posted March 29, 2011 04:50 AM            

It's just my mom's side they are so wired. They have some serious social issues.

My mom never kicks anyone out of her house. She's such an enabler! She never kicks anyone out. When I was an *sshole to her back when I was a teen...she wouldn't do it. Or she would act like she was, and I would be like "okay good." and I would head out and she would be like "wait come back!" And that would just show me that she doesn't have control over my out of control behavior.

Back when I had the worst taste ever in guys, I snuck this guy in our house over the summer of 09. That I barely knew so neither did my parents. He lived there for a month...my parents never kicked him out! I DID!
So I am not exaggerating when I say my mom and dad...but mostly my mom since she is the bread winner she is suppose to make most of the decisions and call most of the shots, HAVE ISSUES.

And now her brother. (yes that's how much I can't stand him, that's what I call him...I wont call him uncle cause he doesn't have grown up behavior.)

My mom wont kick him out and tell him to go home. And when my mom hints he will just say...yeah I'll go home in while. (in while! whenever he damn pleases!) and then he will be at our house for more than 48 hours. WTF.

posted March 29, 2011 05:10 AM            

Rising in Gemini
Sun in Leo
Moon in Capricorn
Mercury in Leo
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Virgo
Jupiter in Scorpio
Saturn in Capricorn (woh me too)
Uranus in Leo
Neptune in Scorpio
Pluto in Virgo
Lilith in Gemini
Asc in Libra
Chiron in Aquarius
Ceres in Scorpio
Pallas in Libra
Juno in Libra (oh dang my dad is a Libra)
Vesta in Virgo
Fortune in Aries
S. Node in Aries

posted March 29, 2011 05:38 AM            

-45 Square Mercury - Neptune

She makes errors of judgement, and lacks sincerity. She lets things happen, and is happy in her dreamworld. Confronted by reality, she is hesitant, incapable of being tested and falls back into her imaginary world. She might become a drug-taker.

My mom is a good person, and this is just one of her flaws. And about the drugs...she grew up in the 70's. She even said to me once "who knew what we where taking back then" It was more then weed though that's for sure. Which is so funny to me, cause she is such a prude now...that has wine a few times a year and gets drunk off a few sips of wine lol

posted March 29, 2011 11:09 AM            

Okay I feel better now that I vented about it. I wouldn't mind him so much if he had a life. And knew when to go. I think that's wired when no one else is at the house...and he still doesn't think he has to leave. Mom wont do it. And it's not really my place to say anything though I've hinted...like saying "oh do you live here now!?" "don't you have work or something?" and once I walked in, and sarcasticly said "oh wow! what a surprize to still see you here!!" I don't exactly 100 percent trust him. Even though he's my mom's brother.

I think my mom thinks it's wired too. But she pittys him.

And I'm kind of use to it...but yesterday I was freaking out. Two days in a row!(its been a while since he's done that) I just don't think my family is right for enabling this. I mean his money isn't all that good, but come on he should get on food stamps. That doesn't mean he has to be on them forever.
Ugh and he tries to act high and mightly and stuck up twoards me. But I put him in his place...so now he, for the most part avoids me. Good. I went to work now I have my 4 hour beak.(yes I"m a part time girl) And guess what is not shocking...he is still here. I'm starting to not care though.

But yes I think his chart needs to be peeked at. All I know is that he is a Virgo Sun. And he is the same age as like Madonna and Micheal Jackson. So he is ummm 52 going on 53. He is a Virgo. And thats all I know right now.
I'm gonna ask mom for his bday. If he ever leaves!! lol Also he has some child hood wounds. Ya know...back then parents where more voilent with kids. And didn't have the clossest bond with his dad. On the other hand though, my mom was like his favorite, and she turned out the most normal of her siblings. She still got in trouble though and got spanked with meeter sticks though.

posted March 29, 2011 06:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
Okay Ami! Your awesome!

Okay I feel better now that I vented about it. I wouldn't mind him so much if he had a life. And knew when to go. I think that's wired when no one else is at the house...and he still doesn't think he has to leave. Mom wont do it. And it's not really my place to say anything though I've hinted...like saying "oh do you live here now!?" "don't you have work or something?" and once I walked in, and sarcasticly said "oh wow! what a surprize to still see you here!!" I don't exactly 100 percent trust him. Even though he's my mom's brother.

I think my mom thinks it's wired too. But she pittys him.

