posted July 26, 2011 12:43 AM            

*Whenever I vent to people about this, they ask me if he is mentally ill.
-he is how you say...endemic(sp?) meaning carbs don't agree with him.
.After people ask that question they say oh well maybe he is depressed of lonely.
.He does seem a bit like a lost soul laying around this house

*My sister's husband works at Trader Joes, my mom's brother will show up there. Eat the free samples, ask people questions about things, and leave without buying anything multiple times.
~He doesn't want to go on food stamps since its not the republican way. But if you look at it he is not any better than people on food stamps since he just eats our food without pitching in and borrows money from my mom.

*About my mom being laid back and such about her bro being here all the time...And me thinking wtf, this sh!t is wack, UNACCEPTABLE behavior for a man of his age...
~I realize the Capricorn in my chart is VERY strong.
. I have Uranus, Saturn, and Neptune here. With my Mars and Venus in the 10th house

*Me and my sister wonder if he really even lives in his house anymore.
~I mean he barely ever leaves my moms house yes it's gotten worse.

*The Cappy in me can't stand to be around people that don't try to better their life much, yet feel entitled to mooch.
*So the best news of all, my sister offered me to rent a room at her house. Hopefully her husband will be cool with it. And I would of course be paying to live there. But I want to make sure is husband feels comfortable with the idea first.

posted July 26, 2011 01:11 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
It's just my mom's side they are so wired. They have some serious social issues.

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She has Mars conj Venus in Scorp in the 5th. She likes the drama. I can only imagine what you are like....Actually you prob remind her of how she was in youth. She knows that relationships are complex, hers more than most, lol, and is not too keen on society's mores. Actually Scorpio can be very dismissive of how society wants people to act. They care more about living up to their own code of conduct and being true to themselves, however that may look to others; so it is what it is.

posted July 28, 2011 12:08 AM            

And my mom had a Venus Mars conjunction in Virgo not Scorpio.

posted July 28, 2011 01:15 AM            

It's just hard to be around my mom who is in her own world half the time...This odd behavior has been going on for a year. It's probably time I figure out living somewhere else. Cause I've been dealing with this bullsh!t too long. My mom is too old to change. My mom doesn't care that no one in the family likes him. She sometimes gets distraught when two people gang up on her and tell it like it is, or will say "okay enough".

posted July 28, 2011 10:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
Still in the 5th, so it's still describing you and let's face it, Virgo is no slouch, esp Venus/Mars conj.

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posted July 28, 2011 10:47 PM            

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Originally posted by sand:

does that annoy you that ur the one that has to leave?

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Well I don't have to leave, my mom is not one to kick anyone out. But yeah seeing my uncle as much as my mom and dad is annoying and wired. So I think I would be less annoyed if I moved out. Sometmes I don't care and sometimes I'm just like this is effing wack.

I was living away with an ex boyfriend from 09-10. So I was very greatfull for my mom taking me back. I don't pay rent here, but I'm starting to pay for my car, phone, and food. And if I moved in with my sister I would pay rent.

The only thing is I want to be sure I am ready to move out. I like to feel in conrtol of my finances.

But I got so ticked a few days ago, cause my uncle made a rude comment to me. And I was so close to telling him. "You can't make comments like that at me, when your not an independant adult yourself...If mom or dad would of said it to me, it would be funny and matter...but not for you...So please refrain yourself from the comments, or I will go there with you!"
So instead I tortured him by listining to horrocore music in the other room, when he was trying to watch tv that night...and the next night I hid the remote controll from him when I went to bed to punish him. But then I left the remote control in plain sight in my room, and I know my mom likes to peek her head in my room.
So my mom said in a very funny tone "have you seem the remote?" I could not keep a straight face...I started to crack up.

I know so imature, I useally do stick up for myself when he makes a arrogant comment...but I feel like it's not my place to go there and call him a 'couch surffing mooch.'

posted August 30, 2011 10:17 PM            

I was cat sitting at my sisters this weekend.

And I find out that my uncles house gets broken into.

And all I can think and say "Well thats what he gets for practically living at my parents house and not his own."

1: His part of town from what I hear has gotten pretty ghetto. (not as bad as Detroit/Flint/Pontiac or anything though.)
2: People around that area probably know he lives alone.
3: people probably notice his car is never there...indicating that no one is home.

