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Topic: Astrology, Sexuality and Stimulation
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Curious Bull
Knowflake Posts: 194
From: Down Under
Registered: Oct 2012
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posted October 19, 2012 02:48 AM
  
Robin Goodfellow and StillAtLarge - OMG - sizzling! What a great thread. Me: Mars in gemini conjunct venus in gemini conjunct the IC. Mars is in mutual reception with my mercury in aries. Mars/venus is trine Uranus in Libra. I love it all. I like it spiced up. Sometimes the best sex doesn't include orgasm, but is just about pure indulgent pleasure all night long. But other times I love the surprise of the fast quickie with no kissing, no foreplay. I want it all and with variety.
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sweet-scorpion
Knowflake Posts: 1137
From: PA, USA
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted October 23, 2012 03:50 PM
Yes, I feel like foreplay done right is something that is essential to good and fulfilling sex. I have a Scorpio Venus that craves submersion and intimacy before my Mars-Pluto aspect and 8H Mars wants the hot, down n' dirty sexiness. Mars falling in Cancer also makes me crave a more slow, intimate experience at first that's very sensual, but then my Scorp Pluto trine to it kicks in and it can get more intense from there. But I don't always like gushy, slow or messy foreplay. I like things that are a little out of the ordinary. Sex with me has to be memorable. It shouldn't be quick or lack surprises. I don't know if this counts as foreplay but maybe it does. I just think there's more to it than the actual act - throw in some light bondage or something adventurous before and even during and that's better. 8H Cancer Mars trine Scorpio Pluto
11H Scorpio Venus sextile Uranus
Mars biquintile 10H Libra Sun
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frankie2912
Knowflake Posts: 975
From: yep,ks,usa
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted November 14, 2012 11:00 PM
I love foreplay because I love the sexual tension and build-up and anticipation more than actual sex.I love teasing my partner and I love being teased. The fantasizing and wanting and pining is all part of foreplay for me..and I love oral sex, both giving and receiving. I love kissing and caressing and all that sh*t ...the more sexual tension and frustration I can build in myself and my partner, the better..because that means when I finally let him in he's going to f*ck me like a wild animal and I LOVE that. Foreplay is my way of breaking down walls and forcing you out of your comfortable little human shell. Mars in Pisces, 5th house, trine Venus, conjunct Jupiter, square Mercury and Uranus. IP: Logged |
ail221
Knowflake Posts: 2099
From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted November 14, 2012 11:35 PM
I can go either way with this issue of "foreplay". Foreplay isn't needed but I like it and its a way of spreading out my energy. Mars in Taurus 12th house with my Eros conjunct Psyche and Uranus and Neptune in my 8TH house. So I have a odd blend of the Erotic(Eros), Soulful(Psyche), Kinky(Uranus), Dreamy(Neptune), and ahem earthy (Taurus). It's not even so much the physical aspect of foreplay just the ability to feel one another's energies or in a way auras stimulated is what I need. Once the bull is let out you better not say Torio.  IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
Knowflake Posts: 4531
From: Surfing Kite. Seriously.
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 15, 2012 02:39 AM
As an Aries Mars,I am against anything that kills the spontaneity... or the primal urges  IP: Logged |
NativelyJoan
Knowflake Posts: 1244
From: New England
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 15, 2012 10:26 PM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
As an Aries Mars,I am against anything that kills the spontaneity... or the primal urges
Same here. That isn't to say I'm completely against foreplay, I think I've evolved a bit from my original post. I have my moments with it, however I really do like to get down to business (that darn Mars in Aries). I just find it more thrilling and physically invigorating. Putting to use a good book of kama sutra and letting the night (or day) take you to ecstasy. Like wild animals who've been deprived of succulent nourishment for days... Love these responses though! This has turned out to be a very intriguing thread! IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 7563
From: the ill na na
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 16, 2012 12:44 AM
Foreplay the first hour and sex the next 23? Kidding! I love kissing though. ..and oral.. I can't choose which one I like better giving or receiving.. Giving perhaps because the sense of smell is stimulated along with taste. But then receiving is sight and touch.. I like taste and smell slightly better. This is very much me.. If you have Mars in Scorpio with Venus in Taurus you are . . . You are gifted with a lush sensuality and a quiet, unhurried eroticism that tends to get noticed whether you want it to or not. Mostly you'd rather it didn't. You are very straightforward in your approach to sex and you make no excuses for your substantial physical desires but you firmly believe that sex is a private matter between you and your Beloved. Your partner will not only be challenged to keep up with you physically, he or she will also have to meet your very high standards of confidentiality.
