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Topic: fake phone numbers
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4464
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 30, 2012 12:52 PM
  
ok so i was at a bookstore the other day and this random girl started flirting with me and we ended up chatting for about 15 minutes,so i asked her if she wanted to go out sometime and she acted all excited and said yea so i asked for her number,and i just tried to call and she gave me a fake number lol,i have heard of other guys getting a fake numbers but this is a first for me,ladies is that something you do often?IP: Logged |
carl
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From: My soul is all over the world! (aka vagabond)
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 30, 2012 01:08 PM
Sounds really lame of her to do. Karma. Hopefully.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4464
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 30, 2012 01:11 PM
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Originally posted by carl:
Sounds really lame of her to do. Karma. Hopefully.
lol yep i'm kind of ticked about it,but only because she was the one who approached me. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 30, 2012 01:16 PM
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4464
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 30, 2012 01:20 PM
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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
I don't approach guys, but if someone was really annoying and wouldn't shut up or leave me alone, I'd give him a fake number. Whatever it took to get someone to leave me alone. Haven't done that yet, but I would if I had to.I do find it odd, though, that she'd be the one who initiated. If you had initiated, I'd say that maybe she felt pressured, or wanted to get you off of your back, but for her to initiate and then do that just sounds like a waste of time, unless she just changed her mind or something. Me, if I don't want someone to talk to me/if I don't want to talk to someone, I do not respond to the person at all and certainly don't initiate.
i know lol,thats what i cant figure out,people are weird IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 30, 2012 02:24 PM
That's strange...I just tell them I'm not interested, if I'm not. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 30, 2012 02:29 PM
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Betty Boop
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From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 30, 2012 03:30 PM
Regardes - you said you find it odd.. and he agreed that it is weird.. Odd/weird same thing.IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 30, 2012 04:03 PM
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PixieJane
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From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 30, 2012 04:51 PM
I wonder if it's possible that she just had a brain fart. For example, maybe a "6" in that number should've been a "9." Some people are real bad with numbers that way.Another possibility is that she recently changed numbers and forgot while she was talking to you. And another is that she gave you the right number but the person who answered didn't want you calling her, so lied to you about it being the wrong number. Another possibility that occurs to me is that she had a radical change of mind. For example, maybe she was on some kind of drug when she flirted with you and once sober again she couldn't believe she did that and had a roomie or friend tell you that you had a wrong number. An alternative is that she was sober at the time she flirted but she was merely interested in stroking her ego in getting you to ask but she wasn't interested in actually getting together with you, only in being able to get you interested. The last possibility that occurs to me is that you misread her intentions and she wasn't flirting. She may have just been friendly and sociable but you took it more than it was (this has happened to me before) and when she realized you were interested in her when she wasn't in you she gave you a number to prevent any immediate awkwardness on her part. As for me I've never given a fake number (I don't like the thought of people being bothered because of me and possibly worse--like say a paranoid husband thinking his wife is playing the field and becoming abusive over it), but given how a few men have reacted when I've refused (sometimes even when I offer email--numbers can allow people to track down my location so I'm careful about giving it out) I can understand the temptation to give out fake numbers to persistent men, but that obviously doesn't apply in this case (assuming you read her intentions right). IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 22232
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 30, 2012 05:34 PM
The ultimate fake number: 415-228-0207------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
pandacake
Knowflake Posts: 321
From: Europe
Registered: May 2011
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posted March 30, 2012 06:06 PM
It's weird she gave you a fake number because she appears to be interested. It could be she accidentally gave you the wrong number, after all it's Mercury Rx.  IP: Logged |
T
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 31, 2012 01:21 PM
I was thinking along the lines of Pixie Jane.Nowadays it can be hard because everyone has a cell phone and will usually whip it out and want to put the number in and then test it and call you right there on the spot, so then you have their number in your phone too. :/ IP: Logged |
T
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posted March 31, 2012 01:23 PM
Then again, guys can be pretty bad at reading signals and often mistake niceness for flirting or interest.IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
Moderator Posts: 4336
From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 31, 2012 01:37 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
The ultimate fake number: 415-228-0207
LOL here's mine call me 780-435-8899 IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4464
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 31, 2012 02:09 PM
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Originally posted by T:
Then again, guys can be pretty bad at reading signals and often mistake niceness for flirting or interest.
lol i see what you mean,but no she was definitely flirting. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4464
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 31, 2012 02:10 PM
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
LOL here's mine call me 780-435-8899
867-5309 XD IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
Moderator Posts: 4336
From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 31, 2012 02:59 PM
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
867-5309 XD
See... you do it too hahaha  IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 22232
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 31, 2012 03:07 PM
Some girls just enjoy flirting but don't want to take it further...but may hate to turn a guy down flat. She could also have been in a relationship that she is unhappy about but isn't a cheater. In such a case, the woman might see the flirting as a grey area but not crossing a line. ------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4464
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 31, 2012 03:24 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
Some girls just enjoy flirting but don't want to take it further...but may hate to turn a guy down flat. She could also have been in a relationship that she is unhappy about but isn't a cheater. In such a case, the woman might see the flirting as a grey area but not crossing a line.
yea your probably right IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 31, 2012 04:18 PM
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4464
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 31, 2012 04:50 PM
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Originally posted by T:
Then again, guys can be pretty bad at reading signals and often mistake niceness for flirting or interest.
i can kind of agree with you,but i think the reason guys get confused is because it can be really hard to tell the difference between being nice and flirting,than as randall said some women just flirt for the sake of doing it, it can make things confusing,like this past september i was in the waiting room at the E.R ,and i noticed this one girl was kind of staring at me and when i caught her she would smile and blush than look away,this happened maybe 3 times than she spoke up and said "you look lonely sitting over there, im gonna keep you company" even though i had been sitting there contently looking at a national geographic magazine,but anyways i just laughed and said ok and she came and sat right beside me and started chatting me up,and she kept playfully slapping me on the arm,well the dr came out and called my name before i could ask for her number,which turned out to be a good thing because as i was leaving i saw her holding hands with another guy lol, its situations like these that make me not take people seriously at all, i think people should only flirt when they have geniune interest in someone,because it leads people on,and thats not cool,thats my opinion anyway. IP: Logged |
pandacake
Knowflake Posts: 321
From: Europe
Registered: May 2011
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posted March 31, 2012 05:05 PM
^ This happens because you're an Aquarius, you guys are people magnets.  But I agree people shouldn't give dualistic signals, it's only confusing. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4464
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 31, 2012 05:08 PM
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Originally posted by pandacake:
^ This happens because you're an Aquarius.
whats that got to do with anything? lol IP: Logged |
Dee
Moderator Posts: 2016
From:
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 31, 2012 05:19 PM
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Originally posted by T:
Then again, guys can be pretty bad at reading signals and often mistake niceness for flirting or interest.
I had a few incidents when i used to hang out. one guy followed me to my car he was all over me no one was around i finally talked him off telling him to call me and i would see him the next night, of course i gave him a wrong number..i ended up running into him about a month later in a crowded bar and he tried to attack me screaming all the time... that B!tch gave me a phony number.. the guys blocked him and i never saw him again after that.. still i gave more guys the wrong number because sometimes its the only way to get rid of them IP: Logged |
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