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Topic: The sexual bucket list
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Hera
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From: Olympus
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 03:06 AM
  
The list was made for women, but men can extrapolate. ^_^ Some I've done, some I'd never do (sex with no kissing???  HUH??), some I find interesting ^_^. How about you? http://thestir.cafemom.com/love_sex/106248/The_Sexual_Bucket_List_50
"What sexual things should everyone experience before they die? And how does someone who married young rank against those who didn't?
I got married at 25 and started dating my husband seriously at 23. Prior to that, I was in two very serious relationships (both of which ended in engagements) over several years and those three men sum up the grand total of my sexual experience. But what I lack in number of partners, I like to think I make up for in enthusiasm and can-do excitement. I know I lucked out when I met Rob, so I would trade a few wild and crazy sexual experiences for the really good one of meeting my soul mate at 23 (actually, we met at 10) -- but this idea of "sexual bucket lists" does intrigue me. Ninety percent of these can be done in the context of a loving, safe marriage (like mine). The rest, alas, I will have to leave to the single gals among us. But here is a list of 50 sexual must-dos before you die.  1. Kiss a girl
2. Have anal
3. Have a threesome
4. Engage in group sex
5. Have phone sex
6. Masturbate
7. Use a vibrator
8. Use a sex toy on someone else
9. Be tied up
10. Tie someone up
11. Have sex in a public space
12. Be a voyeur and watch others having sex (live, porn does not count)
13. Sex in a car
14. Sex at a drive-in
15. Mile-high club
16. Sex with a stranger
17. One-night stand
18. Married sex (the best kind, in my opinion)
19. Sex on a boat
20. Sex in a body of water
21. Light spanking
22. Read erotica
23. Play strip poker/Monopoly/card game
24. Sex in the shower
25. Sex standing up against a wall
26. Sex with no kissing
27. Sex in the pitch black
28. Sex in the broad daylight
29. Making out with no sex long after you're no longer a virgin
30. Sex in a tent in the wilderness
31. Watch porn together
32. Watch porn alone
33. Learn to give yourself multiple orgasms
34. Sex on the beach
35. Blindfolds
36. Using ice sexually
37. Sexual role play
38. Whipped cream
39. La Perla lingerie sex
40. Frederick's of Hollywood lingerie sex
41. Sex with someone much older
42. Sex with someone younger (legal!)
43. Sex in a foreign country, possibly with a foreigner
44. A quickie in a skirt
45. A longie in the rain
46. Sex in the ocean while people swim all around you
47. Feather ticklers
48. Sex while "altered" whether by alcohol or something else
49. Learn to orgasm in less than five minutes from intercourse alone
50. Silent sex in a full house How many have you done? And what's on your bucket list?" ------------------
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Gem-Gurl
Knowflake Posts: 2050
From: Los Angeles, CA
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 16, 2012 03:42 AM
Oh!! Most of this doesnt work if your religious  But here are my numbers!! The one with * are the ones i would do if i wasnt religious lol :blushes: the ones with • are what id do after marrige 3. Threesome* 4. Group sex* 5. Phone sex• 6. Masturbate 7. Use a vibrator (i dont have one but id so be down) 8. Use a sex toy on someone else• hehe 9. Be tied up• ohhh yeah! 10. Tie someone up• 11. Have sex in public place• (my hubby best be adventuresome!!) 13. Have sex in car• 16. Have sex with a stranger* 17. One night stand* 18. Married sex (duh  ) 19. Sex on a boat• (omg im obbssesed with pirates and sailors. My man is DRESSING UP, if i can convince him too....) 20. Sex in a body of water• i love water! 21. Light spanking. Hell i get that now... that Josiah.. *rolls eyes* 22. Read erotica 23. Strip poker or similar games* 24. Sex in the shower• hell fkin yesss! 25. Sex up against a wall• 27. Sex in pitch black• omg that would be so fun! 28. Sex in broad daylight• 29. Making out with no sex long after your not a virgin• yes, that means so much more that way.. 30. Sex in a tent in the wilderness• Y.E.S. 32. Watch porn alone. (Lol not after im married tho! Ill have waaaay better things to do  ) 33. Learn to give yourself multiple orgams. 34. Sex on the beach•  35. Blindfolds!!• 36. Using ice sexually• rwar! 37. Sexual roleplay• OH YEAHHHHH 38. Whipped cream• (drools) 39. La perla lingerie sex• sexy stuff! 40. Fredricks of Hollywood lingerie sex• even sexier stuff!! 41. Sex with someone much older* 42. Sex with someone much younger* 43. Sex in foregien country, possibly with a foregiener* (DUH) 44. Quickie sex in a skirt• 45. A lingie in the rain• ohhh that would be so hot.... 46. Sex in the ocean while ppl swam around you• (maybe just fingering and playing.... idk about actual SEX. Not if there is kids.... and im loud. Idk how that would work lol. Hmmm might be fun tho!! ) 48. Sex while 'altered' • (no drugs. Just drinksss!!) 49. Learn to orgasm in 5min using intercourse alone • (come in handy when we doin those quickies in my skirt now wouldnt it?) 50. Silent sex in a full house• ( deff be a challenge, but id be so willing to try!!) So yeah. All the things i would do, or am gonna do!! Omg, i shoulda just put the ones i didnt pick.... O_O ------------------
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Gem-Gurl
Knowflake Posts: 2050
From: Los Angeles, CA
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 16, 2012 03:48 AM
* edit double post* oooops!!IP: Logged |
Hera
Knowflake Posts: 8636
From: Olympus
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 04:30 AM
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Sashar
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From: Alternate timeline future
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 16, 2012 10:04 AM
I haven't done #15 and #43, and no desire at all for 15... I'm unreasonably frightened of airplanes, but I did have sex in Denver which is the mile high city, would that count?
