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Topic: Everyone plz helps me to get my cancer guy bak!
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Tiffany920 Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Sydney Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 03, 2011 03:22 PM
Me and my cancers have been together for two years, since my family was very strict, we only seen each other like once every two months, but he never left, hes always here with me, no matter when im happy or sad i could always rely on him, he gave me everything like he could to make me happy. But things getting harder and harder, he had a fight with my dad, and dad said to him to leave me alone, but we still didnt give up. Last week, i found out he had a date with other girl, and he said to his friend im his ex already when we hadnt even borke up! I was so angry and asked him why, he said he had no intension to cheat on me, and i have been pushing him away, treat him like nothing, so he decided to give up, he said he cant do it anymore. I keep begging him not to leave me, and i have been calling him but when he pick up just told me to F off, and leave him alone, im so depressed that he never ever told me to off and never told me to leave him alone, and i still havnt gave up, i keep calling him and he told me he had moved on and he has a new gf and he said his gf treat him heaps better, they met everyday, and i should move on. I was shaking and could not think when i heard this, but the things he said just suddenly turn so sharp and i could not believe the things he said, i have a feeling he is saying this to hurt me to push me away but im not sure, im not sure if he has a new gf and move on already I been emailing him everyday like its my dirary, but he said he is been deleting them everyday and call me psycho and said dnt wana see me or talk to me. Please help, i cant eat i cant sleep, i lost 5 kilos already. Please and i call him he jus wont pick up anymoreIP: Logged |
EverEvolvingSpirit Moderator Posts: 718 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 03, 2011 03:42 PM
Its sounds like you need to move on. You cannot force someone to want you and you are furthermore degrading yourself by begging him like this. I know you are hurt, but think logically, he is telling you he doesn't want you, it can't get anymore clear than that I've been in your shoes before. Hold tight, the right man is waiting out there, but you have to make room for him by getting this guy out of your head. Do you really want him back anyway? He sounds like an insensitive dog IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 3109 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted March 03, 2011 03:51 PM
you cant push a person like that...it just pushes them away....leave him alone for a while, if he comes to his senses and realizes he lost a good thing then he'll come back, if not, move onlike EES said, he sounds like a dog so i'm sure all he really wanted was sex anyways, thats why he had moved on to another girl without formally breaking up with you even if he does contact you after you ignoring him, dont jump to respond so quickly cuz to him that just means easy p****....wait a day or so ------------------ What happens on Venus stays on Venus -Nasa IP: Logged |
EverEvolvingSpirit Moderator Posts: 718 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 03, 2011 03:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by NickiG: you cant push a person like that...it just pushes them away....leave him alone for a while, if he comes to his senses and realizes he lost a good thing then he'll come back, if not, move onlike EES said, he sounds like a dog so i'm sure all he really wanted was sex anyways, thats why he had moved on to another girl without formally breaking up with you even if he does contact you after you ignoring him, dont jump to respond so quickly cuz to him that just means easy p****....wait a day or so
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 6701 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 03, 2011 05:17 PM
Welcome! ------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
Cancer/Scorpio729 Moderator Posts: 625 From: 6,000 feet above sea level Registered: Feb 2010
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posted March 03, 2011 11:00 PM
Hmm, that sounds like a very un-Cancer approach to breaking up with you. If it were me (Cancer all over my chart) I wouldn't want to hurt your feelings because I know what hurt feels like. I know you love him, but he doesn't sound like a very nice person if he does this and on top of that fights with your parents . Cancers love parents.When hard breakups come and smack you in the face like this, as unfortunate as it sounds, it is time to move on. It means your soul has learned its lesson from that person and there is no spiritual need to be with them anymore. It is painful as hell, but it will be worth it when you find a better man to be with. You will be glad you dropped this relationship, there are so many other better relationships to be in that won't cause you so much emotional stress. Let him go. And don't let him back. It will be worth it for both of you. IP: Logged |
Tiffany920 Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Sydney Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 04, 2011 01:15 AM
Ohh...thank you guys... I really appearciate all of ur advises! Im a typically virgo n guess i was over confident bout his loyality. N i jus didnt believe he could turn so sharp on me been so harsh n moves on so quick already, he was the one who cared bout tis relationship than me, i jus cant believe he could do tat to me. No matter when i go, i got the messages r the same: "ur a psycho, forget bout him, move on." SighIP: Logged |
Tiffany920 Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Sydney Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 04, 2011 01:16 AM
There is really nothin i can do eh...?IP: Logged |
cathy Knowflake Posts: 100 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted March 04, 2011 01:49 AM
Tiffany, You have received very good advice here. Please try to move on, IP: Logged |
EverEvolvingSpirit Moderator Posts: 718 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 04, 2011 04:56 PM
Who called you a psycho? I believe I told you I've been there, didn't I?I'm sorry we didn't tell you what you want to hear, women far too often make the "he's pushing me away because he really loves me, he's just afraid/doesn't wanna get hurt" excuse. Sometimes a guy just moves on to the next. Its the way of the world for many relationships, you should try to take this as a lesson learned and move on. You are not psycho, just hurting and confused, I'VE BEEN THERE! But in times like these you must act rationally, calling him over and over again is unhealthy and masochistic. Distract yourself and switch your focus, sooner than later you'd have found yourself moving on too IP: Logged |
