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posted January 15, 2013 12:04 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
@T , you were right about one thing though, when we(men) really like a woman, there is no mystery. but thats the problem, lots of girls get invested in these "mysterious" guys and end up getting hurt because they arent really mysterious at all, they just arent into the girl.

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I agree. & yet sometimes those same guys love the attention and don't want it to go away, so they string these girls along. So it can make it harder for the girl to take the hint because they play games. That happens more than you might realize. Yes, it's sad when it does. You might notice as time goes on and enough of these experiences, the girls you see this happening to will eventually learn. In the long run it will help them discover some things about themselves, what they want in a relationship and how to handle these types of situations/guys better in the future. So, don't get too disgruntled about it. Youre still young. Most of them will learn how to spot this type rather quickly and tire of it, or not put up with it after awhile.

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posted January 15, 2013 12:12 AM            

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well i hate to be cynical about it but my mom is in her 50s and still falls for that stuff, so i will believe it when i see it. lol

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posted January 15, 2013 12:15 AM            

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well, not all women will be like your mom.

(i'm catching up on the latest episode of Catfish. these poor young people....lol glad i'm not young and in the dating world today...

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posted January 15, 2013 01:47 AM            

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Only read the first post.. Maybe ur cute.. Ur friends.. U hung out.. Feelings developed.. Y is that not possible? It happens to me.. An ex used to go to my shows before she was a gf. We would hang out after or sometimes go to other shows together.. I found her cool and cute. /shrug

I'd never order the same thing unless I like it too. Never happened though ever. Maybe he doesn't know how to order. It's fine. Nothing wrong with that.

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