I really don't feel sorry for him. I would if it was anyone else though.

You think that would be the wake up callfor him that he needs to suck it up and sleep in his own house.

I know other people from his area that don't have AC...and I don't see them sleeping at other peoples houses just cause they have AC, heat, and cable and stuff.

Well this morning I come down to him sleeping on the couch. I'm thinking 'seriously, your house and junk must not be that important to you...ridiculous...if thats not the wake up call to be at your own house more often, then nothing is.'

posted August 31, 2011 04:20 AM            

My question is were you raised and influenced by your dad more then your mother?

I say this because I can't stand my dad's side of the family. But I was raised and influenced by my Mom's side.

They have a diffent set of values and ideas, as compared to my fathers and of course they are more educated.

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MY PROBLEM WITH MY DADS FAMILY,
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I always joke with my mom in a Gemini way I sware dads side of the family they all suffer from a "neurological disorder".

Whenever I'm around my dads side of the family I always feel as if I'm traped in a "lonny bin" none of them have any intellegence what so ever.

Heck, I can't even speak there "language". By that I mean they have there own way of communicating.

example,

When Hurricane Katrina hit we called my aunt who lives in New Orleans to ask if she was okay. She answered and said stupidly "oh, theres a hurricane, I'm in Las Vegas".

Great, she double gambled her house, she lost her house to the casino then again to katrina. LOL, big dummy.

I saw her again last week when we gathered to attend my Grandmas funeral on my dads side and I still didn't know what to think of her and the rest of the family.

I know it sounds bad of me to say, but the only real reason why I showed up was because I was made a pallbarer as a result of being the only grandson.

I couldn't stand there stupidity, my mom even said at the reception "lets go, your aunt xxxx is getting irritating".

With that said, I could rant about my family also and I'm sure we all can say negative things about are family.

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MY SUGGESTION
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You don't have a finished basement with a lock that you can declare as "my space" in the house?.

My next suggestion whould be to spend only 8hrs a day there.

Your an Aries so I'd assume your active and busy, I whould just stay there to sleep and then leave durring the day.

I did that when my cousin stayed with us, I whould be gone all day and only came home to sleep.

So you should just leave durring the day lock your room and come back at night to get some sleep.

posted August 31, 2011 05:28 PM            

My dad's side is way more normal. The family can get together get along and converse, joke without being disturbing.

Then my mom's side she has an older sister that I've never met. My moms older sister was quiet...and bottled her emotions...and when she got older she would blow up and bite peoples heads off. And was even mean to my great grandma...So when my mom's sister asked if she could live with my mom. She said no cause of that. And my mom's oldest sister never forgave her and went more than 20 years with out talking to my mom.
(Shes a Cancer)

Another Uncle of mine has two ex wives that try to make his life a living hell all the time. (Gemini)

this Aunt who is the youngest I thought she was cool...And seemed normal, but also like a free spirit. But she has been acting wired. She thinks my mom is out to get her. My mom doesn't even want my mom to know where she lives, and stuff...(but she talked to my mom a few weeks ago....glad that didn't last long)(Scorpio)

This uncle is really smart...at math! He like to solve math problems for fun. But he lives in assisted living. He was even in a club about aliens. Where he met his friends. aww. He will talk and talk about planets...at my Grandmas funeral dinner he began saying things like "oh yes! Jupiter is the king of the planets!"

posted August 31, 2011 05:40 PM            

I have been out of the house a lot. That does help. The only thing is in the mornings when I come down stairs to get ready for work and hes there on the couch. Sometimes after work I go home to power nap and he is still on the couch.

posted August 31, 2011 05:56 PM            

But you know how he is still at our house and all after his place getting robed and all?

Well I was talking to mom about it. I told her "his house is going to get robbed again if he keeps this up", and then I said something like "and I be glad when it does."
A few minutes later my mom's brother walks in and said that is house got broken into again...I have mom that I told you look, and gave my uncle a mocking smirk. And then walked away.

So that freaked out my uncle and made him upset. He then asked my mom "you don't think she had anything to do with this?" and my mom said "she doesn't even know where you live" "well you have my address written down in the address book."

It's kinda funny that he wants to accuse me.