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posted December 04, 2011 01:07 PM            

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After 10 years and 4 kids, he decided he want to move on with a girl he only knew 3 weeks- so he say! I can't believe this! I thought he just wanted some time alone..yes we had our ups n downs, but this?! I guess it wasn't meant to be! We'll be ok-me n the kids that is! We were going 2 different directions anyway! And i'm gettn some rest too!!

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posted December 04, 2011 10:46 PM            

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I am so sorry. That is screwed up!

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posted December 05, 2011 01:10 AM            

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Sorry that had to happen to you. I know the feeling of heartbreak.

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posted December 05, 2011 01:20 AM            

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I'm so sorry this happened to you.

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posted December 05, 2011 01:25 AM            

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{{{hugs}}}

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posted December 05, 2011 09:58 AM            

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Sorry to hear. Such people always pay (karmically I mean) the hard way for abandoning their families...

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posted December 05, 2011 10:32 AM            

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Well he txtd this morn sayn pleaz dont hate him n itz ova with his little fling! Wow that was quick! Lol! I told him i dont hate him n i forgive him! Im not going to allow no one to cause me to be bitter n unhappy! I hav my kids n myself to take care of. And my mom when she gets out the hospital! Im at peace! Dont know whats his prob but something has been going wrong with him! I told him he needs to seek help because hes talking suicidal today!!

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posted December 05, 2011 10:54 AM            

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Originally posted by mskimx4:
Well he txtd this morn sayn pleaz dont hate him n itz ova with his little fling! Wow that was quick! Lol! I told him i dont hate him n i forgive him! Im not going to allow no one to cause me to be bitter n unhappy! I hav my kids n myself to take care of. And my mom when she gets out the hospital! Im at peace! Dont know whats his prob but something has been going wrong with him! I told him he needs to seek help because hes talking suicidal today!!

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Please see that he gets help.
And you both need to consider counseling.
I wish you good luck.
{{{hugs}}}
PS.
Additionally,
get tested for STDs, both of you.
See this thread for my concerns over such with a cheating spouse or lover. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum27/HTML/000562.html

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posted December 05, 2011 03:18 PM            

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Thnx to u all! And lexx, oh yeah i've done all of my annual tests! And i'm as clean as a whistle! As for him, this past month i havent been around him-i cant speak for him! I know i love my body n will take care of it! I wish the best for him...

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posted December 11, 2011 11:28 AM            

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Good on you! Stay strong! Don't ever take back this loser, you deserve soo much better!!

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posted December 11, 2011 12:19 PM            

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Im not going to allow no one to cause me to be bitter n unhappy!

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posted December 11, 2011 12:31 PM            

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posted December 11, 2011 06:42 PM            

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It sounds (to me) like a five minute wonder for him.. & I feel like he will be back calling at your door soon?

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