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Topic: Rough Sex
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lechien
Knowflake Posts: 923
From: my 30 cubic square meter room with a rat!
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 23, 2011 12:40 PM
  
about threesome, it's really one of those things the timing and the right people have to match up. i once naively believed that polygamy was possible, if everyone involved would contribute with honestly and respect. through the years i have learnt that it's not possible, because people just cannot have respect. most people are just barbaric in that area, given into jealousies and emotions. nothing civil is possible when people have to be like that. still i don't exclude the fantasy of threesome though. i've done with 2 guys and a girl watcher. i could try with another girl and my partner. ugh, but at the moment i am as a-sexual as a mull. never thought i get over my near-sexual addiction ever, but here i am, sex isn't the most important thing in my life right now, honestly... i want my libido back soon-ish. IP: Logged |
Stawr
Knowflake Posts: 389
From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 23, 2011 01:24 PM
"Same here nowadays.
If it were not for all the nasty STDs out there and wanting more than just meaningless(though often fun) sex;
I would probably be out of control.
I rather do without sex than have safe sex."Exactly! And if ya don't know or trust them, what if they don't know how to put a condom on right? I almost had a one night stand with a guy, but he didn't have condoms...and we pretty much agreed "to be continued" So since he knew how into him I was he started talking to me like I was a peice of **** .He went from telling me I'm pretty to texting me like "so when are you gonna suck my ****?) And other things I wont get into...Well I lost interest.
They way I am talked to is soooo important. Dudes have to know how to say things the right way.
I will do stuff with guys I'm not comited to, but I won't go all the way.
Not to mention my friend was obbsessed with this dude too. And she got mad that I did stuff with him. And that stupid **** ended our friendship. Also the rumors I've been hearing about this guy are awful. But the people that hang around the place I met him, make up rumors...I have some rumors about me there to. Like that place is cool at first, until you realize most of the people there are lowlifes. I hang out with SOME people who are a rougher crowd too. But now, lately I am thinking why!? IP: Logged |
LEXX
Moderator Posts: 6111
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 23, 2011 01:27 PM
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Originally posted by lechien:
the true pervert is the mind that identifies perverse.and yea, we all have odd fantasies that shall remain fantasies! 
So very true!
As to the odd fantasies, sure I desire such but the dynamics are either to difficult to arrange, or are potentially deadly;
so no going there.IP: Logged |
lechien
Knowflake Posts: 923
From: my 30 cubic square meter room with a rat!
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 23, 2011 01:38 PM
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Originally posted by LEXX:
or are potentially deadly;
so no going there.
LOL!! In the Realm of the Senses? IP: Logged |
LEXX
Moderator Posts: 6111
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 23, 2011 01:39 PM
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Originally posted by Stawr:
And if ya don't know or trust them, what if they don't know how to put a condom on right?
Oh an d I KNOW from sad experience that condoms don't always work.
Caught Gonorrhea 3 times even though was using rubbers, which two broke and one came off. quote:
Originally posted by Stawr:
I almost had a one night stand with a guy, but he didn't have condoms...and we pretty much agreed "to be continued" So since he knew how into him I was he started talking to me like I was a peice of **** .He went from telling me I'm pretty to texting me like "so when are you gonna suck my ****?) And other things I wont get into...Well I lost interest.
They way I am talked to is soooo important. Dudes have to know how to say things the right way.
Oh for sure! And right off without knowing me well, forget that! After I feel more comfortable only then do I enjoy the graphic talk.
Most guys don't know how to get a woman aroused by words.
Just blurting out I want you to do this or that, suck etc.;
no, start out less graphic at first by showing your desire for the woman to do things to you and you too her.
Tell her things like, oh babe, thining about you scent, thinking about your sexy mouth, sitting here feeling very aroused at the thought of what those sweet lips can do......
yeah, far better than, hey b!tch when you gonna suck my dick.
Ewwwww.IP: Logged |
lechien
Knowflake Posts: 923
From: my 30 cubic square meter room with a rat!
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 23, 2011 01:40 PM
my partner said "strangling" IS really nice, as long as you don't kill the guy. IP: Logged |
LEXX
Moderator Posts: 6111
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 23, 2011 01:59 PM
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Originally posted by LEXX:
or are potentially deadly;
so no going there.
quote:
Originally posted by lechien:
LOL!! In the Realm of the Senses?
LOL!
No.
More in the realm of extreme vampyrism. IP: Logged |
LEXX
Moderator Posts: 6111
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 23, 2011 02:09 PM
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Originally posted by lechien:
my partner said "strangling" IS really nice, as long as you don't kill the guy.
