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rajji
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posted August 27, 2011 09:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Randall I would like to know if that forum is only for the Hot and Sexy and those who do not confirm to it are not supposed to address or post topics therein?

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juniperb
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posted August 27, 2011 09:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
rajji, does this have anything to do with a current post on LLC2?

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posted August 27, 2011 09:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Juni ...Its about a topic that I posted in Sweet Peas Forum.

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juniperb
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posted August 27, 2011 09:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
gotcha.

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Ami Anne
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posted August 27, 2011 09:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am not Randall of course but I am totally non sexy in that I am a Bible believer and believe sex should only be in marriage.
Being different is OK Baby

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rajji
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posted August 27, 2011 09:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Ami,You being a Moderator of Sweet Peas as well Im glad to hear that from you.

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Ami Anne
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posted August 27, 2011 09:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by rajji:
Thanks Ami,You being a Moderator of Sweet Peas as well Im glad to hear that from you.


Yes I have not been in the Sweet Peas discussions much cuz I am loving the interaction in Personal Readings but I am always available if you need a hand.Just e mail me

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rajji
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posted August 27, 2011 09:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ami, There is nothing to email.
But I would like to know if I should refrain myself from posting there as my recent post seemingly does not meet with the standards of those who made fun of the topic.
So I would like that to be confirmed to them or to me.
Incase my topic is wrong as implied by them, I will not post in that forum.

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posted August 27, 2011 09:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by rajji:
Ami, There is Nothing to email.
But I would like to know if I should refrain myself from posting there as my recent post seemingly does not meet with the standards of those who made fun of the topic.
So I would like that to be confirmed to them or to me.
Incase my topic is wrong as implied by them, I will not post in that forum.


Well ,Rajji you are as entitled to your opinion and way of life as anyone else on Sweet Peas.
You don't need to justify it with anyone or have anyone's approval.
That lesson took me a long time to learn and I have not learned it perfectly by ANY means but it is true

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posted August 27, 2011 09:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks...I want them to know that too.
Some comments were vile.

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juniperb
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posted August 27, 2011 09:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
rajji, just an opinion here but it is an adult forum, rules are in place but the voices are a little louder and stronger there.

I would say if you hold a subject close and personal ( as in the thread,) and you share it in that forum, you may not like the responses. I would post it in a forum that follows your criteria of sincerety and Intention; limiting the exposure to it turning into an unwanted adult theme..

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posted August 27, 2011 09:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by rajji:
Thanks...I want them to know that too.
Some comments were vile.

Learning to handle it here will help you handle hard things in the outside world. See it as a blessing and an opportunity!
That is what I do in all my LL encounters. Your goal is personal maturity and wisdom. These various encounters will help you get there imo.

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posted August 27, 2011 09:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks...But I would like randall to have that to be told to them.
The mockery was disgusting
It is making me feel like an outsider in my own thread!
I want a confirmation from Randall...if im wrong,im ready to forgo posting there.

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posted August 27, 2011 09:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im not not interested in wasting my time in arguments.
If im wrong.Ill just leave that forum and If im not, I would want respect for my topic and people who have posted there.

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Ami Anne
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posted August 27, 2011 10:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by rajji:
Thanks but the Mockery in there is making me an outsider in my own thread!
I want them to know that.

Well I would express my opinion from my heart and my gut. I would not expect anything back though.That is where we get in trouble ime

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posted August 27, 2011 10:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You can always e mail Randall. However,I think one of the good things about LL is he allows us the freedom to handle things on our own, even hard things.
Heck,anyone can handle the easy things

I have been on Boards where they were so highly moderated that you could not learn lessons such as you can on here.
That is my feeling about it anyway .

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juniperb
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posted August 27, 2011 10:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
rajji, ami anne is giving some sound advice


I think the world of you and it is difficult to see your emotional discomfort but as ami anne noted, logical personal growth stems from valid emotional experiences. I wish you well with this internal struggle.

Randall will be along to share his voice.

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posted August 27, 2011 10:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by juniperb:
rajji, ami anne is giving some sound advice


I think the world of you and it is difficult to see your emotional discomfort but as ami anne noted, logical personal growth stems from valid emotional experiences. I wish you well with this internal struggle.

Randall will be along to share his voice.


Juni...Yes I agree..But its not about emotions or internal Struggle at all.
How would you like If I said I'd like to have an Orgasm in your thread or in front of you?
Or in front of GOD?....I believe I was talking about GOD in the whole thread.
I do think there are limits to anything.


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posted August 27, 2011 10:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
rajji, I completely understand and that`s why I refrain from posting sensitive subjects in certain forums. People are allowed to express themselves rather I like it or not. So, I use discretion on where I post.

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posted August 27, 2011 10:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Raj, I just read through your entire string prepared to do some admonishing Randall style, but through the eyes of impartiality, I'm not seeing that you were attacked or ridiculed. From what I can tell, one post upset you, but it was just her opinion in how she read what you wrote. People will have opposing viewpoints, and sometimes there will be a clashing, but in this case I don't see anyone being disrespectful. I understand that this is a very sacred topic for you, and so it may make you ultra sensitive. We all have our hot buttons. I'm just sharing with you my observation that it did not appear to me that anyone was disrespectful. I'm sorry you felt that way. You are a bright Soul, and I hope you continue to share in that Forum, because it needs your voice there. Would you like me to perhaps move your string to DD?

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rajji
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posted August 27, 2011 11:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh...Okay...Fine.
Kudos to Pixelpixie!You can have orgasms anywhwere you want

Yes it is a sensitive subject and the title says it all!Afterall there are very few who even know about it or rather very few whe know of it as it is....It is not something that dosent exist. It means no harm if somebody wants to read and think that they resonate with it...I dont see anything wrong in that.
Those who dont consider themselves to be a part of it must abstain from posting as I do.
But here It seems to imply the reverse.
Whatever.

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posted August 27, 2011 11:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Randall I will refrain myself from posting there hereafter.

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posted August 27, 2011 11:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
rajji
Please read my latest post there.
I can see why you are upset but can also see why folks felt you were looking down your nose at them if they are sexually active.
Some of your remarks here even on this thread do imply a big disdain for sexually active folks.
Sorry, but it does read that way.

PS.
I AM CELIBATE!
I have been so by choice and circumstance for some time, years in fact.
I could have lovers if I chose to but am waiting for the person I love and who loves me.
I felt very uncomfortable posting on your thread even though I am celibate by mostly choice for years to date.

The fact that I have been an actively sexual person before (not only solo)
and intend to be so again;
well some things you posted did feel insulting and holier than thou.
I feel that was what made some folks post as they did.
Lots of uncomfortable feelings coming from both sides.
I know it was not your intention to be seen as insulting and nor was it theirs to be perceived as insulting either.
I speak as a person who has been on both sides of the sexuality spectrum having much personal experience in both extremes.

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posted August 27, 2011 11:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think several people agree with you , Raj, and so I hope you reconsider and keep your voice in that Forum.

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posted August 27, 2011 12:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonWitch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I hope you read my latest post in that thread, rajji

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