Because your response to sex is so physical it is easy for you to think of your sexual needs in purely bodily terms. But nothing could be further from the truth. For you sex always involves deep and complex psychological issues like power, security and control. These complexities don’t necessarily detract from your concern for sensation, but they will make it more difficult for you to manage your sex life in the neat, practical fashion that you prefer. It’s the emotions that get you in trouble. Of course, it’s the emotions that also make it all worthwhile. IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 7563
From: the ill na na
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 16, 2012 12:51 AM
I was looking at lilith as well.. Mine is the 5th though and I feel lilith in Leo too much to post a tidbit coz most seem to resonate.Mine is in Pisces.. Various stimuluses, candles, a special “ritual” atmosphere are necessary to wake from a deep sleep the erotic and slow sensuality that needs foreplay, foreplay, foreplay…constantly delaying the moment of action! Sex usually happens in some strange – semi-conscious state, at night, in the water, in hospitals, closed institutions, hotels, at work. These are definitely very imaginative lovers that, because of their great shyness, do not succede in sharing their erotic fatasies with anyone, especially their proneness to S-M relationships, because they enjoy when the partner exhibits power over them and pain here represents a kind of pleasure. That is why they will at least once enter into a relationship with an agressive man that will try to physically molest them (Tina Turner, or Mike Tyson, who is himself like that).
If fully activated, Lilith in Pisces will produce, but more in men than in women, many perversities. There is a strong pathological need to belong to someone, to love someone fatally, as a deity. That is why we see idolatry here, fetishes. Much gossiping and slandering…
The positive use of this energy gives great intuition, high spiritual abilities, supreme musicians and generally artists (Isidora Duncan, Salvador Dali).
http://sanjaperic.com/2005/04/28/lilith-in-pisces/ IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 7563
From: the ill na na
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 16, 2012 01:15 AM
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Originally posted by NativelyJoan:
Same here. That isn't to say I'm completely against foreplay, I think I've evolved a bit from my original post. I have my moments with it, however I really do like to get down to business (that darn Mars in Aries). I just find it more thrilling and physically invigorating. Putting to use a good book of kama sutra and letting the night (or day) take you to ecstasy. Like wild animals who've been deprived of succulent nourishment for days...Love these responses though! This has turned out to be a very intriguing thread!
I chuckle a little bit when I hear someone called a congressman coz of the congress of the crow. Ironic if I would find myself one day in that position.  the former of course. ..and nooners and Kama sutra u r putting ideas in my head.  (It's afternoon now here lol! ) IP: Logged |
NativelyJoan
Knowflake Posts: 1244
From: New England
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 16, 2012 01:21 AM
Ooh La La Sand. Oh La La. I have Lilith in Virgo in the 7th conjunct a couple asteroids. I can be a bit critical and clinical. Oh and a tease but I'd think that has more to do with my Libra Sun, she likes to seduce. "Lilith in Virgo expresses her sexuality in an inhibited way. She may suffer from confusion between the Eve/Lilith Mary/Naughty dichotomy. She hides her sexuality--a wolf in sheep's clothing. She lures with her words. She talks dirty. She exploits her own willingness to please and serve. She is the sexual servant in a most degrading way. She delights in perversions of all kinds; she corrupts the young." http://www.astrologyinaction.com/apps/blog/show/12483340-lilith-by-sign- That description is a bit extreme, I'm not that twisted. Close though.
