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Topic: What are the most negative things about you/weak points? - feel free to connect to...
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 9369 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 06, 2011 07:48 AM
Rach Let me guess some of your placements? I feel Libra. I would guess some major planets placements there.Am I right? Just answer Yes.Don't tell me yet  ------------------ Throw away your books and listen to your heart.Listen the closest when it hurts the most. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
RMChex Knowflake Posts: 326 From: England Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 06, 2011 08:36 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Dear Rachel Thank you so much for your GIFT of those words. I was feeling insecure cuz I am meeting with the web designer ,today. I need to be assertive and inside that little voice will say "I hope he doesn't think you are weird" lol Then,I have to fight with it.I say."Be yourself. Life IS that journey" I guess what I am trying to say is THANK YOU for caring Rach. I will be back to write more when I get home Double heart
GO FOR IT! I would hazard a guess that sometimes people might seem like they 'don't get you' or even disapprove of you, not because you're weird, but because you're baffling and interesting. You have spent so many years panicking about how you come across to people (your mother) and wondering what you need to do to conform - but then missing the real you - that you are very quick to realise when people are forming an opinion of you. Fear tells you that their opinion is going to be bad, and this sometimes stops you from being objective. - They are probably think 'wow, this woman's remarkable' about you, but that can easily be misconstrued as "this woman's weird". If you reserve judgement on what they think of you, I bet you'll find what they are actually thinking is "I think this woman's wonderful!" Rachel x
------------------ Where possible, give people a piece of your heart, not a piece of your mind. IP: Logged |
RMChex Knowflake Posts: 326 From: England Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 06, 2011 08:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Rach Let me guess some of your placements? I feel Libra. I would guess some major planets placements there.Am I right? Just answer Yes.Don't tell me yet 
LOL I don't know whether to literally answer Yes, as you said or not to tell you at all, lol! Let me know whether you want me to confirm it or not and I will. I started a "interpret my chart pleeeeeeeeease" thread in Ast. 2.0 so don't look there if you want to guess first! Love Rachel x ------------------ Where possible, give people a piece of your heart, not a piece of your mind. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 9369 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 06, 2011 11:02 AM
Dear Rachel You don't know HOW much your affirming words meant to me. I went to the web designer and I was very confident. I walked tall and felt good. I was thinking about your words all morning. You gave me such an incredible gift. I know you cannot know how much it meant to me even as I try to tell. Go to KTAA and Randalls thread .Please add me ,if you care to. I would love to talk more with you!------------------ Throw away your books and listen to your heart.Listen the closest when it hurts the most. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 9369 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 06, 2011 11:05 AM
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum23/HTML/000232.html Here is the link Rachel  ------------------ Throw away your books and listen to your heart.Listen the closest when it hurts the most. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
RMChex Knowflake Posts: 326 From: England Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 06, 2011 11:33 AM
Have replied in the FB thread  ------------------ Where possible, give people a piece of your heart, not a piece of your mind. IP: Logged |
Cancer/Scorpio729 Moderator Posts: 710 From: 6,000 feet above sea level Registered: Feb 2010
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posted May 06, 2011 06:45 PM
Self-image and self-worth insecurities. They're leading to a lot of other problems: need to dominate, need for attention, vanity, tendencies to be self-centered. I'm working on the first two. Seems like there are spells when one becomes more of a problem than the other.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 9369 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 06, 2011 06:53 PM
Dear Rach I replied on the thread .------------------ Throw away your books and listen to your heart.Listen the closest when it hurts the most. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
carl Knowflake Posts: 440 From: China Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2011 07:52 PM
Another thing:I develop crushes way too easily, I need to stop that And have a rough time letting go, I need to improve IP: Logged |
RMChex Knowflake Posts: 326 From: England Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 07, 2011 06:23 AM
Cancer/Scorpio729 - kudos for being brave enough to say that in public; I have exactly the same troubles.  carl - me too; is it because you want a relationship with the people you crush out on? Mine is more curiosity - how will they kiss, how strong are their hands if they held mine, would they bear hug me or stroke my hair etc... Often, once I've found that out and satisfied my curiosity, the fascination and crush will dissipate. (((hugs))) Rachel x ------------------ Where possible, give people a piece of your heart, not a piece of your mind. IP: Logged |
Coffee Knowflake Posts: 1603 From: Leeds Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 07, 2011 10:05 AM
Probably a few points, but this is the best one I can think of.My weak point is that I have a brain of my own and not as scared as most people in this world, not scared to say things which will come back on me. This can be selfish, but at least I do not appear like a sheep, who wants to remain within a group of people who allow bad things to happen to others. I sacrifice whatever personal gains there is to be made, by not being involved with a certain group that offers these gains. I do this because it's not right to treat others like this, never mind me. To make this clearer, I'm the type of person to tell these young yobs in the street to be quiet and stop bothering the neighbours, even if these yobs will focus their attention on me. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 9369 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 07, 2011 10:07 AM
quote: Originally posted by Coffee: Probably a few points, but this is the best one I can think of.My weak point is that I have a brain of my own and not as scared as most people in this world, not scared to say things which will come back on me. This can be selfish, but at least I do not appear like a sheep, who wants to remain within a group of people who allow bad things to happen to others. I sacrifice whatever personal gains there is to be made, by not being involved with a certain group that offers these gains. I do this because it's not right to treat others like this, never mind me. To make this clearer, I'm the type of person to tell these young yobs in the street to be quiet and stop bothering the neighbours, even if these yobs will focus their attention on me.
