posted June 05, 2012 10:37 AM            

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Saving it to watch later, thanks. I've heard of it, and at the outset doesn't seem to be too diff from boob jobs but I will def check it out. I guess it's just one more thing for them to be insecure about.

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posted June 05, 2012 10:54 AM            

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Originally posted by ghanima81:
I don't get the "well hung" thing at all. It means NOTHING if you have no skills. It's a male competition thing. Like having the fastest car or the biggest TV. What is the point actually, if you don't know how to drive it or program it?

Just saying. That annoys me about men. All insecure about it if they think they're "small".

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posted June 05, 2012 12:32 PM            

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Lonake:
[b]Saving it to watch later, thanks. I've heard of it, and at the outset doesn't seem to be too diff from boob jobs but I will def check it out. I guess it's just one more thing for them to be insecure about.

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Yea all the focus on trying to be perfect in our culture is stupid. Its the same with guys too,alot of guys feel insecure if they arent "hung", and that sucks because if you arent well endowed theres really nothing you can do about it. [/B][/QUOTE]

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posted June 05, 2012 02:02 PM            

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by ghanima81:
[b]I don't get the "well hung" thing at all. It means NOTHING if you have no skills. It's a male competition thing. Like having the fastest car or the biggest TV. What is the point actually, if you don't know how to drive it or program it?

Just saying. That annoys me about men. All insecure about it if they think they're "small".

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Actually it has little to do with male competition and everything to do with alot of women being very loud in saying they want a huge magic stick lol. I hear women all the time saying omg he is small etc. Im just going to be perfectly honest here, i am on the bigger side of average according to all statistics, but yet 3 women have commented that im small lmao,when in reality im perfectly normal.[/B][/QUOTE]

The society has gotten super shallow with both sexes! That is the freaking truth. Find someone who shares your spiritual values and this will be much less of an issue, I would think.

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posted June 05, 2012 02:03 PM            

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AYFKM??

Wow. What kind of shallow women are you seeing?

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posted June 05, 2012 02:23 PM            

I mean, we all realize that boobs don't DO anything, right??? And that women only actually orgasm during intercourse 3% of the time, RIGHT??

posted June 05, 2012 02:50 PM            

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by ghanima81:
[b]AYFKM??

Wow. What kind of shallow women are you seeing?

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Haha thats just people in general, like i dont get why some guys only go after women with huge tatas, i mean dont get me wrong boobs are nice,but they arent a priority for me.[/B][/QUOTE]

Yep, the human ego is not pretty and we all have one

posted June 05, 2012 03:49 PM            

I am a plastic surgeon - well, still a resident but will be one in 2 years. I actually understand where these women are coming from and I am not just saying that because I'll get my paychecks from them. I was at a private practice today and scrubbed in at 2 boob jobs. First lady lost her husband in a car crash, lost like 40 kg because she no longer wanted to live, then eventually got better and met someone new. Her new breasts were a symbol for her starting over. When she woke up from the anesthesia, she felt her new breasts and she cried. And I held her hand. Second lady was cheated on by her husband, was now a single Mom and decided to do this for herself to restore her self-confidence.

Of course it would be nice if we'd all be able to accept our bodies for how they are, but let's face it, the society we live in will never allow us to do so. Why keep the body you were given if it makes you feel so miserable? As for these two ladies, their surgeries were symbolic, they were like rainbows after a heavy traumatic life storm and living with this hope allowed them to hang in there.

As for labiaplasty, the cases I have seen really needed it done. The girls could not shower at the gym or wear short pants because the labia was sticking out. It was embarrassing as hell.

posted June 05, 2012 04:07 PM            

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Sigh...

I am a plastic surgeon - well, still a resident but will be one in 2 years. I actually understand where these women are coming from and I am not just saying that because I'll get my paychecks from them. I was at a private practice today and scrubbed in at 2 boob jobs. First lady lost her husband in a car crash, lost like 40 kg because she no longer wanted to live, then eventually got better and met someone new. Her new breasts were a symbol for her starting over. When she woke up from the anesthesia, she felt her new breasts and she cried. And I held her hand. Second lady was cheated on by her husband, was now a single Mom and decided to do this for herself to restore her self-confidence.

Of course it would be nice if we'd all be able to accept our bodies for how they are, but let's face it, the society we live in will never allow us to do so. Why keep the body you were given if it makes you feel so miserable? As for these two ladies, their surgeries were symbolic, they were like rainbows after a heavy traumatic life storm and living with this hope allowed them to hang in there.

As for labiaplasty, the cases I have seen really needed it done. The girls could not shower at the gym or wear short pants because the labia was sticking out. It was embarrassing as hell.

I am not one to judge, or at least try to refrain as much as possible from it.

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posted June 05, 2012 04:33 PM            

I just honestly don't understand where the whole "small" thing comes from. I truly don't believe that a lot (and I'm not saying all) women even realize what they are saying when they want "big" ones. It perpetuates a stigma for men that is totally unrealistic. Same with women and breast size. I could give a rats than I have small ones, I have heard SO many women with larger ones complain that I don't feel I'm missing out on anything.

Would I like it if my lady parts were restored to their pre-childbirth glory? Sure, but that's not the cycle of life. IMO. I am happy in my body. I know so many others who are too. It's sad that society makes ANYONE feel inadequate in any way, especially when it comes to their bodies.

posted June 05, 2012 04:46 PM            

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It's sad that society makes ANYONE feel inadequate in any way, especially when it comes to their bodies.

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posted June 05, 2012 09:13 PM            

I'm sure some guys think they get bragging rights if they make a woman's cervix bleed after sex but I sure don't see it that way!

posted June 05, 2012 09:16 PM            

I didn't watch the link but I might later. I don't feel the need to change my vagina in any way but I suppose some women may want to for whatever reason and I wouldn't begrudge them. My husband doesn't inspect my bits with a flashlight and I guess if he wanted to be with a prepubescent girl then he would be with one instead of a 40 year old woman.

posted June 06, 2012 05:53 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Its the same with guys too,alot of guys feel insecure if they arent "hung", and that sucks because if you arent well endowed theres really nothing you can do about it.

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posted June 06, 2012 05:57 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Actually it has little to do with male competition and everything to do with alot of women being very loud in saying they want a huge magic stick lol. I hear women all the time saying omg he is small etc.

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posted June 06, 2012 05:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Find someone who shares your spiritual values and this will be much less of an issue, I would think.

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posted June 06, 2012 06:02 AM            

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but let's face it, the society we live in will never allow us to do so.

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posted June 06, 2012 06:12 AM            

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Yea the society that wants us to all vote for the same pres and all bank at the same institution and be insecure so we'll buy their products and have us all thinking the same and never questioning anything. Screw them.

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posted June 06, 2012 06:47 AM            

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Ami Anne:
[b]Find someone who shares your spiritual values and this will be much less of an issue, I would think.

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Totally. Its the only real way to have something more imo

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