posted September 29, 2013 02:30 AM            

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Originally posted by juniperb:
Being a Mod is about an ability rather than power. A power says we have authority or control and we do not; Randall does
A Mod has the ability to keep their forum/s running smoothly and done with with courtesy. That is our responsibility and one we should carry out with integrity.

Mods should set the example not be the example . If we can not act courteous to one another , we can not expect another to to act any better.

If we want to wear the Mod hat, we don`t have to like one another but we do need to act nice to one another.

“We cannot expect people to have respect for law and order (moderating) until we teach respect to those we have entrusted to enforce those laws.”
¯ Hunter S. Thompson

“I speak to everyone in the same way, whether he is the garbage man or the president of the university.”
¯ Albert Einstein

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posted September 29, 2013 03:36 AM            

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Originally posted by juniperb:
If we want to wear the Mod hat, we don`t have to like one another but we do need to act nice to one another.

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posted September 29, 2013 03:58 AM            

You are allowed to voice your opinions and vent if you need. It just seems that you're still angery and can't let this go.

I don't know about the spats between you and Jessica but if you feel that passionately about it, take it up with Randall in private.

posted September 29, 2013 04:44 AM            

I don't want this to be an on-going argument with you two.

This forum is meant for support and inspiration. Let's keep it that way.

If this can't be resolved then this thread must be moved to GU.

posted September 29, 2013 05:08 AM            

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Originally posted by charmainec:

This forum is meant for support and inspiration. Let's keep it that way.

If this can't be resolved then this thread must be moved to GU.

I don't want this unpleasantness in my forum.

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posted September 29, 2013 08:03 AM            

Yes, there are things that God must redress and only He CAN redress.

I could not have stayed a Mod without Lalalaina, Nicki and others whom I loved and trusted.

I had many private conversations about this kind of thing and I still do because I need to.

You really need the support when you are just starting out for situations in which you feel confused and upset.

I still need to talk to trusted friends about things that seem over my head and many are over my current maturity level but after I deal with them, my maturity level increases for the next problem( and there will be one)

Here is my e mail as I think you need to discuss this more and Charmaine does not want you to do it here

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posted September 29, 2013 08:37 AM            

Anyway, out of respect for charmaine I think this subject should indeed be dropped. But hey was cool to experience Dolores Umbridge ways in real life, not see them in a movie talk about admiring life in its diversity!!

posted September 30, 2013 01:49 PM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
^ sure, not taken that way

@ Ami, I didn't want to be rude in ignoring your kind words. Just meant to say they are much appreciated. Have a good week !! x

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Thank you, Friend. I am glad you feel better

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posted October 04, 2013 02:15 AM            

I'm a student that works as a cashier for a part time job & I come in contact with the public alot & trust me there are days where you encounter plenty of rude customers but I never ever lose my cool, I just let it go & stay polite because it's not worth holding onto. Negative situations, they happen everyday when you work in customer service. However, You have the power to choose how you'll react to certain people. I'm just a knowflake but a little advice: When you're on duty, set emotions, personal issues aside PLEASE for the greater good of the forum.

I have to say most of you are doing a great job. Lindaland is a great forum, let's keep it that way <3

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Originally posted by Twirl:
I for one would love if both of you, jessica & andstuff/and stuff & jessica (nothing intended with naming other one first) stopped bashing into each other or just exchange emails so you can tell each other in private how much you dislike each other.
I personally really dislike the threads where it sees to get a contest between both of your opposing opinions. It feels awkward for me and I can only imagine what it feels like for people just entering the forums.
So you both have different views. Sois. Please don't fight it out in other people's threads.
Just my 2 cents.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum18/HTML/000988.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum18/HTML/001008.html

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posted October 04, 2013 06:03 AM            

anyway Jessica is a great girl, andstuff isn't bad either.
if i'm not wrong this whole thing started because of a misunderstanding about opinions on that so called "power of attraction" or something like that....which is a bit ridiculous.

@Randall...why do you want her on this thread, you asked them to ignore each other, which i think is good, and a way to do that is not to come to these threads where one side knows the other will always try to push their buttons.