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posted November 20, 2010 11:55 PM            

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Do you like it? If so, how rough?
Be descriptive (if you like). Also, please post your Venus sign and any other relevant astro details.

I like the occasional rough sex. Nothing too kinky or violent. But I wouldn't be freaked out by being thrown on the bed or roughly flipped over or smacked on the behind or having my hair pulled. Or even smacked on the face (not hard enough to leave a mark though). I would do the same to my partner. One time a boyfriend put his hands on my neck (he didn't squeeze though) and I orgasmed right away and everytime we had sex after that I asked him to do it again.

I like to scratch and nip sometimes also. It feels very primal and possessive.

I couldn't f*ck (are we allowed to use such words on this forum?) like that all the time but sometimes I need to burn that kind of wild energy off.

I have Venus in Scorpio.

I think the possession thing is my Taurus Moon showing. I don't mind feeling sore the next day or seeing scratch marks on my body or my partner's body. It makes me feel loved LOL.

For those who like Star Trek, think of the episode of Deep Space Nine where Jadzia and Warf ended up in the infirmary after one of their sexcapades...that's what I'm talking about

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posted November 20, 2010 11:58 PM            

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posted November 21, 2010 12:00 AM            

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posted November 21, 2010 12:03 AM            

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Oh I agree. I can be tender and sweet too. I have cried while making love to my partner, and laid there for hours afterwards with him inside me.

But sometimes you just want to bite and pull some hair LOL.

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posted November 21, 2010 12:04 AM            

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Very much agree. It releases a lot of tension. I understand, completely.

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posted November 21, 2010 12:31 AM            

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If I were to totally trust and love the person....
I would be up for just about anything!
Except for........
No injuring each other of course,
but vampyre, spanking, lol...hmmm other thoughts just popped in/not saying what lol!...
and raw unrestrained passion...at times when both are in such a mood.....
Frake me nigh onto breathless blue!
Ooooh yeah!

PS.Have experienced rough...so know I can physically take such roughness...
but have not yet experienced it with anyone I completely love and trust.
Hope to someday.
~sigh~
So my experiences so far have not been much fun, and one sided. Even revolting. Felt used. "sarcastic laughter" Well yeah, I was used.

I am now a celibate.
No more being used.
No more making do.
I deserve better.

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posted November 21, 2010 02:26 AM            

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One person's whip is another person's feather.

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posted November 21, 2010 02:40 AM            

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True!

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posted November 21, 2010 02:42 AM            

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can i have both a whip and a feather?

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posted November 21, 2010 02:51 AM            

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Hmmm
Feather or whip?
Feather or whip?

Saw some nice braided silk ones in the local adult shoppe.
Like for having sensations betwixt what one would get betwixt feather and whip.

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posted November 21, 2010 03:04 AM            

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You forgot handcuffs, Nickipoo!

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posted November 21, 2010 03:07 AM            

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I tend to be more sensual, gently passionate, intense .. but I can enjoy myself if my partner gets a little rough.
Especially if I see that they like it.

In the past I have been scratched, pinned down, whipped , spanked, tied up, hair pulled, roughed around and bitten (not enough to draw blood) and have enjoyed myself.
One of my exes couldn't orgasm unless I spanked him.

I've mellowed out quite a bit since then, though occasionally I can bite if the passion gets too high and am overexcited.

It really depends on the person I'm with and how much passionate tension exists between us.

Edit: I have Venus in Capricorn.

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posted November 21, 2010 03:07 AM            

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no worries, got them already!!

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posted November 21, 2010 04:10 AM            

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My favourite topic!
I'll be bk

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posted November 21, 2010 04:12 AM            

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Are they fuzzy?

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posted November 21, 2010 11:35 AM            

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Oooooh handcuffs!

I like being restrained. Or if I'm on top I like restraining. I have used neckties, handcuffs (fuzzy), silken ropes, and plain ole hands to play those games.

LEXX you mentioned vampyre, do you mean biting to draw blood or just hickeys?

Not everyone mentioned their Venus sign.

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posted November 21, 2010 11:36 AM            

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nooo......just regular hand cuffs....

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posted November 21, 2010 01:22 PM            

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I had a pair of regular handcuffs once but my partner at the time thought that was too kinky and insisted on fuzzy so ever since then I just use fuzzy.

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posted November 21, 2010 01:36 PM            

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Regular is better. Fuzzy is for wusses. lol

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posted November 21, 2010 02:08 PM            

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posted November 21, 2010 02:52 PM            

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LEXX you mentioned vampyre, do you mean biting to draw blood or just hickeys?

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Gee.....honestly do not know!
I know my neck is very sensitive and the idea of someone I totally trust and love going vampyre on me arouses me in a way I have yet to experience! I feel I'd go as far as he wanted to!
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Not everyone mentioned their Venus sign.

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Everyone is a student...
Learning is eternal...LEXX
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~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine. ~Nikola Tesla"
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posted November 21, 2010 02:53 PM            

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venus in cap!!

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posted November 21, 2010 02:55 PM            

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Me likey that placement. Lots.

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posted November 21, 2010 02:56 PM            

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posted November 21, 2010 03:35 PM            

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It makes me go...mmmmmm...

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