posted November 27, 2010 04:17 PM            

I'm a scorpio sun. So sex is a topic that interests me.
I think so for many others around here. Buth there's more in life than sex. Woh, what a brilliant remark this is.
Oké so you knew already. When i look at a man I ask my self the question is he attractive? Sexual chemistry can be
very delusive sometimes. Once you've tasted the candy, the chemistry can be all gone. Very scary and upsetting.

So my question is what charactics do you appreciate in someone? Or do you find attractive in someone besides the psycical appearance?

So mars is what your attractive to and juno is what you love?

My juno is in virgo, so the virgo qualities I love in a man? And mars in cancer can seduce me?

Juno in Virgo:

You have high expectations in terms of daily performance and fulfillment of tasks, your relationships will likely be organized,
efficient and somewhat ritualistic. You strive for perfection in all the details of life,
and if the partner fails to fulfill your expectations,
you tend to be critical and nit-picking. You may be drawn to a mate who is very efficient and task-oriented, or a craftsman.

posted November 27, 2010 04:44 PM            

Scorp - it's never about physical attributes for me....I can appreciate them, but they often have a dampening effect on me.

I like someone who knows who they are, and it quietly forceful in exerting themselves.

Edit - Mars in Aries, Juno in Sag (just had to go look that one up - dunno what it means?)

posted November 27, 2010 04:49 PM            

hey, as a scorpio, i can say that we know who we are

posted November 27, 2010 04:56 PM            

That's a difficult one. I guess I have always avoided the sex without love thing, to be honest it scares me (I am scared that once I started, it would be long, slippery road to hell.......this is where I need Firecracker to come and slap me!!!).

posted November 27, 2010 05:05 PM            

So that means there has to be more besides sex.

posted November 27, 2010 07:42 PM            

Juno in Sagittarius: The partner will tend to come from an entirely different background and may even be a foreigner. Even if the partner is not a Sagittarian, they may have Sagittarian traits. They may be involved in higher education or take frequent long trips, and they may talk a lot and listen only a little (if at all). http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/Juno21.3.html

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So my question is what characteristics do you appreciate in someone?

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Intelligence that's open and still curious.
Someone I can laugh with.
Easy communication.
Someone that's fair and tolerant like myself.

posted November 27, 2010 07:45 PM            

When we are old and sagging all over the place and our hormones are in the basement, sex may not be as important (although I'll certainly give it the old college try). All we'll have left is how interested we still are in each other, our conversations, our minds, and the love that was built on that.

posted November 27, 2010 07:48 PM            

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When we are old and sagging all over the place and our hormones are in the basement,

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Good visual

posted November 27, 2010 08:14 PM            

Venus in Gemini

posted February 16, 2011 07:35 AM            

A guy that knows my next move before I know it

posted February 16, 2011 11:11 AM            

I have Juno in Leo in the 5th house.
I never date Leo men though, they are too obnoxious to me. Usually, I have to be the obnoxious person.. to a degree.

I like guys who are sarcastic, kind of moody. Unpredictable.
They have to make me laugh, but in a specific way.
Not by telling jokes (I get bored, especially during long, involved jokes, where I'm supposed to remember stuff)
and I don't really like the physical kind of jokesters.. the ones making faces and flapping their arms around or mimicking people.
It has to be word-play type of humor.

My SO has created his own language, which is very handy.
We took that to the next level and created our own text language, that way when nosy people read your phone, they wonder if you are OK or not. Now THAT's funny. To me.

They have to have creative interests, cannot be couch potatoes, cannot be too overly involved with their families.
They should NOT watch sports, OMG, no jocks!

