posted February 20, 2011 03:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Lucia23:
All the stuff I like best sexually is stuff I can't do alone or with an electronic device.

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True, I love to be with him most of all, but there are times when he has to stay in the hospital for an extended amount of time because of his heart condition. In those times he use to worry a lot since people like to be on the prowl..

"Oh he is gone".."He'll never find out or know".."We can keep it between us"..

Some people just do not care and are shameless in their way of over stepping personal boundaries, but..

I've told him I rather be with him always and usually myself lol. That and I include him by telling him what I bought and did that day when he is in the hospital.

Several of my girl friends say "OMG SCREW IT..I would so have caved in!!!"

Not me; I'm creative and caring, but most of all I cherish him and I wouldn't trade him for any tom dickery fool heart problem or not.

-Cheshire Kat

posted November 07, 2011 11:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Is cheating ever okay? Can people be expected to be monogomous and faithful? Some guys say that it's okay for a man to seek variety. Opinions?

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The problem I see as far as infidelity goes is with the impracticality of monogamy. I'm all about honor and dignity but somethings just aren't plausible. I think truthfully many people want to believe that human nature aligns with being monogamous but historical evidence and statistics related to extra marital affairs and infidelity don't substantiate those claims.

I'm currently celibate and have been so for some time now and I innately know that celibacy goes against my primal instincts and urges. I'm very sexual and I've chosen to practice celibacy, it's not something that comes naturally to me. I think monogamy is a practice, and choosing to be faithful in any form of relationship is a choice. People should be satisfied with the choices they make.

I know monogamy is impractical and therefore when entering into a relationship (in the same way I've practiced celibacy) I make sure that my significant other is choosing to conform to a partnership of fidelity as am I. Choosing to be faithful is a choice, personally I think monogamy goes against our primal urges as humans or animals but it is a choice to stay faithful. If I felt the need to succumb to my primal urges outside of a relationship that would cue me to end said relationship. I would rather end a relationship if I had any intention to be unfaithful and would expect the same from a relationship partner.