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Topic: We are raising a generation of deluded narcissists
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ail221 Knowflake Posts: 2789 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012
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posted January 16, 2013 11:53 AM
Usually I regard anything "released" by Fox News not worth reading the same for the Post. I grew up during the boom of technology, I recall using those colorful MAC desktops in elementary school, the development of myspace and opening my first fb account when I was just hitting 18, so I kind of feel that this article is a bit overly dramatic and very one sided. Do I think media outlets such as Fb, twitter and youtube fuels the ego of some individuals? yes. Sure there are young adults that advertise more of the shallow portion of their lives to feel superior to there peers but there is also a portion of adults from the age range of 30+ that do the exact same thing. I can't imagine any young teens have anything to advertise aside from a new purchase they or their parents made or a party they attended that they feel need to voice.The influence of video games or media such as music or film on young children and adolescents is a matter of parents not properly restricting these things from their children. Even if children somehow do get their hands on such material from their peers, parents at home should be able to teach their children its not age appropriate for them. Yet there are parents that buy said "destructive" products as a means to regulate their child's behavior yet complain when they want more. In regards to television shows on MTV displaying other young people with similar lives fueling this narcissism well "The Real World" was created back in 1992, this reality show existed well before a number of the "narcissistic" generation even entered kindergarten or were born. While I am not necessarily a fan of these types of shows because of the negative stereotypes they seem to encourage this seed was planted along time ago. In response to the access of psychological drugs of the 21st century, this generation didn't create the drugs or alcohol of the 21st century the same goes for the technology and the lack of regulation of these stimulants. There has been a decrease in the number of teenage pregnancies, actually at a all time low. I remember reading " there were less teenage mothers in 2010 than any year since 1946" This article doesn't cover the number of young adults that actually have a marketable talent or skill that have used fb or youtube to start their careers or make money. Example. youtube beauty gurus that have started their careers as a result of public exposure on a large scale one makeup guru comes to mind "Michelle Phan" built a career using her fb and youtube connections. Or the number of educational benefits of technology. Yes the test scores may have dropped but the way students are tested both the material and the number of standardized tests has changed. While the structure of the educational system hasn't changed much and doesn't accommodate for other students that may have a learning disability without their parents pushing out some extra money to handle whatever learning disability their children may have. During my parents generation the main concerns for college acceptance was the SAT's, a overall good Hs. transcript, a college essay and a few well written recommendations. Now well from my personal experience in HS not only did we have to cover the basics listed above but also SAT II's, ACT, a supplementary essays, work experience/volunteer experience, a number of extracurricular activities, and a beyond average hs course load which for myself and peers included taking college course while in high school. There is a different kind of pressure that is applied to young adults and children today so yes maybe this is not fueled by the need to be famous or narcissism but to escape. Sort of a technological rabbit hole. IP: Logged |
Debby4 Knowflake Posts: 471 From: TX,USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted January 16, 2013 04:06 PM
Hehehehe...  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 5300 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 16, 2013 04:17 PM
college is a bunch of crap these days imo.. they have made it to where its not worth going in the first place ... why should i jump through so many hoops just to get in,only to wind up 100,00 + in debt and with the economy the way it is theres a good possibility that i wouldnt be able to find a job anyway. alot of people my age are getting out of college with tons of debt and are unable to find jobs.IP: Logged |
Debby4 Knowflake Posts: 471 From: TX,USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted January 16, 2013 04:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: college is a bunch of crap these days imo.. they have made it to where its not worth going in the first place ... why should i jump through so many hoops just to get in,only to wind up 100,00 + in debt and with the economy the way it is theres a good possibility that i wouldnt be able to find a job anyway. alot of people my age are getting out of college with tons of debt and are unable to find jobs.