Yes it is for the guy, but like many pleasurable things, the line between erotic and deadly is a very very fine line.
Better know CPR just in case. 
And like some professional doms do;
make sure there is a signed and witnessed contract declaring that all parties are adults of sound mind, all agreeing to this kind of erotic roulette in case it takes a bad turn.IP: Logged |
lechien
Knowflake Posts: 923
From: my 30 cubic square meter room with a rat!
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 23, 2011 04:11 PM
oh yea, once i looked to see if i could apprentice to a dominatrix. it didn't work out, but would have been curious to peek in what it's like! i lost interest now, i think i'd be too lazy...  IP: Logged |
centaurbythesea
Newflake Posts: 20
From: The Desert
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 24, 2011 06:08 PM
First off YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY! An Eighth House Forum!!!!!!  I have my sun and moon conjunct in the sign of Cancer and my mars and venus conjunct in the sign of Leo all in my eighth house. I like rough sex in that I love being completely dominated. I am a female, and I like having my hair pulled, being bitten very hard, and being choked. I don't like spanking too much only because it doesn't seem primal enough. It's more sadist to me. But I love having bruises and scratch marks and being sore and maybe even a little injured. I am a heterosexual. Now, I do not want to be intentionally hurt with a knife or anything. No props, no toys, no chains, no blindfolds. I just want to be completely dominated...Making sense? Venus in Leo in eighth house. Moon and Sun both in Eighth house opposing Saturn, Uranus, Neptune in Capricorn in the First house. cheers!
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 9399
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 24, 2011 06:21 PM
The only thing I like rough is talk .
Venus in Gem  ------------------
If you forgive men their trespasses, your Heavenly Father will forgive you
But if ye forgive not men their trespasses,neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Yrone
Knowflake Posts: 201
From:
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 25, 2011 12:13 AM
Well I like it a bit violent with D/s but whilst I am mostly s I need someone who won't mind taking a surprise hit.But, uhm it must be so friggin obvious in my horoscope that even computer generated reports pick up on it ... one I did gave me out "... needs to be dominated." Hah. So anyway Lexx, that psi connection, how does that feel? Do you always have it? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 9399
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 25, 2011 07:23 AM
Yrone
You have me curious
What does your charts show that people say that?------------------
If you forgive men their trespasses, your Heavenly Father will forgive you
But if ye forgive not men their trespasses,neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Yrone
Knowflake Posts: 201
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Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 25, 2011 09:02 AM
Uhm, actually I can't remember what aspect that was written under, it was one of those free readings you can find on the net, where they generate it instantly from text blocks.It just sticked with me for obvious reasons I'll have a look if I can find the site again, but iirc it had something to do with that Saturn in H4 Cancer IP: Logged |
LEXX
Moderator Posts: 6111
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 25, 2011 11:30 AM
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Originally posted by Yrone:
So anyway Lexx, that psi connection, how does that feel? Do you always have it?
Yes always with a small handfull of exceptions in my wild youth when I was too stoned and intoxicated.
Even though I lost count of my pre 1980s lovers;
I do remember that I always treated each one as a lover, not a sex object.
I always combine energy healing, Tantric with sexual expression. I desire to connect with lovers totally, mind body and soul, as mere sex means nothing to me.
I gave unconditional love to each, respecting them as persons, making them feel special.
I shall return later with more of how it feels to truly connect on the psi levels with another.
Sex should never be just for getting off in my opinion.------------------
~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine.~Nikola Tesla
~There is no box.~H♥
~Balance is not letting anyone love you less than you love yourself.~Felipe
~I remember, therefore I am immortal~LEXX
~It is far better to regret wrong paths taken than to regret the paths not tried~Giselle
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centaurbythesea
Newflake Posts: 20
From: The Desert
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 25, 2011 05:33 PM
I would like to add that I detailed above when I like rough sex. 75% of the time I do not like rough sex, but gentle, romantic sex.IP: Logged |
LEXX
Moderator Posts: 6111
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 26, 2011 06:11 AM
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Originally posted by centaurbythesea:
I would like to add that I detailed above when I like rough sex. 75% of the time I do not like rough sex, but gentle, romantic sex.
I agree.
It all depends on my mood.------------------
~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine.~Nikola Tesla
~There is no box.~H♥
~Balance is not letting anyone love you less than you love yourself.~Felipe
~I remember, therefore I am immortal~LEXX
~It is far better to regret wrong paths taken than to regret the paths not tried~Giselle
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saronna
Knowflake Posts: 253
From: Australia
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 29, 2011 09:19 PM
Well, i am a scary pussycat and i like soft pussycat paws.IP: Logged |
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