posted July 25, 2013 09:54 AM            

I have always chosen the man...Only once did I go there with a guy who chose me..and he turned out to be married!

Was questioning my "choosing" of men, thought, perhaps I was incorrect in my choosing and not being chose...

posted July 25, 2013 10:52 AM            

you rock.

That is how it should be.

Also forgot to mention, Mr Hussey also has some smart things to say, it is not only that he is c ute and funny.

I actually read his book and got hooked on his short videos, and realized one thing or the other about myself.

One of the best advices he ever gave that I incorporated was to project your energy upwards and not let it seep into the ground.
It was only then that I realized how often I am walking around with my head lowered.
I was on a trip and trained myself to keep my head up and spreading my energy outwards instead of internalizing everything.

The most shocking revelation was that it was not easy at all. It needed training, and the next day my muscles were actually aching, as if I had been exercising. LOL

Funnily though a friend recently mentioned that I seem to have grown taller (though it might also be because of me having lost some weight).

posted July 25, 2013 11:17 AM            

I really have always been questioning my thing of choosing the guy, thought it was my downfall cause I usually choose the loosers, but since I dont get hit on anyway (not ugly or anything, just I think my HUGE Aquarian-colored Pisces sun and Scorp asc) lends me to this energy where nobody approaches!

I also talked about this on my UC thread "OMG" about my eldest's apartment hauntings.

But I have learned, that I am attracted to the bad guy type, so I have had to tweek up (at the old age of 51 ) not my approach, but the energies I choose to choose!

thanks again!!!

posted July 25, 2013 12:32 PM            

WE all have free will, right?
But what makes us want what we want?

I noticed myself, that I am not very approachable, which might be a reason I don`t get approached.
I am trying to change that, gradually.

Actually it was almost shocking, after reading the book, I thought I could at least try it out, and started smiling randomly at people just because they were walking into my direction.
It was interesting to see how all at once those men, who hadnīt seen me before and would never see me again, started to get taller and their eyes lightening up. Just because I smiled at them`?

I also had some other experiences though, when being in my energy-upwards-phase; I remember having been to a musical in march, on my own again,b ut keeping open to my environment (and yes my Shirt might have been a little tigher than I used to wear it, but nothing too tight, not really, that is not my style), but anyway several women were glaring at me as if they wanted to kill me with their looks.
Probably also because I was there, quite selfcontent and also confident, despite being overweight and on my own.
It probably just isn`t something you are supposed to be or do. It was quite some fun

Well, I gotta remember that lesson now I think, as I have let it slide again a bit.