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From: Arizona with Bear the Leo
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posted July 24, 2011 01:51 AM            

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Totally creepy. Okay, it is one thing to talk and have eye contact (I have major eye contact with anyone I speak with- Pluto in the 1st). But sex? Come one, my lips are busy and the last thing I am doing is being a dead fish looking at my hubby in the eyes (we have plenty of that before sex).

As I said, my mouth is busy

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posted July 24, 2011 09:29 PM            

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To have eye contact during sex you must have intimacy. Intense eye contact during sex has to be experienced, mutual of course, it feels ecstatic. But the partners have to want to get closer to each other; they won't be satisfied with just their bodies grinding around.

If intimacy is lacking or not up to par then eye contact WILL NOT feel right and exactly like you said, DepTaurus, it will seem strange.

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posted July 25, 2011 08:05 PM            

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This is a good topic actually cos I hadn't thought on the issue of eye contact during sex in yrs and I now dislike it when a partner does not feel that intimacy with me. I remember the first partner I had eye contact with during sex, well we had a whole host of conj, but the most important was Moon conj Moon sq Pluto. Intense emotionality

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