Tiffany920 Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Sydney Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 04, 2011 11:50 PM
Thank you, im feelin bit btr now. Jus sometimes it stil crushes bak into my mind tat he has someone else to b wit, n jus feel like the heart stops beatin in tat moment, i wil b ok, i believe soIP: Logged |
Tiffany920 Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Sydney Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 04, 2011 11:51 PM
Thank you, im feelin bit btr now. Jus sometimes it stil crushes bak into my mind tat he has someone else to b wit, n jus feel like the heart stops beatin in tat moment, i wil b ok, i believe soIP: Logged |
Lei_Kuei Knowflake Posts: 217 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 05, 2011 12:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by Tiffany920: Thank you, im feelin bit btr now. Jus sometimes it stil crushes bak into my mind tat he has someone else to b wit, n jus feel like the heart stops beatin in tat moment, i wil b ok, i believe so
{{Hugs}}} We have all been there Tiff, but give it time and it will pass IP: Logged |
Tiffany920 Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Sydney Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 05, 2011 01:13 AM
Thankk you, idk how we could survive break ups IP: Logged |
EverEvolvingSpirit Moderator Posts: 718 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 05, 2011 02:18 AM
Feel better IP: Logged |
cathy Knowflake Posts: 100 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted March 05, 2011 02:32 AM
Tiffany, we have all survived breakups. We are giving you advice because most of us have been there. Believe it or not in the not so distant future you will either meet someone else or be happilly single, either way you will feel better about yourself. I:t's difficult to hear this, but so true. IP: Logged |
Tiffany920 Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Sydney Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 05, 2011 07:00 AM
Yes thank you guys... Really tis site is very helpful, thank you, It does take abit of time
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roshanrai Knowflake Posts: 69 From: sikkim,india Registered: Jan 2011
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posted March 05, 2011 07:18 AM
"WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE SO MUCH JUST SET IT FREE IF IT COMES BACK TO YOU IT'S YOUR IF IT DOESN'T IT'S NOT YOURS" IP: Logged |
Tiffany920 Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Sydney Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 05, 2011 07:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit: Its sounds like you need to move on. You cannot force someone to want you and you are furthermore degrading yourself by begging him like this. I know you are hurt, but think logically, he is telling you he doesn't want you, it can't get anymore clear than that I've been in your shoes before. Hold tight, the right man is waiting out there, but you have to make room for him by getting this guy out of your he Do you really want him back anyway? He sounds like an insensitive dog
And and my ex is very sensitive, he was very loving n caring... Well bak in the days wen he used to love me
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Tiffany920 Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Sydney Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 05, 2011 07:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by roshanrai: "WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE SO MUCH JUST SET IT FREE IF IT COMES BACK TO YOU IT'S YOUR IF IT DOESN'T IT'S NOT YOURS"
"some ppl r meant to jus walk into ur life, teach u a lesson and then jus walk away." IP: Logged |
EverEvolvingSpirit Moderator Posts: 718 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 05, 2011 10:58 AM
Tiffany and Roshanrai IP: Logged |
roshanrai Knowflake Posts: 69 From: sikkim,india Registered: Jan 2011
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posted March 05, 2011 11:10 AM
TIFFANY,hearing your story I felt like sharing mine from heart to heart.... This is a story of a Leo man whom as you know the very word LOVE means everything.. The first time I fell in Love it brought me nothing but pain & disappointment... The second time I fell in Love it brought me more pain & disappointment... The third time I thought, what the heck so I decided to not to fall in Love and I took the chance and married a woman I hardly knew(had dated her for five times or so only) and you know what happened I fell all over Love again.As a result 8 years have passed and I'm still in Love,seeing this an angel decided to reside with us permanently... .His name is SAJAL TSANGPANG RAI and he shall be turning 3000 yrs old next month. SO PLEASE KEEP YOUR SPIRIT HIGH BECAUSE I AM SURE THERE IS SOMEONE FOR YOU OUT THERE WAITING FOR YOU IP: Logged |
EverEvolvingSpirit Moderator Posts: 718 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 05, 2011 01:14 PM
((((Roshanrai)))) You son is SO beautiful. You are very fortunate! I see joy in his heart, he IS a happy baby indeed!You have such a sensitivity and kindness about you! I can feel so much love from you when I read these words and I KNOW you are completely genuine and these are heartfelt words Thank you. Tiffany was not the only one that needed to read this today
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Tiffany920 Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Sydney Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 05, 2011 02:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by roshanrai: TIFFANY,hearing your story I felt like sharing mine from heart to heart.... This is a story of a Leo man whom as you know the very word LOVE means everything.. The first time I fell in Love it brought me nothing but pain & disappointment... The second time I fell in Love it brought me more pain & disappointment... The third time I thought, what the heck so I decided to not to fall in Love and I took the chance and married a woman I hardly knew(had dated her for five times or so only) and you know what happened I fell all over Love again.As a result 8 years have passed and I'm still in Love,seeing this an angel decided to reside with us permanently... .His name is SAJAL TSANGPANG RAI and he shall be turning 3000 yrs old next month.Thank you, hes beautiful, i kno its gona take some time SO PLEASE KEEP YOUR SPIRIT HIGH BECAUSE I AM SURE THERE IS SOMEONE FOR YOU OUT THERE WAITING FOR YOU
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roshanrai Knowflake Posts: 69 From: sikkim,india Registered: Jan 2011
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posted March 06, 2011 02:32 AM
This is for you both TIFFANY & EVEREVOLVINGSPIRIT... http://www.inspirationjunction.com/skyquestcom/community/ij/asp/ijDetail.asp?txtIJID=19/08/2006-11:29:10-34665535727827669264&langid=2&root= IP: Logged |