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britterfly
Knowflake Posts: 466
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Registered: Jul 2010
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posted September 17, 2011 02:23 PM
  
Mitch is a people pleaser and he doesn't like drama or conflict. He thinks this is a "chick thing".I used to have a hard time with conflict because I didn't want people to dislike me. Now though, that has changed. People can kiss my butt, and if I have a problem with them, I let them know right away, no problems. I have been pretty stoked with myself in the last couple of years for finally growing a back bone and confronting people when they try to mess with me. It's not too much of a problem for me any more. IP: Logged |
LEXX
Moderator Posts: 7470
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 17, 2011 02:53 PM
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Originally posted by britterfly:
Mitch doesn't much care. He thinks it's stupid that I am upset about it. He says that if we just ignore her, the situation will go away. I highly disagree.
Well it sounds like he does not think it is a problem.
Unless he is blatantly going for her, ignore it.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 20421
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 17, 2011 02:55 PM
My bad
You are on the outside. Usually, the man is. OK,well, in any event, I wish he would respect your feelings. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 20421
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 17, 2011 03:01 PM
That being sad, marriage is hard. He is trying to go to AA. You are pregnant.
There is a time to stand up and a time to ignore.
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dysfunctionalmystic
Moderator Posts: 787
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 17, 2011 03:40 PM
Mine's the 18th aug too lolI think the problem here is his uranus on your moon. You're having an emotion and he's fqed off into space. He maybe is emotional about it because he's done his moon/uranus whereas you're taking it seriously and have moon/saturn - does that make sense? Also yours is in the 12th so maybe more sensitive to undercurrents whereas his scorp moon comes out at work? IP: Logged |
britterfly
Knowflake Posts: 466
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Registered: Jul 2010
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posted September 17, 2011 04:00 PM
Thank you all very much. It's wonderful to have a message board where you can post your problems and people will actually reply with consideration and real help. You guys are wonderful.IP: Logged |
britterfly
Knowflake Posts: 466
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Registered: Jul 2010
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posted September 17, 2011 04:04 PM
BTW, Ami, your interpretation of our charts is spot on. You got us backwards just cus you didn't see who was who, but what you said was absolutely correct, especially about his moon being in which house it is and conjuncting his Uranus, making him free-spirited and wild but very caring and giving.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 20421
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 17, 2011 04:11 PM
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Originally posted by britterfly:
BTW, Ami, your interpretation of our charts is spot on. You got us backwards just cus you didn't see who was who, but what you said was absolutely correct, especially about his moon being in which house it is and conjuncting his Uranus, making him free-spirited and wild but very caring and giving.
Thank you, Brit. I am glad you shared and feel a little better  IP: Logged |
Stawr
Moderator Posts: 933
From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted September 19, 2011 01:08 AM
I can't stand women like that, I would be p!ssed too.
Women that act like that are childish. I find it so disrespectful when I'm obviously with someone and a chick wants to act a fool. And for her to do that, in front of you...I bet she has low self esteem...
That is just rude and tacky.
Some women are into committed guys...because they get to whiteness that provider side to men...that is attractive to women.
But they need to get over that they are taken...and to not be stupid. And she works there...not professional. Since I work at a school as a teacher aide. Certain occasions I get to mingle with parents.
Last year at the Christmas party I talked to pretty much everyone there...And I saw one of the dad's holding his baby girl...so I make a convo about that and stuff...then his wife came over to us...OMG the tension!!! She gave me a look like she wanted to slit my throat in my sleep!...or she was just trying to figure out my motives. Or both.
So ever since then I am very self conscious about the way I interact with the parents. IP: Logged |
lalitree
Knowflake Posts: 177
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Registered: Apr 2011
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posted September 19, 2011 12:06 PM
i would find another group! depending on where you live, there should be more than one IP: Logged |
britterfly
Knowflake Posts: 466
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Registered: Jul 2010
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posted September 19, 2011 06:09 PM
You guys are so sweet, thank you.  We live in a really small town. I mean, a really small town. The kind of small town where if you fart, everybody hears rumor of it within a week! The jail keeper is related to every Mexican in town by marriage or blood. lol (The reason I know this is very closely related to the reason why my hubby is now in AA!) We could just not go to the AA meetings that Miss Skankypants tends to go to, but we want to try to hit up every single one. So far, my tactic has been to make hubby promise not to talk to her as she tries to approach him at every meeting (skank! lol), so he is just going to ignore her now. That, as well as our obvious love and affection for each other, should make Miss Skankypants crawl back in to the hole from whence she crept. We are going to a meeting tonight, so I will get to see if her flame has died down or not. IP: Logged |
britterfly
Knowflake Posts: 466
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Registered: Jul 2010
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posted September 19, 2011 06:10 PM
She is also married. Presumably not happily married! Is she jealous???IP: Logged |
Stawr
Moderator Posts: 933
From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted September 19, 2011 06:59 PM
Oh God I forgot with some women it doesn't matter...I've delt with that from a skank who was unhappily married...
and more enbarrassing she was drunk...and her 1 year old son was with her. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 20421
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 19, 2011 08:38 PM
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Originally posted by britterfly:
She is also married. Presumably not happily married! Is she jealous???
She is a game player. That is how she gets her jollies, is my feeling.
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