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Topic: Single, Married, Taken, Or Other?
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Stawr
Moderator Posts: 1600
From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted October 18, 2011 01:40 AM
  
I have some hash transits going on right now.Both Saturn and Sun Opposing my Sun...
And Mars opposing my Mars... The more I talked to this guy the more obsessed I became everyday...but I didn't show it. But I wasn't too cold either. He was honestly the only thing on my mind all the time.
Other guys I was talking to I just started to blow off. Not to mention it's been a while since I talked to any of my friends...So I started depending on this guy for my happiness.(something I really don't do) I'm telling you, yikes! And today and I little bit yesterday I'm thinking how the hell did I get here?? It's all my own fault I will admit.
But yes I felt ****** , nervous, and anxious the whole entire day...I wanted cry but I couldn't. I even tried when I was alone...I just wanted to get these emotions out of my body...I couldn't, it felt awful. But I am starting to feel over it...like the damage has been done...and I can't see this guy making me feel good...so whats the point of being into him. And my guy friend texted me...and I told him what was going on. And we are suppose to hang out Thursday. And he was joking like I could be your date instead. I liked this guy more as a friend I had a crush on him when I first met him...but I prefer him as a friend now, and we can usually hang out just as friends as long as he isn't drunk. He's put the moves on me a few other occasions, but I'm really not phased by it. I will say when Saturn first entered Libra I was in a bad relationship...one that was hard to get out of since we lived together. Drama everyday! TORTURE Then when Saturn entered Libra again...now I'm single and no one/is good enough or right...And it's like torture...but definitely a less severe one...like I'm sick of being into someone and the feeling seeming mutual just for it to flop before anything really happens. SICK OF IT. When Saturn leaves I will look forward to the rewards...but for now I will just continue to be happily single...and occasionally disapointed. grr! IP: Logged |
Stawr
Moderator Posts: 1600
From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted October 18, 2011 01:57 AM
If he was to show me interest again yeah I'd probably give him a strike...but give him a chance...but right now I feel better now that I've detached my feelings I was getting for him... for some reason it's way less painful thinking THERE'S STILL HOPE...for some reason that is painful for me to do. lmao IP: Logged |
charmainec
Moderator Posts: 4390
From: Venus next to Randall
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 18, 2011 08:11 AM
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Originally posted by Randall:
"Other" could be separated, married and unhappy, open relationship, fwb, or anything else. I'm single, and I absolutely love it. I get to do and say anything I want. Still, I would trade it all and sacrifice my singleness on the altar of one special girl if I found The One. Till then, I'm a bachelor, baby! In a relationship, I am fiercely loyal, protective, attentive, and faithful (without being clingy, whiney, or smothering). But as a single guy, I'm untamed--like the lyrics in Elton John's song: "...like freedom feels where wild horses run."
Wow, it is a trip down memory lane. How ironic those lyrics are  You weren't kidding when you mentioned what you're like in a relationship. You're all that and more. I can't express enough how greatful I am to have you in my life.  ------------------
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Remember, love can conquer the influences of the planets....It can even eliminate karma.
Linda GoodmanIP: Logged |
childofzeus
Knowflake Posts: 133
From: Jupiter
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted October 25, 2011 03:53 AM
Single and happy  IP: Logged |
mskimx4
Knowflake Posts: 127
From: columbia, sc, usa
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted October 28, 2011 09:42 AM
i'll have to say taken/other! IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 18086
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 28, 2011 11:08 AM
Thanks, Charmaine.  IP: Logged |
Voix_de_la_Mer
Knowflake Posts: 669
From:
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted October 28, 2011 01:28 PM
Hmmm ... that question used to be clear-cut.
Currently very taken with someone, but not together-together.IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 18086
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 29, 2011 12:13 PM
Taken with but not taken? Nice twist on the word.------------------
"Nurture great thoughts, for you will never go higher than you think."--DISRAELI IP: Logged |
charmainec
Moderator Posts: 4390
From: Venus next to Randall
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 30, 2011 02:27 AM
You're welcome, Randall.IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 18086
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 30, 2011 01:21 PM
Wish I had seen it when you first wrote it. I don't read everything.------------------
"Nurture great thoughts, for you will never go higher than you think."--DISRAELI IP: Logged |
charmainec
Moderator Posts: 4390
From: Venus next to Randall
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 31, 2011 06:02 AM
No biggy.------------------
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Remember, love can conquer the influences of the planets....It can even eliminate karma.
Linda GoodmanIP: Logged |
Tripny
Knowflake Posts: 40
From: Apache Junction, Arizona, United Sates
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 31, 2011 12:42 PM
7 months and still just now starting to be able to drive down the road and not look at every red truck thinking its him.But than again - every time I think I am getting closer to getting over it I have a dream about him or some other reminder and will actually cry.I feel so stupid! I hate this! What's worse is that whatever the lesson was I was meant to learn from our time together, I have obviously failed. The only thing I feel I learned is to never let it happen again, never believe in forever and never allow myself to care like that again. IP: Logged |
MoonWitch
Moderator Posts: 942
From: The Beach
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 31, 2011 02:03 PM
YAY!!! Deliriously happily married for 2 1/2 months now  We've been together almost 5 years. IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist
Knowflake Posts: 443
From: Michigan :)
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted November 04, 2011 07:53 AM
Happily Married for 6 days and counting...  IP: Logged |
charmainec
Moderator Posts: 4390
From: Venus next to Randall
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 04, 2011 08:39 AM
Congrats!  ------------------
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Remember, love can conquer the influences of the planets....It can even eliminate karma.
Linda GoodmanIP: Logged |
Starry, Starry Night
Knowflake Posts: 110
From: Springvale South, Victoria, Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 04, 2011 09:19 AM
Married for 33 years, 3 children, 1 grandchild, Happy but spirituality beckons. IP: Logged |
1-scorp
Knowflake Posts: 103
From:
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 09, 2011 06:49 PM
I'm single. However, I can't say I'm happy about it IP: Logged |
LEXX
Knowflake Posts: 9742
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 09, 2011 07:26 PM
In transition and or holding pattern.
Still live with ex to be and we are good friends....only that, not intimates.
Hoping in rl it will work out with my boyfriend but we have yet to meet in person.
So due mostly to financial/logistical/and what ifs.......
I guess I am kinda single?
Yeah, suppose I am am single.
Celibacy does indicate that.
So yeah;
single,
but no longer looking for anyone.
If things do not work out in rl with my boyfriend......
I guess I will pursue a single life and remain celibate until I croak or whatever.
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downtomars
Knowflake Posts: 1049
From: NY
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 09, 2011 08:02 PM
I'm single. Hopefully not for long...IP: Logged |
Hera
Knowflake Posts: 1486
From: the OR
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 09, 2011 08:12 PM
I'm not sure what I am. Almost engaged, then single, then courted by ex and another. In trouble, that's what I am...IP: Logged |
libraschoice77
Knowflake Posts: 81
From: NYC
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 12, 2011 04:30 PM
In a relationship for now..I wish I wasn't so clingy though.IP: Logged |
LEXX
Knowflake Posts: 9742
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 12, 2011 05:08 PM
I am just confused and in stasis I guess.
It sucks being a hopeless Romantic wanting the impossible.
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Hope is a 4 letter word
Mother of self delusion
Related to tomorrow which never comes.
Give me hard facts.
I can rely on that logic for good or ill.
~LEXX IP: Logged |
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