(but, they should enjoy sports. Like we should be able to go swimming, hiking, bowling, play basketball, etc.. they just can't sit around WATCHING it. Venus/Sag)

ETA:
Juno in Leo

Your partner may be showy, creative and joyful and may act as if he/she is “onstage”. However, this person may also be a bossy and immature one with a strong ego. If your natal Juno has inauspicious aspectual relationships, you must keep away from shy and withdrawn persons. The effect of Juno in Leo generally brings a spouse who is energetic, sociable, full of life and “the flirting type”. Under such a positioning, your first love affair can lead to marriage. Your partner will not exactly be “homebound” like a Cancer but will value family and children much. In this case, Juno’s aspects must be studied more closely

posted February 16, 2011 12:02 PM            

Sex seems so base to me these days.

posted February 16, 2011 02:31 PM            

Not in a destructive way...but for example, my Aries ex was just so brave, always skydiving and climbing dangerous mountains, and just being around me challenged me to be more fearless.

I like it when he opens up new worlds for me.

Qualities that attract me other than physical appearance/sexual chemistry include:
-creative brilliance
-intellectual brilliance
-often fame, but not always, more the qualities it would take to make him famous, so a couple of men I've had relationships with were successful in that way (it was not the success itself that I found alluring, but those qualities)
-courage and dauntlessness
-purity of spirit
-curiosity
-open-mindedness
-open-heartedness
-a true sense of adventure
-respect toward others and seeing all beings as equal
-ability to have and be fun
-ability to be honest and true to himself
-living creatively and conscientiously, never settling for being mediocre or conformist. Never doing things a certain way just because everyone else does them that way
-ability to inspire me in my work and provoke me to think, feel, and experiment with new things
-gentleness mixed with masculinity

My last two boyfriends had these qualities. Even though what attracted me most to each of them was their hotness and our sexual chemistry, lol!

posted February 16, 2011 03:10 PM            

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Originally posted by StarrofVenusGirl:
Intelligence and the ability to hold a conversation.

When we are old and sagging all over the place and our hormones are in the basement, sex may not be as important (although I'll certainly give it the old college try). All we'll have left is how interested we still are in each other, our conversations, our minds, and the love that was built on that.

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posted February 17, 2011 12:30 PM            

"Juno in the 6th House: This person can be married to their work. They are more likely to marry a co-worker! More often, though, Juno in the 6th house shows a need for a partner that one can work with. If there are stress aspects (the square or opposition, or the conjunction to a malefic) then partnership and work won't blend well. In that case, either you will try to turn the partner into a servant, or they will try to do the same to you. Strive for some equality here if you don't want the partnership to break up."

*I can be a work-aholic at times.(don't get me wrong I need to have my breaks to stay sane and motivated though. I love where I work now and never play hooky. So maybe it would be cool to have someone with those same values. Money makes the world go round after all that is the reality. So I need a guy that can be realistic about incomes, If I have kids...I can't be the one always working. The dude will have to step up. I am beginning to not wanna settle for dead beat guys. (I blame my Pisces Venus for going for guys like that in the first place.) But at least now I can spot them out better now, kinda like how Britney Spears can call em like she sees them. (womanizers that is)
*I had a psychic tell me I would meet my second and final love at my work.
*Yes getting along with SO is very important, being able to work...I mean how does a relationship work if we can't work together!?
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In my personal chart it doesn't look like I have any aspects at all.
But yes it definitely becomes a deal breaker when the guys starts treating like I'm an ATM machine. Dude I'm not your mom or grandma...I am suppose to be your equal. Huge turn off, I like to be generous...but the dude shouldn't expect it or demand it. I don't want to do the same to the guy either, I'm impressed when the guy pays, but I want to treat people the way I want to be treated, so I would never expect/demand the guy to pay all the time.

Here are other things I like in guys:
*can treat me like a lady and respect me
*A guy who can respect my boundaries when I am trying to get to know him...that will make me wanna get closer to him!
*A like it when a guy can be a tease and be hot and tempting.
*A guy I can talk to anything about, religion and psychology, and skeletons in our closest. lol
*Charming
*genuine, honest, loyal
*he can keep it real
*a guy who is funny and can tell it like it is