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NativelyJoan
Knowflake Posts: 1244
From: New England
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 16, 2012 01:26 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
..and nooners and Kama sutra u r putting ideas in my head. (It's afternoon now here lol! )
Hahaha Sand! I've missed you! IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 7563
From: the ill na na
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 16, 2012 01:46 AM
Lmfao! I have missed you too Joan! But seriously the nooner is a lost art. Hotel rooms, trench coats, lingerie. (Ok that's my leo moon talking) I like doing a lot of things I shouldn't during the day. U know like I should be at work doing something productive but naw I'm having a nooner haha! Le sigh the moments when life just rules! Someone practical even went to me if u like sunlight so much (I think it makes most people look beautiful) why don't u just do it in the mornings when u wake up? #noflair #likeididn'tdothatalready #hmph #butunderstandablelol IP: Logged |
NativelyJoan
Knowflake Posts: 1244
From: New England
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 16, 2012 02:08 AM
Hahahahaha! Sand!I'm right there with you. I guess that's my Venus in Leo talking in agreement with your Moon. The night time is WAY overrated for going downtown. I love day time dramatics and I hit my energy peak during the late afternoon hours between 4 - 7, about sunset. Let me tell you, happy hour isn't just for throwing back cocktails. This is why the kama sutra comes in handy during the afternoon! You can actually see what you're doing (and who you're doing)! IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 7563
From: the ill na na
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 16, 2012 04:51 AM
Things that bother a Scorpio mars at night: tip of penis itchy, he wonders if he is horny or is it an std! It's a joke I'm std free! There is one thing that makes me uncomfortable with Scorpio mars. Emotions. Idk what it is in my chart but i don't feel much. Sex is probably the only time I feel intensely vulnerable and open. Orgasms are serious business haha! Everything closes after that, walls are back up, masks are on. My moon is afflicted. Interested in the cap mars ladies opinions on the topic lol! The exalted ones have not chimed in I believe. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
Knowflake Posts: 4531
From: Surfing Kite. Seriously.
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 16, 2012 11:17 AM
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Originally posted by NativelyJoan:
"Lilith in Virgo expresses her sexuality in an inhibited way. She may suffer from confusion between the Eve/Lilith Mary/Naughty dichotomy. She hides her sexuality--a wolf in sheep's clothing. She lures with her words. She talks dirty. She exploits her own willingness to please and serve. She is the sexual servant in a most degrading way. She delights in perversions of all kinds; she corrupts the young." http://www.astrologyinaction.com/apps/blog/show/12483340-lilith-by-sign- That description is a bit extreme, I'm not that twisted. Close though.
I too have Virgo Lilith. Sometimes I feel very vestalian - the sanctity and integriity, purity vs uninhibited sex. (which mind you is never dirty.)
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4682
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 16, 2012 04:41 PM
I like going in through the b8ackdoor.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4682
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 16, 2012 04:41 PM
I like going in through the backdoor.IP: Logged |
NativelyJoan
Knowflake Posts: 1244
From: New England
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 16, 2012 05:26 PM
Lmao at that joke Sand. It's interesting that you say that about your Scorpio Mars. I wonder if it's because of the intensity you feel when experiencing certain types of emotions. I don't think I've ever known a MIS who didn't battle greatly with trying to understand their intense emotional nature. Even those who are incredibly good at hiding it from the outside world. But sex is one of Pluto's many domains, and everything you expressed actually makes a great deal of sense. Especially with Pluto's themes of intensity and control. Very interesting. I wonder if you'd like to feel a bit more vulnerable in other areas of your life? Just wondering. Thank you for your honesty though dear!I tend to feel most vulnerable when being truly honest with someone through words (face to face). It's my 8th house Mercury opposite my Moon. I think my Aries Mars makes it easier for me to detach myself emotionally when connecting with another sexually. In a sense I guess in that moment I am vulnerable but I do a great deal of rationalizing my emotions. Words definitely make me feel more naked than actually being bare (and I actually really enjoy wearing my birth day suit, exhibitionist tendencies: check!). It's interesting and definitely worth further study for understanding why I tend to do that. IP: Logged |
NativelyJoan
Knowflake Posts: 1244
From: New England
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 16, 2012 05:43 PM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
I too have Virgo Lilith. Sometimes I feel very vestalian - the sanctity and integriity, purity vs uninhibited sex. (which mind you is never dirty.)on sasstrology,they say Virgos are into watersports and scat. #horrorfied
I completely know what you mean. My Vesta is actually tightly conjunct my Sun. It's definitely a battle between the highest desire for pure sexual expression while attempting to fend of this deep and very raw, sadistic sexual intensity within. It goes back and forth for me. And if your connection to another doesn't encompass both, you're either a demure kitten or a tenacious tiger. That's why it's so important to balance any imbalances energy wise within yourself. It's easier to balance these polarities as an adult with my sexuality but I remember being a teenager and feeling voraciously sexual and shamefully horrified all at the same time and desperately desiring to be purified and transformed emotionally. Lilith and Vesta had a hand in making me go crazy! It doesn't help that my Aries Mars strongly dislikes repressing anything especially not my sexual desires (an atrocity that's what that is). Mars in Aries = Go!. IP: Logged |
NativelyJoan
Knowflake Posts: 1244
From: New England
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 16, 2012 05:46 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I like going in through the backdoor.
