posted November 09, 2011 10:37 PM            

PS.
History of sex is often disturbing.

http://www.bigeye.com/sexeducation/ancientgreece.html

posted November 09, 2011 10:42 PM            

quote:

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Hera was the queen of heaven, wife of Zeus, and the protectress of wifehood. But Hera was not actually the mother
of the gods as Zeus somehow had the womb in his penis and gave birth to them.

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posted November 10, 2011 12:37 AM            

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Originally posted by LEXX:
perhaps the G-Spot can be stimulated from the rectal side?
Maybe some women here could shed some light on that

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My discomfort about talking in graphic details about my sexual desires and experience here has been somewhat overcome by my tendency to point people to answers to their questions:

ETA: ok, the links won't take, nor can I copy/paste, so if you want to know then get the book The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women

posted November 10, 2011 02:16 PM            

tried it...didnt like it...hurt like hell...and yet, somehow its like every guy i'm with assumes i'm into it, LOL although i verbally express my intense dislike of it and i can only do it if i'm really in love with the guy

i happened to check the asteroids that hera mentioned and none of them have any significant placement other than lust conjunct jupiter opposite venus and saturn in my 8th

also, in my opinion, i'm not against it because of taboo or anything....i'm against it because of future problems that a person that has too much anal can have (mars conjunct pluto in the 6th )

oh, and hera, i suspect your ex might have been bi because of all of my bfs, the only one that was into anal for himself was bi....he wanted to give it and recieve it

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted November 10, 2011 04:38 PM            

thanks for the info pixie jane

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted November 10, 2011 09:14 PM            

Just because a man enjoys anal stimulation, it does not make him gay or bi. The anus is merely another part of the body that can be pleasurable when stimulated. For men receiving anal penetration, it stimulates the prostate, which is sometimes called the male g-spot. There are also tons of sensitive nerve endings in the anus. In order to be gay, you'd have to be physically attracted to men. Playing with your ass doesn't make you attracted to men, it means you're playing with your ass. Straight guys who enjoy anal stimulation and openly admit it likely don't have hangups about being perceived as gay. Straight guys who are worried about being perceived as gay are probably less likely to explore that part of his body in a sexual way.

As far as gay guys and anal... when you think of gay sex, you think of anal. I'm gay, and growing up I just always assumed that is what sex is for gay guys. I'm sure other gay males growing up had the same perception, and thus are more willing to explore that area of their bodies when they come of age. Not all gay guys like being on the receiving end of things, which is where you get top vs bottom.

posted November 11, 2011 03:34 AM            

I haven't met anyone who had a fetish for it though, and it's not something I've done with anyone I didn't trust.

I just like investigating all areas of sexuality - same reason I love sex outdoors probably. Beds, and instant gratification get boring!

Oh yes, and my male friend had an experience of it with a german girl - during sex she pushed her finger in his anus and he said he instantly orgasmed - he enjoyed it as far an orgasm always feels good, but was a bit disappointed how quickly it happened and how little control he had over it.

So, for men, in a heterosexual relationship, they would probably have to have an element of submissiveness about them to go for it, as it gives the female so much control over their orgasm (the apparent g-spot in the anal passage for guys).

And for women, I think there would have to be a bent of submissiveness again, but for the reason that it is giving a guy a lot of power over you (it is uncomfortable, difficult position to wriggle out of and you wouldn't want to go pulling yourself away anyway - I found the sorest part, after getting used to the feeling of him being in there, was the pulling out) - I don't know about anyone else, but I felt pretty vulnerable any time I done it, so I would have to be in a safe place emotionally with the person.

posted November 11, 2011 09:25 AM            

Sadly too often straight men are into anal to control, humiliate, and forcibly dominate, up to including rape.
(I was anal raped as a child by a straight, and oddly, "good" Christian man).

posted November 11, 2011 11:51 AM            

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted November 12, 2011 07:19 PM            

Submissive - Dominance.. That I do not know. I don't think about those things when I am having sex. I never thought of I was being degraded.. as a matter of fact it is just the opposite. I was kinda upgraded. To see your man having an ultimate satisfaction because of what you give to him makes you feel great

The only warning I can give is do not let them "come" in. I did not know so I did. And the end result was.. to me it's a funny story. But let's skip it. Do as I say not as I do : )

Here are the aspects we have :
My ex- Gemini / Gemini rising.
Mars in Aries / 11th
Eris in Aries
Pallas in Aries
Nessus in Gemini

My aspects - a woman who does not mind going for the anal once in a while
Cap / Cap rising
Mars in Sagittarius / 11th
Eris in Aries
Pallas in Aries
Nessus in Gemini

Pleas, feel free to ask if you are interested in having additional info

posted November 13, 2011 08:46 PM            

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Originally posted by LEXX:
Anal or Vaginal or Oral.....
all simply variations and any submission/dominating/degrading/calling it dirty;
is strictly psychological.
To me personally they are all just sexual acts and have nothing to do with anything but preferences, nor degradation or dirty concepts.

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Ditto this

**applause**

posted November 18, 2011 10:13 AM            

Yeah, there in the rear n dark is hiding a demon that tortures every woman.

If a guy can tame it for her without laying a finger on her consciousness

she'll love him forever