What happens if the economy gets better? Then what? D: You really won't have a job and be a nothing. :L >.> <.> Pffft! The economy is horrible! Stay out of school!  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 5300 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 16, 2013 04:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by Debby4: What happens if the economy gets better? Then what? D: You really won't have a job and be a nothing. :L >.> <.> Pffft! The economy is horrible! Stay out of school! 
oh im going to school..that doesnt mean i dont think its a bunch of bs.. plus i dont like the attitude that people who dont go to college are "nobodies".... is the construction worker who builds the buildings that yuppies work in a nobody? is the mechanic who fixes cars for a living a nobody? there is not enough respect for the working man imo....
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3594 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 16, 2013 04:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: oh im going to school..that doesnt mean i dont think its a bunch of bs.. plus i dont like the attitude that people who dont go to college are "nobodies".... is the construction worker who builds the buildings that yuppies work in a nobody? is the mechanic who fixes cars for a living a nobody? there is not enough respect for the working man imo....
That's a stereotype. I know a lot of people believe it but I also believe there's a lot of people who don't. People don't care if you've been to college as long as you're making your way in the world with a skill you've taken the time to craft. I respect the time and hard work that goes into that. There are a lot of idiots who went to college and a lot of genius people who didn't, such as Steve Jobs (and by "went to college" I mean graduated, etc.)
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Debby4 Knowflake Posts: 471 From: TX,USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted January 16, 2013 04:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: oh im going to school..that doesnt mean i dont think its a bunch of bs.. plus i dont like the attitude that people who dont go to college are "nobodies".... is the construction worker who builds the buildings that yuppies work in a nobody? is the mechanic who fixes cars for a living a nobody? there is not enough respect for the working man imo....
I never said they were nobodies :O What I mean by be a nothing I mean you would have wasted your time. (Eh, Didn't seem like it but that's what I meant) My grandpa was a construction worker for years before his health got bad. He's not a nobody. Even people who go to college can be nobodies. .-. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 5300 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 16, 2013 04:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: That's a stereotype. I know a lot of people believe it but I also believe there's a lot of people who don't. People don't care if you've been to college as long as you're making your way in the world with a skill you've taken the time to craft. I respect the time and hard work that goes into that. There are a lot of idiots who went to college and a lot of genius people who didn't, such as Steve Jobs (and by "went to college" I mean graduated, etc.)
i think that attitude is more common than not.. like me, people look down on me all the time because i got my ged instead of a hs diploma...never mind the fact that i had to do it because there was alot of crazy stuff going on in my life at the time, i'm still a lazy idiotic dropout to them. even though i made an almost perfect score on the test without studying, people still think they are superior to me, which is funny because most of them are idiots.IP: Logged |
7thGuardian Knowflake Posts: 586 From: Transylvania Registered: May 2012
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posted January 16, 2013 07:44 PM
I'm with you guys... -__- back in my days there was just me and few other guys (tho - i wasn't delusional)... now they're everywhere... to much competition! -__-IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 9804 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted January 16, 2013 08:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: oh im going to school..that doesnt mean i dont think its a bunch of bs.. plus i dont like the attitude that people who dont go to college are "nobodies".... is the construction worker who builds the buildings that yuppies work in a nobody? is the mechanic who fixes cars for a living a nobody? there is not enough respect for the working man imo....
Aqua guy do jocks end up pumping gas after high school where you're from? That's a semi serious question. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 5300 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 16, 2013 08:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by sand: Aqua guy do jocks end up pumping gas after high school where you're from? That's a semi serious question.
well i played football and basketball and im not pumping gas, but i was a gopher for a mechanic right after hs though  IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 9804 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted January 16, 2013 08:51 PM
Me too but soccer. We don't have football here. Lol it's such a stereotype in movies!! IP: Logged |
Debby4 Knowflake Posts: 471 From: TX,USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted January 16, 2013 10:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by sand: Me too but soccer. We don't have football here. Lol it's such a stereotype in movies!!
:O That movie is awesome! I forgot the name though. :L And yeah... In movies. Real life is different. Gladly! IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 9804 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted January 16, 2013 11:52 PM
hey i'm not american!  can'y hardly wait. jennifer love hewitt! yummy! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 5300 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 17, 2013 12:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by sand: i'm not american! 
no you are an immoral Filipino. IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 9804 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted January 17, 2013 03:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: no you are an immoral Filipino.