As foreplay? IP: Logged |
virgolotus
Knowflake Posts: 685
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Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 16, 2012 06:09 PM
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Originally posted by Chryseis:
I never understood massage as a lead up - it seems so boring as a start to sex.
More often than not, massages have always led to sex in my situations. Maybe it's just my Mars in Gemini?
I love foreplay.. sex without foreplay is kind of dull. Like @frankie said, I love the tension to build up until you can't take it anymore and you just go all out when you do the do.. IP: Logged |
NativelyJoan
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From: New England
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 16, 2012 06:24 PM
Lol Virgolotus, I guess it would depend on how you define foreplay. I don't necessarily consider words to be foreplay, however the human brain is the most powerful sexual organ. Nothing gets me going personally like a little mental stimulation, you can touch, grab, and grope yourself 26 ways into oblivion. But I really do believe the mind is the holy grail for sexual stimulation. IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth
Knowflake Posts: 274
From: Saturn 9
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 16, 2012 06:49 PM
I don't really get into foreplay, though it would really depend on mood and chemistry at that moment.
Much more prefer to have periods of play and passion over a lengthy time (endurance is a priority), in as many
places and positions as possible until exhaustion sets in. Mars in Scorpio III (conj Pluto & sextile AC) (Eros in Scorpio conj Saturn)
Lilith in Pisces (conj DC & trine Mars/Pluto)
Venus in Sagittarius IV (conj Uranus & opp Vesta)
Sun in Capricorn V trine Moon in Taurus IX
Aries VIII ~~ (Eris/Pholus conj) so keywords for me would be:
(I like)~ chaotic, spontaneous, rapturous, hedonistic, passionate, very intense intimacy~ Foreplay alone for too long is just cruel, while I can appreciate a bit of cruelty in the bedroom (or wherever)... hehe
(...really, liked the article on complex Capricorn on sasstrology.) =x
I tend to prefer assertivenes and stamina in my partner foremost to anything tender, or sensual. (~for the record: what I'm really not good at/fan of ---- I'm god awful with dirty talk!  I admit it, I'm just not gifted in that front whatsoever! Talking ruins it for me... lol)
Anyone else fail miserably with pillow talk? Not enjoy conversations prior to or during??? Maybe it has something to do with my Cap/Merc...?
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ail221
Knowflake Posts: 2099
From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted November 16, 2012 06:58 PM
Actually I like dirty pillow talk even better if it's in a foreign language or in eloquent deep voice. Mercury in Leo IP: Logged |
NativelyJoan
Knowflake Posts: 1244
From: New England
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 16, 2012 07:05 PM
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Originally posted by SaturnineMoth:
Foreplay alone for too long is just cruel, while I can appreciate a bit of cruelty in the bedroom (or wherever)... hehe
(...really, liked the article on complex Capricorn on sasstrology.) =x
I tend to prefer assertivenes and stamina in my partner foremost to anything tender, or sensual.
The above statements made me smile. I'm the same except I'm not a Capricorn, I've got Saturn as a dominant placement in my chart though. I've never really been a tender, sensualist type, but I do see and understand the appeal. It's all about what works for you. I do think unnecessarily long foreplay is plain ole torturous and almost masochistic. But I'm not the most patient individual, that might account for why I feel this way. Cheers to physical endurance and stamina! @Ali221 Lmao! Deep voices are nice. Actually anything that goes deep is very nice! IP: Logged |
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