And I'm kind of use to it...but yesterday I was freaking out. Two days in a row!(its been a while since he's done that) I just don't think my family is right for enabling this. I mean his money isn't all that good, but come on he should get on food stamps. That doesn't mean he has to be on them forever.
Ugh and he tries to act high and mightly and stuck up twoards me. But I put him in his place...so now he, for the most part avoids me. Good. I went to work now I have my 4 hour beak.(yes I"m a part time girl) And guess what is not shocking...he is still here. I'm starting to not care though.

But yes I think his chart needs to be peeked at. All I know is that he is a Virgo Sun. And he is the same age as like Madonna and Micheal Jackson. So he is ummm 52 going on 53. He is a Virgo. And thats all I know right now.
I'm gonna ask mom for his bday. If he ever leaves!! lol Also he has some child hood wounds. Ya know...back then parents where more voilent with kids. And didn't have the clossest bond with his dad. On the other hand though, my mom was like his favorite, and she turned out the most normal of her siblings. She still got in trouble though and got spanked with meeter sticks though.

And a lot of people think he is a closset gay...or think and say when he's not around "do you think he's gay?", and he tries to look down on them. And drag queens too. But I think he is just secretly jealous, when I have RuPaul's drag race on TV. haha
Mom use to think he was a seret millionaire since he never pays for anything. Well she was wrong about that.

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This might be totally out there but I think he may be gay.

As far as the other things, I will look at your Mom's aspects even though I am not very good lol

posted March 29, 2011 06:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
Here is my mom's natal info

Rising in Gemini
Sun in Leo
Moon in Capricorn
Mercury in Leo
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Virgo
Jupiter in Scorpio
Saturn in Capricorn (woh me too)
Uranus in Leo
Neptune in Scorpio
Pluto in Virgo
Lilith in Gemini
Asc in Libra
Chiron in Aquarius
Ceres in Scorpio
Pallas in Libra
Juno in Libra (oh dang my dad is a Libra)
Vesta in Virgo
Fortune in Aries
S. Node in Aries

and her aspects
Sun Square Jupiter
Sun Conjunction Uranus
Moon Trine Venus
Moon Trine Mars
Moon Conjunction Saturn
Moon Sextile Neptune
Moon Trine Pluto
Mercury Conjunction Uranus
Mercury Square Neptune
Mercury Sextile Ascendant
Mercury Opposition Midheaven
Venus Conjunction Mars
Saturn Sextile Neptune
Saturn Trine Pluto
Uranus Opposition Midheaven
Neptune Sextile Pluto
Pluto Square Ascendant

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I am gonna throw some things out there. Anyone better than I ,feel free to correct me lol
I am not sure what her ASC is cuz you said Gem rising and ,also,Libra ASC.
I will assume it is Libra.
In this case,she has a hard time making decisions and a hard time being firm.
This could account for Uncle

posted March 29, 2011 06:20 PM            

I bring up Uranus cuz they can live with "way out " things like uncle there 24/7.
Moon conjunct Saturn dampens the moon which is her deepest emotions.
Perhaps, she cannot say "GET OUT" lol

Mercury conjunct Uranus ,again,gives her a tolerance for different lifestyles.
She is an unconventional person and is OK with unconventional set-ups.

Mercury square Neptune could make it hard for her to see reality.
Hence,she lets a bad situation go on and makes no move to change it.

What do you think, Stawr?

posted March 29, 2011 10:55 PM            

And yeah I heard somewhere that some people that spread hatred twoards the gays, can be secretly gay themself.

Like he will try to act all like they are discusting.
And I'm thinking are you kidding me! At least they arn't lazy like you and whare the same sweater 2 months straight.(not very Virgo of him) But he thinks it's okay since he got it at garage sale in Birmingham Michigan...A town that is a step up from a suburb you know...(I guess it's a step up from warring a brown hoodie ever since May when he came back in the picture so...probibly even longer than that)

When it comes to people's looks and hygine...my mom is pretty darn Virgo. She can't hold back. This morning, mom told me that my muffin top was sticking out. She can be so annoying. But its kind of funny too. Like I'll wake up start to make coffe and my mom will be like "your hair looks scary..." And then I'll snap at her like "thanks for pointing that out captain obvious!" Like I don't know whats going on in her head sometimes. Like hello of course I'm gonna fix my hair or take a shower soon...you don't need to tell me.

