posted November 13, 2010 03:00 AM            

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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies with in us."
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posted November 13, 2010 05:13 AM            

I am gonna think about the question, today.

posted November 13, 2010 05:47 AM            

I can't think of anything else right now.

EDIT: I guess people who flash are perverted. I mean, I wouldn't be offended and would probably think it's funny, but it's still odd. Actually, I find the people who say they are traumatised by flashers funnier than the flashers.

posted November 13, 2010 05:56 AM            

Ever met fundamentalist Christians who seem (pardon the pun) hell-bent on telling you over and over how perverted and disguisting sex is? Ever noticed their obsession with going on and on about this? Who has issues? Repressed sexuality anyone?

posted November 13, 2010 08:20 AM            

I was gonna say that society sets the standards but I think it is more than that.

I think we were built with that "small voice" inside.
I think that when that voice is deadened, we go against ourselves.
I think perversions are when we go against what feels right inside us cuz it has been deadened or numbed.

The person,usually ,knows that something is not right but not HOW to get back to his original feelings before he lost them.
I think the person's internal compass when awry is the best way to explain it

What does anyone think about that?

posted November 13, 2010 08:47 AM            

A perv is usually more of a vibe or energy given off by what we call "dirty old men" - or young men. We all know them. They usually have a thing for woman way younger than themselves and are sexist pigs. The main thing though is that low-level, dirty dog, sexual vibe they exude. It's not sexy, it's gross because their sexual issues are twisted and people pick up on them easily because the energy is usually a strong one. They typically like pornography, strip clubs and phone sex any kind of base level sex to avoid true intimacy and closeness with someone. They tend to view others as sexual objects and conquests and sexual thoughts control them and are on their mind almost constantly.

A perv is constantly slipping sexual comments and or jokes into conversations and has sex on the brain 24/7.

A "perv" is not a good thing to be called or to call yourself. lol

Of course two consenting adults doing what they want behind closed doors is their business. That has nothing to do with being a "perv" in the senses I'm talking about anyway. A perv is icky.

And there is an even worse kind of "pervert" as charmaine described, the child molesters. And I think every perv has to get a handle on their sexual issues or they have the possibility of becoming one. Like the priests who repress their sexuality and molest boys, unhealthy sexuality within a person is a dangerous thing.

posted November 13, 2010 09:01 AM            

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Am I a freak? You betcha. And proud of it.

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posted November 13, 2010 11:47 AM            

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Personally, I feel like anything two consenting adults want to do behind closed doors is their business. As long as they are adults and in agreement, hey, more power to them.

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Kinky yes, that's my choice of word to use.Pervert nah,

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posted November 13, 2010 12:55 PM            

Perverts: People who give me the creeps and have a slimy vibe. Often something I can't pinpoint but it's a gut instinct. I'm always right with that instinct.
Someone pretending to care when they do not. Someone not forthright, who is too elusive.
I get the pervert vibe from them. Toxic feeling, like they are wet and stick hair clinging to me (eww).