posted July 22, 2005 11:06 AM              

We like to analyze people and situations...let us 'discover' you!!
Just be You! (Try not to give away everything right off the bat though...we like the exciting journey of getting to know someone!)

As far as not being nice to Gems...well, my Scorp Rising and Cancer Moon will do a 180-degree turn and walk away forever if someone thinks being mean is going to garner them my favored interest.
Being nice to Me goes a looooonnnnng way in my book.

posted July 22, 2005 11:13 AM              

But to be fair, I know two other Gems, and they’re really cool - nothing like the one I mentioned. So I dunno personally I don’t think you should change yourself to get along with someone - I did that with my friends during my early teens…by late teens I couldn’t recognise myself in the mirror changing yourself is not cool, and playing mind games is not honest - remember whatever you give out to the universe you’ll get back. Just be yourself.

posted July 22, 2005 11:20 AM              

Water Nymph : To tell you truth.

posted July 22, 2005 02:03 PM              

First, I am Gemini Sun/Mercury; Sag Rising Taurus Venus; Aries Mars and Moon and Singleton water in Neptune Scorpio. Second my husband is a Gemini with Cap rising and a gazillion planets in Leo. My best friends are: my sister who is a Gemini with Cancer Moon, my high school girlfriend who is a Gemini (now a Nun!) and the man who baptisized our son and performed our marriage ceremony, a Roman Catholic priest Gemini.

Now that I have given my credentials...LOL..Without insulting my own Sun sign, I will say unequivocally, Gemini seems to be one of the most unpredictable signs in the zodiac. By this I mean, it is likely that whatever sign the Gemini may have in rising, moon, even Venus they may outwardly manifest that more than anything. Everyone thinks I am any sign but Gemini!

Couple that with the changeability and you have your hands full. All the Geminis in my life have the following in common: (1) They are genuinely friendly and upbeat most of the time to most people and (2)They are helpful and usually forthcoming with advice. (3) They like to talk. Some more than others but even the seemingly quiet ones are not.

Other than that they are very different. My husband is very self-focused and extremely detached; sexually he is somewhat cold despite the Leo. he is very faithful and civic and duty oriented. He likes to present a perfect family. This is because of his Capicorn and Leo placements. His Gemini is virtually beaten down, trampled and buried.

My sister is a Gemini in the newspaper industry, brilliant, friendly, multitasking (married and madly in love with an Aries). She can stay on the telphone with me for 3 hours while we both do our chores, get dinner on the table and wash our hair. She is also extraordinarily sensitive, a bit moody and very intense about family. She would hunt down anyone who harmed me or my family. That's her Cancer moon. She and my mother were very close. My mom was a Scorpio. But my sister would take everything she said to heartt and would become teary and hurt as a result.

posted July 23, 2005 02:05 AM              

" it shouldnt be like,come take me I'm all yours...you can get me if you try "

I do agree that's the way it has to be.

As my personal experience about

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they say they like a woman who shows she's interested

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Sometimes not all the times.

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they say they like a woman who calls them

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I think texting somebody is much better.

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they say they like a woman who isn't afraid to ask them out

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I would say it's more fun when you give him hints and let them take the lead.

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they say they like a woman who confesses her true feelings about them

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My mistake I didn't choose to be mysterious and tried to be honest.I thought they liked honest girls but Iguess not.What if I am confuse with my feelings and totally confuse him.Does that still leave me with
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hot_ice: I like a girl who's nice to me..

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posted July 23, 2005 02:18 AM              

LeylaLeFay

Well that was huge...I understand what you are saying and the B**** attitude works I guess it works best for Air Signs.

For water signs sometimes,sometimes not.Most of the water signs are looking where they can rely on something.Emotional and they are emotional about how their partner behave.

I mean I have seen playing games with water signs and it has just back fired where love turns out to be hatred.

With air signs it works wonders.It keeps them on toes.For Air signs No chase No Mental Stimulation. No Fun They are always finding something new and creative.

If you lay your cards on the table then maybe the realtionship would work for some time and it would be gone.

I am not sure about Earth and Fire Signs.

posted July 23, 2005 03:40 AM              

When they say "Honest" what they really mean is "I don't want a liar who will sleep with my best friend behind my back."

What they do not mean is: "I want a woman who will pour out her heart and soul across the table."

A lot of men say they want intelligence.

But when questioned as to exactly what they mean by "Intelligence," they said they want a women who is "Elusive" and "Keeps them guessing" and "Is a challenge."

posted July 23, 2005 05:02 AM              

Your every post have been delight to read. They have cracked me up.
I am sure some experience is talking out there.