"judgment is passe", a witty european woman once told me...
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T Knowflake Posts: 7718 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 17, 2013 10:37 AM
Thanks for all the responses! Food for thought.I've nothing I'd like add at this time. IP: Logged |
SunChild Moderator Posts: 3580 From: Australia Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 19, 2013 06:12 PM
Dad will buy children a puppy if they can get 1 million likes on facebook. That is so 3D I think i'll puke now. What kind of culture is this? news.com.au After much persistence, their father Ryan Cordell agreed that if they could get 1 million likes on Facebook, they would be allowed to get a pet. Of course Mr Cordell probably thought this was a stellar plan because 1 million Facebook likes was totally out of reach. Right? But the Boston girls, inspired by other kids’ social media campaigns, set to work, setting up the Facebook page "Twogirlsandapuppy" on Wednesday (16/01/13) with the callout: "Hi, We're two sisters and we desperately want a puppy. We have three little brothers, too. Yes, we have five kids in our family. "We lost our dog several months ago to cancer. We really want another one but our parents are reluctant. "Then the other day we saw a brother and sister on facebook post a picture saying that their dad would let them get a dog if they get a ton of likes. We got our dad to agree to it! "He said if we get 1 million likes we get a new puppy. He doesn't think we can do it." Well, they did do it - in just one day. "Our profile picture just hit 1,000,000. Mom and Dad are officially stunned. Will have five ecstatic kids in the morning" the girls' mother Evie posted late on Wednesday night. And dad is staying true to his word. The girls will be with puppy soon, and it will be "a rescue either from a local shelter or a local rescue organisation." Read more: http://www.news.c om.au/lifestyle/parenting/dads-famous-last-words-you-can-get-a-puppy-if-you-get-one-million-likes/story-fnet08ui-1226556502437#ixzz2ISw0BhMp
Most people would think 'aww' and how 'sweet'.. but I just don't and I can't. ------------------ The SunChild Daily is Out!
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T Knowflake Posts: 7718 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 19, 2013 06:44 PM
....what in the world? I mean....at least a family-less dog from a shelter gets saved, but to go to that kind of extent? Bonkers! He shouldve saved one because it's the right thing to do, not made some sort of contest out of it. This couldve been an opportunity to learn somethings valuable, but he took it to a weird, wasted level. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Knowflake Posts: 1524 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 19, 2013 08:29 PM
At least he kept his word. Hopefully they'll all be glad for it. IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 7718 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 19, 2013 10:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by PixieJane: At least he kept his word.
Great point. IP: Logged |
Debby4 Knowflake Posts: 471 From: TX,USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted January 19, 2013 10:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by PixieJane: At least he kept his word. Hopefully they'll all be glad for it.
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juniperb Moderator Posts: 5867 From: Blue Star Kachina Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 20, 2013 10:48 AM
Just one sad signs of the times  ------------------ We need to listen to our own song, and share it with others, but not force it on them. Our songs are different. They should be in harmony with each other. ~ Mattie Stepanek IP: Logged |
PixieJane Knowflake Posts: 1524 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 20, 2013 05:32 PM
Now THIS...I can't find a single good thing to say about: http://www.nydailynews.com/news/world/1m-facebook-users-norwegian-man-laid-article -1.1243578 quote: A Norwegian man may be about to get lucky – all thanks to Facebook.Petter Kverneng persuaded his high school crush, Cathrine Johansen, to have sex with him if he got 1 million likes on Facebook, and social media users immediately rushed to his aid. The 20-year-old’s salacious stunt, which reportedly started as a prank, hit the million mark just hours after he posted a photo begging for likes, Gawker reported. Though it began as a joke, Kverneng told Norway’s Nettavisen that he and his gal pal are going to “keep what (they) promised.” He only hopes Cathrine’s parents aren’t Facebook users too
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