You are a very special person Coffee.No reply needed ------------------ Throw away your books and listen to your heart.Listen the closest when it hurts the most. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
Cancer/Scorpio729 Moderator Posts: 710 From: 6,000 feet above sea level Registered: Feb 2010
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posted May 08, 2011 03:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by RMChex: Cancer/Scorpio729 - kudos for being brave enough to say that in public; I have exactly the same troubles. 
You too? How do you deal with it? As much as I'd like to, I can't say that it was bravery  I'm also extremely self-centered, cocky, secretive, jealous, have a know-it-all attitude, possessive, and I stick my nose into other people's business waaaay too much because I think I know enough to interfere. I develop crushes easily too. It just has to be human and male lol. IP: Logged |
snarly Knowflake Posts: 186 From: u.k Registered: Oct 2010
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posted May 09, 2011 08:31 AM
My weak points would be... 1) I doubt myself too readily. When everything points to me being right, I still doubt it, and can spend literally hours doing my own head in, lol. 2) I can get very easily obsessed with a subject. I will analyse every angle, possibility and theory.. which brings me to 3) I am a floozy - anything new and shiny takes my fancy, the obsession is stone dead  I guess I've got the staying power, I just need to direct it in more constructive ways  IP: Logged |
Cancer/Scorpio729 Moderator Posts: 710 From: 6,000 feet above sea level Registered: Feb 2010
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posted May 11, 2011 01:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by snarly: My weak points would be... 1) I doubt myself too readily. When everything points to me being right, I still doubt it, and can spend literally hours doing my own head in, lol. 2) I can get very easily obsessed with a subject. I will analyse every angle, possibility and theory.. which brings me to 3) I am a floozy - anything new and shiny takes my fancy, the obsession is stone dead  I guess I've got the staying power, I just need to direct it in more constructive ways 
Me too! Wow seems like every flaw anyone's listed on here, I have :P IP: Logged |
Yrone Knowflake Posts: 199 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 11, 2011 01:47 AM
Hmmm, number 1 current pet peeve about myself: I am a bit (hah) of an attention ***** , but toning that down is what I am working on atm. At least, I am already catching me way earlier when I am doing it  Also, I am too lazy and disorganized and a packrat to boot. But it is getting easier to say "I don't need this" or "This is the place for item X" IP: Logged |
lechien Knowflake Posts: 907 From: my 30 cubic square meter room with a rat! Registered: May 2009
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posted May 11, 2011 10:15 AM
(((Ami))) my weakness USED TO BE the same. i did not know how to love myself (for the reasons you know ). and for that, i just had a complete denial that i was lovable to anyone in anyway. i did not believe that anyone loved me. i think i made many people sad, because they loved me but i did not accept their love. and i was miserable.i know better now.  now i think my weakness is… i try to give when i don't have enough for myself. a few people really took advantage of me and i got into trouble. nasty and vulgar, those shameless people. i must stop that. it's kind of an extension of my inability to love myself though, because i feel that i am not lovable if i don't give. but i'm changing. i must learn to accept, too, to be a good giver. AND the most negative of all is… that i cannot resist baked goods. yep, i bake a cake and devour it all by myself in one day. THAT is horrendous!!  IP: Logged |