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Topic: WHYYYY am I an idiot magnet??!
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anongrl10
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From: won't_disclose
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 11, 2012 10:34 AM
  
^^ Sigh, I have a similar note on my profile and this doesn't stop the grandpas from trying to hit it.  I've learned to ignore the weirdos straight away. I get a lot of attention as it is. Also, if they have issues, I cut it cold. I'm looking for emotionally healthy people even just for sex. IP: Logged |
sand
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posted January 11, 2012 12:09 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_n2IVF9a2IA IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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From: won't_disclose
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 11, 2012 03:22 PM
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anongrl10
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posted January 11, 2012 03:22 PM
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teasel
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posted January 11, 2012 04:25 PM
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Originally posted by anongrl10:
^^ Sigh, I have a similar note on my profile and this doesn't stop the grandpas from trying to hit it. I've learned to ignore the weirdos straight away. I get a lot of attention as it is. Also, if they have issues, I cut it cold. I'm looking for emotionally healthy people even just for sex.
They finally left me alone after I added a note saying that I was sure they were very nice people, but that I was offended when a) they kept ignoring my age requirements and b) were usually overlooking women their own age, in favour of younger women. I read an article about OKcupid, concerning that. Most women apparently wanted men around their own age (as I did), but most men were looking to reclaim their youth with a younger woman. I felt bad at times, like with the one 53 year old guy who messaged me and said that he wished I lived closer, but it also bothered me - it also sounded like he just assumed that I would jump at him, whereas women aren't 'allowed' to be as picky, according to society, once they reach a certain age. So, I'm allowed to feel bad about my age, and am supposed to ignore my wants and needs, but they aren't... pfft. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted January 11, 2012 04:28 PM
Also, the time I changed my preferences to "looking for friends" and added in there that I didn't want to be messaged by any man who was in a relationship, unless his girlfriend was okay with it (for *friends*), I heard from a woman wanting to find another woman for a threesome. That was within seconds of my changing my profile. IP: Logged |
NickiG
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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted January 11, 2012 04:28 PM
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Originally posted by sand:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_n2IVF9a2IA
tom cruiz doing the pelvic thrust....disturbing..... ------------------
I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
NickiG
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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted January 11, 2012 04:31 PM
teasel, i once had a guy who i was messaging for a time who seemed completely normal...up until he randomly out of the blue asked me a question about sex...i had asked him to stop talking to me like that (it was really rude the way he asked) but kept at it...i even threatened to report him even after my threats he kept at it...so i reported him and he is now banned i too use OkCupid, and that is where this took place ------------------
I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Fondue Knight
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From: NY
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 11, 2012 05:03 PM
I like OkCupid compared to some of the gay "dating" sites out there. (Sausage-fests is more like it.) The problem I've encountered on there is that I live like 20 minutes outside of NYC and for whatever reason the guys who live in one of the boroughs feel that taking a 20 minute train ride to the burbs is just too much to deal with. If your location isn't listed as New York City or Brooklyn you'd might as well have the Bubonic Plague. I suppose in a city of 8 million, they can afford to be that picky.IP: Logged |
NickiG
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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted January 11, 2012 05:06 PM
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Originally posted by Fondue Knight:
I like OkCupid compared to some of the gay "dating" sites out there. (Sausage-fests is more like it.) The problem I've encountered on there is that I live like 20 minutes outside of NYC and for whatever reason the guys who live in one of the boroughs feel that taking a 20 minute train ride to the burbs is just too much to deal with. If your location isn't listed as New York City or Brooklyn you'd might as well have the Bubonic Plague. I suppose in a city of 8 million, they can afford to be that picky.
wow....where i live, everything is 20 minutes away, so its actually a normal drive ------------------
I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Fondue Knight
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From: NY
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 11, 2012 05:12 PM
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Originally posted by NickiG:
wow....where i live, everything is 20 minutes away, so its actually a normal drive
lol... The thing with the city is that you could be stuck on the subway for more than an hour trying to get from one end of Manhattan to the other, never mind coming from Queens or Brooklyn. Yet, for some reason taking the train to the burbs is unreasonable. IP: Logged |
NickiG
Moderator Posts: 5243
From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted January 11, 2012 05:14 PM
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Originally posted by Fondue Knight:
lol... The thing with the city is that you could be stuck on the subway for more than an hour trying to get from one end of Manhattan to the other, never mind coming from Queens or Brooklyn. Yet, for some reason taking the train to the burbs is unreasonable.
