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Author Topic:   How I Learned To Walk Away From a Fight
Ami Anne
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posted July 08, 2011 02:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hippichick:
Well ofcourse your thoughts matter~we are all in this to-gether~

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Yes Girlfriend
Good Point

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
I am my Beloved's.My Beloved is mine.
Song of Solomon

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Ami Anne
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posted July 09, 2011 09:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am finding that if you LEARN tools for behavior on LL, they will translate to your real life.


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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
I am my Beloved's.My Beloved is mine.
Song of Solomon

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs

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starzy54
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posted July 11, 2011 03:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for starzy54     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Walking away from a fight,It takes a great lesson and realization to finally understand its not a belittling option.It takes a strong individual,with the understanding of the greater good,to do it.

Its rather easy to fight,but so hard to walk away,and I'm proud I'm learning to do that in my real life.Its something I now,never regret doing.Power to those who this also works for

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Ami Anne
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posted July 11, 2011 06:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by starzy54:
Walking away from a fight,It takes a great lesson and realization to finally understand its not a belittling option.It takes a strong individual,with the understanding of the greater good,to do it.

Its rather easy to fight,but so hard to walk away,and I'm proud I'm learning to do that in my real life.Its something I now,never regret doing.Power to those who this also works for


Thank you Girlfriend!
Yes, there are so many valuable lessons one must learn in order for one's life to have any kind of balance.
The problem is how long it takes to learn them

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
Be as wise as a serpents,gentle as doves.

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs

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Ami Anne
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posted July 13, 2011 11:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The walking away from a fight theme has to be modified.
There ARE times when you have to take out your stick and beat someone hard before you walk away.
If not, they will be a mosquito forever buzzing in your ear. Some people can buzz indefinately.They have had no consequences from it so perceive you as weak, a target for their own impotency, their jealously of you probably or just a place to put their self hatred.
Whatever the reason,they think they have the RIGHT to harass you .
With these types,you must do a swift blow, THEN walk away

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
Be as wise as a serpents,gentle as doves.

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs

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Ami Anne
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posted July 13, 2011 01:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I feel really guilty when I stand up for myself.Do you all feel that way,too?

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
Be as wise as a serpents,gentle as doves.

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs

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abcd efg
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posted July 13, 2011 01:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for abcd efg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes. Could be because of sensitive moon and/or some specific aspects. Poor Us. lol.

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