posted November 09, 2010 02:02 PM
What Geminis expect their "girl" to be like?
Expect her to be her self,Loving,Caring,outspoken,Outgoing, supportive, kind, All generic responces aside I expect to get what i give. If i am loving and supportive i expect to recive it back, If i am trustworthy as well as honest i expect the same, In alot of ways looking for a mirror match. Just expect her to be genuine. No fake or fronts, No Trying to put on a game face or try to appeal to my likes or dislikes right off the bat. I want to see the real her. As that is what i found in my love. Just took some trial and error so to speak.
I really like you and if it can be possible I would love to go togather with you
To me that is just a pickup line or a way to express that you possibly do care for some one just not sierous. As a friend. Of course its hard to answer this one because heck, Could just be ref to the movies or some thing. but i have seen it used as a line in and out tatic, Like leave the hope for some one to think that you possibly still like them. To keep them waiting.
"I am trustworthy"
I am more trustworthy then others around you.
"I miss you"
You have been on my mind, Thinking about you a lot causing me to miss you and miss our time together. Miss having you close and at ear's or eyes length.
" I love talking to you when I talk to you I feel I am listening to music "
This one i have never used or said before. But if i did it would be in ref to her singing as she has a wonderful voice. But when talking.. Ya pickup line.
"I took your name while calling someone else"
Well i have said her name while talking to some one els. Never took her name lol. My lief's name is not some thing that is very well suited for me. But i find that i fixate on her as well as our convo's and chat's often so i still have her on my brain thru out the day and some times go in to deep thought. Even tho i am surrouned by people hence the useage of her name when some one ask me a question. with a reply "Yes lief?" Love drunk and all. It impairs speech 
"I dreamt about you last night"
I must tell you what i dreamt about last night. Meaning it could be any thing from sexual,Disires,Likes,Dislikes,Missing limbs,to just a very funny moment. just anther way to express how much you are on my mind is when your in my dreams. Then i know i got it bad. . . Is when your invading my dreams. As it is to me well my refuge from the world is in my own head when i sleep. So its my personal space and for my love to be part of it (more often then not now) just shows that she is that much more apart of me
"Do Geminis say this most often ? Is this some kind of lip service or serious love"
It really depends on the person. I say it when it happens, ref to the dreams, some i keep secret for later those are more fun to come out about when she least expects it. But for most of it. Sounds alot like spitting game. I ref that word alot because i have Gemini friends as well as me being a gemini. I could see him using the stuff to like kinda win over girls. You want serious love from a gemini man you need to brake his game and his walls first. Some truly are just looking for one simple thing and when you figure out what that is. its very rewarding in the long run All depends on the man him self.
"When do you commit and what does that committment means?"
I have always been all or nothing, Its not the best way but i put every thing in to it even at the start. Commiting my self to her and what her needs or wants may be. Always the first to bend over backwords. Well on most things. Committment to me means just that all or nothing. Want all or its nothing just as i would put forth every thing and make her number one in every thing. Focusing on her only no other females in mind nothing. Now this may sound extream but its just how i am. When i am with some one i am with that person. Hence the never cheating.I do feel more commited to my love the love of my life i am with now more then any of the others. Put forth more effort and time, Honestly just alot more of my self out there for her. For us. Opened up like a book. My secrets,My life,My heart brakes, Ups and downs, The biggest thing i could expose of my self i gave to her. Showing her my love and how truly commited to her i am. As i know she is to me.
"I would be waiting for you?"
Well ummmm i say i will be waiting for you. Would is more like how it was put in the post. That sounds more like leading on then saying "I will be waiting for you" When i use the term i will be waiting for you or am waiting for you, I mean that i am waiting for you. Just plane and simple. So best don't keep me waiting.. or i will coming looking for you!
"What do you tell them when they say they are bored?"
That is a bad sign. Meaning there is not enough flair in the relashionship. New things help this. Being creative or random at times as well. Me personaly its happen yes i have gotten board with issues and problems and even with ex's i got board. Just not much of a challange after that. To hold any ones intrest you cant just have a routean.That is the killer of most relationships. Gets dull and stale and just over all dragged out. Found that my creativeness and my Loves as well keeps it fresh as we always try to one up the other even in simple games like "I win" or "who loves who more" Oh who can for get the pet names or new meanings to names or words, Cherry pop included Its the effort that needs to be put forth from both. If one is board then the other can pick up the slack as your with them so its a give and take sort of arrengement. As when you may be feeling down or feeling board in general or board of even the normal stuff he or she can end up supricing you if you have those random moments of support and laughter
Ai.. I keep ranting and rambling on off the topic questions... Damn it oh well still going to post.. seems that then i think i type.. And i am typing while i think.. not a good combo.. my inner mono log is being posted! OH GOD! WHERE ARE MY PANTS! OH NO!!!. . Jesus i am hungy as well... Where is my love with the food... she is holding out again...
Just a sample of how like one thing can lead to anther to anther to anther and so on and so forth. That is part of how my mind works
"What is most important for Gemini man ?"
Her love and approval. I find i want and like that the best out of every thing. I like it all but just those 2. For now. Because to be honest. She is the most important for me as a gemini man 
Lindaland
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