I have taken all the advice.
In fact I really liked nice girl and b!tch thing.I guess before I was not so worried acted more like as you mention "B**** but when I came to know what he felt. I started being nice. Got emotional but I don't know how you would see this situation.

I have really scared him off and disappointed him.

A) By asking commitment
B) sounded really pragmatic
C) Went ahead and said it wasn't possible we ever can be together.
D) When he said that he would wait for me
I said I don't want you to wait. I would feel bad if you would wait for some time and later when you won't.
E) I like him as friend nothing more.

I felt really bad about what I said so thought of getting some advice.Agreed I poured my heart but that was before I had got any advice.So now I know what mistakes I have made.

The next thing was yesterday in morning got message saying " I miss you " and I couldn't help and replied back saying me too and asked about how s he.

After that I got in the evening mesaage saying that " Sorry couldn't reply back.I am little drunk and have got some visitors"

Didn't reply. Didn't thought it was necessary. There is silence on both the sides.

I don't understand is that I never asked him whether he smokes or not. He drinks are not but he keeps on telling me and he told me he is not going to drink anymore. I just feel why do you tell me all that. Is it some kind of telling me that when I can stop and start drinking anytime. I can change my partner anytime.

So I guess he might be not feeling same and by this time he must have changed his mind.
I hope so. I am not gonna do anything more. I just want things back to normal.

I like him but don't love and trust him. For now not ready for it.

posted July 23, 2005 05:08 AM              

This includes: sign language, smoke signals, telegraphs, telegrams, messages in bottles, messages carried by passenger pigeons, messages in the sand, and psychic messages.

You can return his call, giving a brief reply, but do not ever contact him first.

posted July 23, 2005 09:04 AM              

Personally, I follow the 'Men like to Hunt' theory...let them come after you!!
(OK-no sexual puns intended!! LOL!!)

posted July 23, 2005 10:07 AM              

I get what you mean LeylaLeFay and agree with you on some level.
But do you know, I noticed one thing about both the examples that’s similar. Both the “B!tch“ and the “nice girl” are desperate to keep their man…only they go about it in different ways.

posted July 23, 2005 10:12 AM              

“she sees him when it's convenient for her”
Well duh…I have a life I can’t be with you all the time. Plus I really only like independent guys.

“she goes out to have fun and doesn't make promises to a virtual stranger”
Hell No!! smart women don’t do that…unless they want to end their day in a body bag.

“when he calls her he is curious where she is and why she's not home to answer his call”
I’m incredibly private, and respect other’s privacy - no way in hell will I allow someone to control me like that…I'm a fish...I'm a free spirit I swim where I want.

“He has no clue where the relationship is going and she leaves it like that.”
I have no idea where the relationship is going I usually leave it to him…waaay too lazy to think about trivial things like that.

“She buys him gifts only on his birthday and the holidays. She constantly recieves thoughtful romantic gifts from him.”
OK the birthday and holiday thing is right - but I can’t control what he buys me…nor would I want to - lmao I’m not poor.

“She ends phone conversations after fifteen minutes leaving him wanting more.”
You see I can’t just tell someone to leave me alone…that’s just rude. BUT - and I know this is evil - if someone, anyone, is irritating me on the phone, I just stop talking…until they get it.

“He brings up the ex; she looks at her watch”
He brings up the ex, I find a reason to leave - my ego will not allow that.

“she can't remember his last name”
lmao I can’t remember the last names of some relatives and childhood friends…do you REALLY think I’ll remember his?

So let me get this straight…for the past few years I’ve been following “The Rules” without even knowing it? LOL oh my God…that’s so like me. Well, after all, with me God did break the mould.

posted July 23, 2005 11:48 AM            

God, this sort of makes me wish I was a man. I'd make a really good man I'd probably be good at romancing too! I'm so no good at luring guys in and waiting, even if that's what works because I'm just waaayyy too impatient! Aries Moon, gives you the heart of a man Wouldn't be suprised if Queen Elizabeth the 1st was one herself

posted July 23, 2005 04:58 PM            

Layla, you’ve got me on my knees.
Layla, I’m begging, darling please.
Layla, darling won’t you ease my worried mind.

posted July 23, 2005 11:45 PM              

Maybe trying to be too logical, oh well leave it up to the Gem to overthink it all huh

btw i do recognize the two types, but i would rename them, the naive girl and the manipulative girl, my sis is manipulative, i was naive the first relationship i was in, after that i learned some hard lessons. but i still look for love, and i still love men, and they still love me...lol. its all good ? or not so bad?