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NickiG Moderator Posts: 3601 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010	posted November 12, 2010 11:37 PM ok ok...no more being sad, lol ------------------ the better the chase, the better the reward IP: Logged
Cynnared Knowflake Posts: 755 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted November 13, 2010 02:47 AM INSECURE about being vulnerable being a highly sensitive person performing in public as a comedian Though I am secure with who and what I am I am beginning to put more faith into myself and less faith in what others say to me at times. I used to be so suggestable it wasn't even funny, so if I can find strength in who and what I am and follow my own lead then I am better off. IP: Logged
PeaceAngel Knowflake Posts: 4313 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted November 13, 2010 02:59 AM Deeply insecure about looks. I put that down to Chiron-AC conjunction. In the mirror I see the oddest looking creature looking back. Lovability is the other one. I'm not sure where that fits astrologically. Uranus conjunct DC with Chiron opposing, Venus quincunx both Neptune and Pluto, maybe? I just cannot believe that someone would actually love me. My parents instilled that I was bad and evil and that was a big deal for a very very long time but I don't see myself that way or feel or fear that anymore. That took some serious work, but I'm grateful for that experience and to know that I have that much inner strength to see myself past that. Despite some very fierce insecurities I can manage to walk into a room and talk to anyone and everyone and come off as quite confident. I put that down to Sun conjunct AC and Mercury, and Sun, Merc & Venus in 1st with Aqua Moon in 11th, Sun sextile Moon and Uranus opposite Sun & AC and trine Moon. I'm a bit Uranian (just a bit ) and I think that's useful. IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 9400 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 13, 2010 05:07 AM Thank you for being so honest, PA. I came back to erase my posts cuz I felt too exposed but I feel I can leave it,now ------------------ Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend. IP: Logged
PeaceAngel Knowflake Posts: 4313 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted November 13, 2010 05:36 AM Ami Anne I think that when you have deep insecurities about yourself based on self-worth it makes you feel vulnerable any time you think you're exposing yourself in some way. Some people can give of themselves without actually giving very much of their real selves, but when you're laying your heart on the line, it's not easy and makes you feel exposed. I think these are the moments we push ourselves to go beyond those self-imposed fears and limits or those expectations or restrictions we think others have of us. IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 9400 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 13, 2010 05:43 AM I can see why everyone loves you, PA ------------------ Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend. IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 9400 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 13, 2010 05:44 AM Thank you ,Cynn. for sharing your heart . I, feel personally touched even though I know you touched many more people ------------------ Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend. IP: Logged
Cynnared Knowflake Posts: 755 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted November 14, 2010 10:44 PM You're very welcome and thank you so much for your kind words. IP: Logged
joyrjw Knowflake Posts: 301 From: El Cajon,California, USA Registered: Nov 2010	posted December 17, 2010 08:53 PM I'm insecure about ...... -my love life -about my looks(weight/appearance) -about abilities as a person -about surviving -about my intelligence ------------------ "The most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched, they must be felt with the heart� `Helen Keller quotes IP: Logged
SunChild Moderator Posts: 2275 From: Australia Registered: Apr 2009	posted December 17, 2010 11:26 PM quote: Originally posted by Quinnie: Sunchild After having my two children I felt like I could take on the world! Absolutely nothing could get at me! Since then I began studying counselling in class and it's all very self-reflective so I HAVE to think about these things. I found it really difficult when I first brought my eldest to school and now my youngest has started but I learned so much from just breathing and relaxing and realising that everyone has hang ups. The Public Speaking thing is a nightmare! They are all things to face though... I tried to get over my social anxiety by taking a job as a street fundraiser. I had to talk to all kinds of people. I loved it But mostly because I knew what was expected of me and what I needed to say... it was almost scripted... it's when it's spontaneous conversation that I freak out. But yes I think we are sensitives alright Sunchild Your wee daughter is beautiful by the way. Is she sleeping through the night ok? Quinnie! When this forum was at it's busiest I forgot which thread to respond to and didn't reply! Thanks and yes Angelica has been sleeping through the night from about 6 weeks ago, she's about 10 weeks now. She's a delight! And thanks for sharing your thoughts- I totally agree. ------------------ �It�s an interesting thing. Seeing Kuan Yin relating to a flower so intently. She's not just looking at it; she's interacting with it�I�m seeing how the act of relating to a flower appears to be so simple. Yet, it takes a tremendous amount of courage to make such a �simple� act important. Now, the lotus is floating away.� IP: Logged
Randall Webmaster Posts: 8301 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009	posted December 19, 2010 10:27 PM IP: Logged
soulful122 Knowflake Posts: 522 From: ←↓↑→ Registered: Jan 2010	posted December 29, 2010 05:56 PM My insecurities.. hmm I guess the way I communicate, especially online. I've been told I can be too serious and robotic. Merc Sag rx conj Saturn. I feel like most of the time I hold my tongue too much and keep my thoughts to myself because of fear of misunderstandings. And I always tend to drift from one subject to the next without even realizing it, thanks to Neptune in 3rd (also terrible with directions). Many times I find that I have too many things I wanna say on a subject, but then I forget what I was about to previously say when new thoughts pop into my head so.. I don't bother saying anything at all lol. IP: Logged
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4338 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010	posted May 13, 2011 07:20 AM EDIT IP: Logged
starfox Knowflake Posts: 225 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010	posted May 13, 2011 07:51 AM I'm a quite sensitive guy & guys aren't supposed/allowed to be sensitive acoording to most society.. we're s'posed to be meatheads with huge biceps and tattoos. That makes me feel kinda insecure. IP: Logged
abcd efg Knowflake Posts: 331 From: India Registered: Mar 2011	posted May 13, 2011 10:19 AM quote: Originally posted by starfox: I'm a quite sensitive guy & guys aren't supposed/allowed to be sensitive acoording to most society.. we're s'posed to be meatheads with huge biceps and tattoos. That makes me feel kinda insecure. Tell you something starfox. Some women appreciate sensitive men. So...... And not only women but a number of ppl in general. IP: Logged
abcd efg Knowflake Posts: 331 From: India Registered: Mar 2011	posted May 13, 2011 10:22 AM I feel insecure with lot of aggression and selfishness. Insecure not so much as in afraid but as in 'stay away'. Though that afraid part does exist. IP: Logged
LEXX Moderator Posts: 6114 From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 13, 2011 12:31 PM My weight and the extreme weight loss repercussions. I know it is a silly waste of time overall to worry. I mean, sigh, oh well, there is nothing I can do but hope for the best and keep losing. Maybe can someday get a nip and tuck lol! I have lost 145 pounds, want to lose at least 60 more to where I feel great and think I look good! Hey that was good enough for me to be in a heath store/gym ad (GNC/Gold's Gym)so that is my main goal! So lol, over 2/3 to main goal!!!!! Then eventually go for thin again really thin, but that will be a longer term goal. But yeah, my body which used to be young, fit and strong, does make me quite shy. I tend to keep it well covered unless its too hot and then oh well, shame goes bye byes at least for scary legs. IP: Logged
starfox Knowflake Posts: 225 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010	posted May 13, 2011 05:19 PM quote: Originally posted by abcd efg: Tell you something starfox. Some women appreciate sensitive men. So...... And not only women but a number of ppl in general. Well that is nice to know. I'm not 'soft' or a 'wimp', I just feel things deeply. IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 9400 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted May 13, 2011 05:25 PM You are tops in my book, Starfox ------------------ Throw away your books and listen to your heart.Listen the closest when it hurts the most. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged

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