posted July 22, 2011 08:28 AM            

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Originally posted by MoonWitch:

I mean she can't speak and only knows minimal and extremely basic sign language, she taps her fingers on anything and everything....all day.... all day.... all day... all day, she will never support herself financially or any other way, she didn't notice when her father died a couple years ago, she isn't social AT ALL, doesn't enjoy being around other people, can't go to restaurants or other public venues without being completely overwhelmed and having a meltdown, has to be put in a straightjacket to go to the dentist or have a haircut, and prefers to lock herself in her room most of the day unless my mother makes her a grilled cheese sandwich - which is ALL she will eat except for M&M's and Dr. Pepper.

So, I suppose she can make choices about M&M's but in no way, shape or form is she capable of making choices about sexual partners.

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Sorry about offending you in the Incest Thread. I really didn't mean too. Not all people react the same way to things. I have seen documentaries, been told by people and have read about people/children/adults who have admitted to being sexually attracted to older people in their family. There are also instances where there is extreme post guilt associated with the feelings of being attracted to the adult causing a denial and forcing them to put the blame on the adult. I must reiterate that this is not always the case and there are many situations where the irresponsible and selfish manipulating authority figure takes advantage of the innocence of the child which is completely wrong and truly sin if they are aware of the taking advantage of a less aware human being. This is negative behavior which usually places bad karma on the abuser and I am sure that this is what happened to you. I truly apologize that you had to go through this.

As I am sure that you have heard, most people who are not completely aware of their deeper psychology often end up marrying someone who resembles their parents or parent figure in the family. There are those that rebel and marry the opposite of their parents but that is still being controlled and effected by the parents or authority figure.

Rebelling can be just as bad or the same thing as conforming. The truly aware person is able to choose who they want to be in a relationship with based on what is the best for their overall well being and not to blindly *LET relationships happen to them.