2011 02:42 PM
quote:
Originally posted by LEXX:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Tiffany920:
[b]
And and my ex is very sensitive, he was very loving n caring... Well bak in the days wen he used to love me
Remember that, treasure and cherish those good memories. Yes i do understand, n i'v left him go, i hvnt been talkin to him lately, n hes jus deceided to email me bak.
Thank you Lexx, im jus glad tat he finally replied me after all, n his attitude towards me such a big change, im jus a little happy tats all But please let him go now. If you love him, do as he asks of you. Wish him happiness and love. Then let him go. Please. [/B][/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
EverEvolvingSpirit
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From: A Place of Pure Love <3
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 06, 2011 02:44 PM
Lexx  Some have to go their own path, I guess. I feel like I've typed all of these things to no avail :/ IP: Logged |
LEXX
Moderator Posts: 5388
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 06, 2011 03:31 PM
I am re-posting so who says what is clearer,
and adding my replies afterward. quote:
Originally posted by Tiffany920:
And and my ex is very sensitive, he was very loving n caring... Well bak in the days wen he used to love me
quote:
Originally posted by LEXX:
Remember that, treasure and cherish those good memories.
quote:
Originally posted by Tiffany920:
Yes i do understand, n i'v left him go, i hvnt been talkin to him lately, n hes jus deceided to email me bak.
Thank you Lexx, im jus glad tat he finally replied me after all, n his attitude towards me such a big change, im jus a little happy tats all
quote:
Originally posted by LEXX:
But please let him go now.If you love him, do as he asks of you. Wish him happiness and love. Then let him go. Please.
You are welcome Tiffany920
If he is willing to be your friend,
accept that and do not push for more.
Having recently last Fall, ended a 13 year relationship with the Cancerian who was my husband, and is now my friend.
We still live in same house, but are now just friends.
So,
if he wants to be your friend, honour that for what it is.
If you cannot be just friends for now or forever;
then let him go. I asked how old you and the Cancerian are because I was not sure from what experience
factor to address the issues,
being that I am 56 years old and have left many relationships. IP: Logged |
LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 06, 2011 03:47 PM
quote:
Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit:
Lexx Some have to go their own path, I guess. I feel like I've typed all of these things to no avail :/
EverEvolvingSpirit {{{hugs}}}------------------
~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine.~Nikola Tesla
~There is no box.~H♥
~Balance is not letting anyone love you less than you love yourself.~Felipe
~I remember, therefore I am immortal~LEXX }><}}}(*>~ IP: Logged |
Tiffany920
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Sydney
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 06, 2011 04:52 PM
quote:
Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit:
Lexx Some have to go their own path, I guess. I feel like I've typed all of these things to no avail :/
R u referrin me? Im listenin to all ur advises, im jus glad that his attitute finally changes n he finally replies tats all. IP: Logged |
Tiffany920
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Sydney
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 06, 2011 04:55 PM
quote:
Originally posted by LEXX:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit:
[b]Lexx Some have to go their own path, I guess. I feel like I've typed all of these things to no avail :/
EverEvolvingSpirit {{{hugs}}}[/B][/QUOTE]
Im 19 n hes 23
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LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 06, 2011 05:03 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Tiffany920:
Im 19 n hes 23
OK....
please do not think me an old coot.
However dear lady;
you are both young.
Relax, find yourself.
Give things time.
Be his friend if you wish,
but I know Canerians very well.
Take heed of my advice.....
A Cancerian generally cannot be forced or pushed.
They will under pressure, run, or ignore you.
If you make them feel trapped or beg,
they will usually run.
They need to figure out things for themselves.
And especially such a young Cancerian.
What sign are you?------------------
~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine.~Nikola Tesla
~There is no box.~H♥
~Balance is not letting anyone love you less than you love yourself.~Felipe
~I remember, therefore I am immortal~LEXX }><}}}(*>~ IP: Logged |
NickiG
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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted March 06, 2011 05:16 PM
take lexx's advice, he wants you to move on as he has... you are young, you'll find other, better men------------------
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LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
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posted March 06, 2011 05:28 PM
quote:
Originally posted by NickiG:
take lexx's advice, he wants you to move on as he has... you are young, you'll find other, better men
Thank you NickiG
He may be a good man;
just not the right man for Tiffany920,
nor she the right woman for him.
We do not know him so cannot judge him.
10 years from now, who knows?
However for the time being;
they both need to let each other go.
Folks get caught up in "forever".
Oh to be true,
that is a natural desire, to have eternal love.
And love can be long term, but not necessarily the relationship as a couple.
My Cancerian ex and I still love and care about each other but the intimate relationship is over for good.
We should have just stayed good friends,
which is where we have navigated back to being after some very ugly crying and arguing
over the failed relationship.
I do not regret my past relationships.
In essence;
they were each one,
cases of:
"Mr. Right, for those times in my life"
People change, people grow, people grow closer, people grow apart too.
We must go with the flow and not balk at such changes.------------------
~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine.~Nikola Tesla
~There is no box.~H♥
~Balance is not letting anyone love you less than you love yourself.~Felipe
~I remember, therefore I am immortal~LEXX }><}}}(*>~ IP: Logged |
LEXX
Moderator Posts: 5388
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 06, 2011 05:31 PM
Please Tiffany920;
see my thread here and try to find that movie I talk about!
 click on this link please!
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum27/HTML/000343.html IP: Logged |
NickiG
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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted March 06, 2011 05:35 PM
quote:
Originally posted by LEXX:
Thank you NickiG
He may be a good man;
just not the right man for Tiffany920,
nor she the right woman for him.
We do not know him so cannot judge him.
10 years from now, who knows?
However for the time being;
they both need to let each other go.
Folks get caught up in "forever".
Oh to be true,
that is a natural desire, to have eternal love.
And love can be long term, but not necessarily the relationship as a couple.
My Cancerian ex and I still love and care about each other but the intimate relationship is over for good.
We should have just stayed good friends,
which is where we have navigated back to being after some very ugly crying and arguing
over the failed relationship.
I do not regret my past relationships.
In essence;
they were each one,
cases of:
"Mr. Right, for those times in my life"
People change, people grow, people grow closer, people grow apart too.
We must go with the flow and not balk at such changes.[/QUOTE] oh i know all about wanting eternal love (leo moon) but i'v also had plenty of heartbreaks after thinking i was going to be with so and so guy for forever, but got over that feeling soon after and moved on.......i dont know why i felt like posting this, lol ------------------
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