then come to where i live...theres no public transportation other than taxies you have to call for...everyone drives to where they have to go and its not super crouded like the city ------------------
I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Fondue Knight
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From: NY
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 11, 2012 05:20 PM
If I had my way I'd be living in the city, but that is ridiculously expensive and I ain't got no job.  IP: Logged |
NickiG
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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted January 11, 2012 05:21 PM
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Originally posted by Fondue Knight:
If I had my way I'd be living in the city, but that is ridiculously expensive and I ain't got no job.
wanna hear expensive? we had to pay $450 for rent before we had bought our house, lol i hear rent in the city is twice as high as that ------------------
I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Fondue Knight
Knowflake Posts: 396
From: NY
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 11, 2012 05:26 PM
Twice? Hahahahaha... it depends how many roommates you have. 1 bedrooms can go between $800-2000 per month depending on the location.  I went to college upstate and my roommates and I paid $300 a month for a 3 bedroom apartment. ($900 all together.) Down here... yeah... that doesn't happen. IP: Logged |
NickiG
Moderator Posts: 5243
From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted January 11, 2012 05:27 PM
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Originally posted by Fondue Knight:
Twice? Hahahahaha... it depends how many roommates you have. 1 bedrooms can go between $800-2000 per month depending on the location. I went to college upstate and my roommates and I paid $300 a month for a 3 bedroom apartment. ($900 all together.) Down here... yeah... that doesn't happen.
see what i mean? lol
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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Fondue Knight
Knowflake Posts: 396
From: NY
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 11, 2012 05:29 PM
I actually just peeked at craigslist. It's more like $1200-3000+ per month. The city is way overpriced, but salaries are generally higher in this area. Plus, NYC is amazing.  IP: Logged |
NickiG
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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
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posted January 11, 2012 05:33 PM
NYC is too crouded, what are you talkin about? amazing..pshand again, see what i mean? thats super expensive ------------------
I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Fondue Knight
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From: NY
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 11, 2012 05:35 PM
Well, I'm applying to teach in South Korea, so I'm about to experience crowding like I've never known before.  And, honestly, I don't mind the crowding in NYC. You just have to remember to avoid Times Square at all costs. IP: Logged |
NickiG
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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted January 11, 2012 05:38 PM
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Originally posted by Fondue Knight:
Well, I'm applying to teach in South Korea, so I'm about to experience crowding like I've never known before. And, honestly, I don't mind the crowding in NYC. You just have to remember to avoid Times Square at all costs.
godspeed.... ------------------
I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
anongrl10
Knowflake Posts: 3366
From: won't_disclose
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 11, 2012 06:52 PM
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Originally posted by NickiG:
wanna hear expensive? we had to pay $450 for rent before we had bought our house, loli hear rent in the city is twice as high as that
WHAAaaaaaaaaaaaT?!
Nicki, I want to move where you live! IP: Logged |
mockingbird
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Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 11, 2012 07:01 PM
Nicki - I won't ask where you live, but daaaammmmnnnnn....!
I live about 20 minutes outside of DC (if there was magically no traffic), and I paid $450/mo for a room in a group house back in 2002 - and everyone asked how I found such a great deal!IP: Logged |
mockingbird
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posted January 11, 2012 07:04 PM
And when I moved back to the area, the cheapest 2-bedroom apartment (that wasn't in an ohmygawdruntoyourcar area) was $1450/mo.<--would so not live in this area if not for family IP: Logged |
NickiG
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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted January 11, 2012 07:33 PM
lol...yes...but sadly, our pay down here is not like it is up north....i get paid 7.55 an hour for 25-30 hours a week------------------
I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Fondue Knight
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From: NY
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 11, 2012 07:36 PM
I was making $14/hr when I was working and still couldn't afford shite around here.  IP: Logged |
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