Mom can't hold back with her bro either...Well my mom tried to hold back and she would tell me that his breath smells like diapers. But now my mom doesn't care who is around. Yesterday in frot of me my mom told him that he needed to brush his teeth. And says sometimes "if your gonna spend so much time over here, you could at least wash your clothes."

posted April 02, 2011 05:49 PM            

Ascendant Aquarius
Sun Virgo
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Virgo
Venus Virgo
Mars in Gemini
Jupiter in Scorpio
Saturn in Sagittarius
Uranus in Leo
Neptune in Scorpio
Pluto in Virgo
Lilith Aries
Asc node Libra
Midheaven Sagittarius
Chiron Aquarius
Ceres Virgo
Pallas Virgo
Juno Virgo
Vesta Cancer
Fortune Aries
South node Aries

Aspects
Sun Trine Moon
Sun Trine Mars
Sun Sextile Midheaven
Moon Trine Mars
Moon Square Jupiter
Moon Square Neptune
Moon Conjunction Ascendant
Moon Sextile Midheaven
Mercury Conjunction Venus
Mercury Square Saturn
Venus Square Saturn
Mars Square Pluto
Mars Opposition Midheaven
Jupiter Conjunction Neptune
Jupiter Sextile Pluto
Saturn Trine Uranus
Uranus Opposition Ascendant
Neptune Sextile Pluto
Pluto Square Midheaven

posted April 02, 2011 06:08 PM            

Mom likes to talk about religion. And mom was talking about demons again. And told my uncle(in front of me too) maybe you have a poverty demon. (ohhh mom....lol)

But then he tries to talk politics with people, and his republican veiws on my mainly democrate family. I don't really keep up with politics too well, but I would say I'm pretty much democrate.
And when I talk with my sister or other friend we will be like "yeah how can poor people be republicans? republicans only care about rich people" lol

posted April 02, 2011 06:48 PM            

and those Virgos who have convinced themselves to do a less-than-perfect job will generally feel incomplete. There's an odd combination of the intellectual and the practical in Virgo that is sometimes mistaken for coolness."

"Virgo ascendant Aquarius

Sun in VII

You take pride in your ability to negotiate, and to establish harmony in your relationships. It is important to you to have a partner, as you feel incomplete without one. You are motivated to become well-liked, and you are especially sensitive to rejection. One of the lessons in your life may be to avoid putting harmony and others' opinions of you above your own needs. Use your social skills and seek out peaceful relations with others, but try not to over-identify with your partnerships and the way you are received by others. You may marry someone with a strong personality."

The last time he had a girlfriend was forever ago

But yeah maybe he is just empty.

But yeah I liked him when I was little. And I use to think ballerinas where as cool as the power rangers. lol

But then he began to withdraw from the family more. I wonder if its cause he was ashamed of himself. Maybe not being where he expected to be by now.

(ah fak, I spoke too soon he is over here now)

And then the rare times I would see him...I was not a fan anymore.

One time when he was over he was treating me like a waitress.

And he does this thing!!! Where he asks people uncomfortle questions. But then if you ask him anything, no matter how unpersonal it is...He gets really uncomfortable! And will do anything to get out of it...or he'll try and answer with another question.

I'm sorry but that is wrong...if you don't like people to ask about you, then don't ask other people stupid questions.

posted April 06, 2011 08:21 AM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Stawr:
"Sun in Virgo

and those Virgos who have convinced themselves to do a less-than-perfect job will generally feel incomplete. There's an odd combination of the intellectual and the practical in Virgo that is sometimes mistaken for coolness."

"Virgo ascendant Aquarius

Sun in VII

You take pride in your ability to negotiate, and to establish harmony in your relationships. It is important to you to have a partner, as you feel incomplete without one. You are motivated to become well-liked, and you are especially sensitive to rejection. One of the lessons in your life may be to avoid putting harmony and others' opinions of you above your own needs. Use your social skills and seek out peaceful relations with others, but try not to over-identify with your partnerships and the way you are received by others. You may marry someone with a strong personality."

The last time he had a girlfriend was forever ago

But yeah maybe he is just empty.

But yeah I liked him when I was little. And I use to think ballerinas where as cool as the power rangers. lol

But then he began to withdraw from the family more. I wonder if its cause he was ashamed of himself. Maybe not being where he expected to be by now.

(ah fak, I spoke too soon he is over here now)

And then the rare times I would see him...I was not a fan anymore.

One time when he was over he was treating me like a waitress.

And he does this thing!!! Where he asks people uncomfortle questions. But then if you ask him anything, no matter how unpersonal it is...He gets really uncomfortable! And will do anything to get out of it...or he'll try and answer with another question.

I'm sorry but that is wrong...if you don't like people to ask about you, then don't ask other people stupid questions.

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The asking uncomfortable questions---he prolly has Pluto doing something to Mercury.
That aspect can make one ask probing questions lol