Had a wild youth, most of which happened between 19 and 21. I was lucky to come out of it clean. Probably wouldn't try most of these again in my life. Somewhere between then and now I turned into a bit of a prude.------------------
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Fabulous
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posted June 16, 2012 10:58 AM
I'd like to do1. Sex with a much older man (at least 50 years old)
2. Devirginize a teenage boy (legal age)
3. Sex on the beach
4. Watch a live sex show
5. Produce/direct a private porn film That's all for now. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 11:31 AM
I want erotic, not activities  ------------------
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ail221
Moderator Posts: 6698
From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 16, 2012 12:36 PM
Some of mine...1. Elevator sex with a camera in the corner.
2. On a boardroom desk in the conference room.
3. Mirrors everywhere
4. threesome with two men
5. Batman roleplay I'll be cat woman or poison ivy.
6.In a cab ride home.
7. Zero-gravity.
8. In a alleyway
9.Red riding hood fantasy
10. Non stop for a weekend only breaking for food and to use the bathroom and sleep.
11. with a guy who has a tongue ring. IP: Logged |
Hera
Knowflake Posts: 8636
From: Olympus
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 01:20 PM
Is it just me or is it getting hot in here??  IP: Logged |
MoonWitch
Moderator Posts: 1968
From: The Beach
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 17, 2012 07:28 PM
I haven't done 8 of those.IP: Logged |
PixieJane
Moderator Posts: 7538
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 18, 2012 12:27 AM
I've done a lot of those, and many not on the list, and those I haven't I'm not interested in trying. My curiosity is satisfied. Interesting that some could've been clearer (that is, they could be interpreted in more ways than one), such as "light spanking" (is that receiving, giving, or both, and is it in roleplaying or is it used as means to enhance sexual pleasure while doing something else?). It seems that the person believes she is the default model of humanity and assumes others will not only like the same things she's enjoyed but will understand what she means without explanation. And some things I just had to wonder what she meant. For example, sex while "altered" be it alcohol or something else is ridiculous. Sex under the influence of alcohol is very different from sex on LSD or sex on E and so on. I can say from experience (and listening to others) that sex on E is very enjoyable (and making it so easy for me to feel love & trust only helps) but impossible to reach orgasm on (and that seems true of guys as well), and IMO it's just as enjoyable to simply hug or run fingers over each other as it is to do anything sexual (giving & receiving massages on E are the best!) Alcohol, however, makes my sex drive drop from low to nonexistent. And a lot of that depends on the people and chemistry as well. For example, the first threesome I was in really sucked very bad and led to awkwardness after that made sure I never spoke to either of them ever again, and it took some convincing to get me to try it again (luckily it was much more fun the 2nd time). IP: Logged |
SunChild
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posted June 18, 2012 01:39 AM
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How many have you done? And what's on your bucket list?
The list below is what I HAVE NOT DONE (still a long list) But I am not planning on doing it, I think I have not done them for a reason lol. I am pretty satisfied with what I have achieved and done sexually. Though, there is no female ejaculation question! Everyone woman can do that, the first time you feel like a brand new woman. It changes your whole reality. Highly recommended for your bucket list!!! 4. Engage in group sex
9. Be tied up
10. Tie someone up
12. Be a voyeur and watch others having sex (live, porn does not count)
15. Mile-high club
16. Sex with a stranger
19. Sex on a boat
20. Sex in a body of water
23. Play strip poker/Monopoly/card game
35. Blindfolds
37. Sexual role play
40. Frederick's of Hollywood lingerie sex
42. Sex with someone younger (legal!)
43. Sex in a foreign country, possibly with a foreigner
46. Sex in the ocean while people swim all around you
49. Learn to orgasm in less than five minutes from intercourse alone IP: Logged |
ghanima81
Knowflake Posts: 1121
From: Maine
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 18, 2012 02:44 PM
SC,  YUP!! I didn't even know I could do that!! I could never be satisfied with anything less than what I've achieved with my bf now. WOW sums it up, but barely... IP: Logged |
PixieJane
Moderator Posts: 7538
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 18, 2012 06:19 PM
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Sex while "altered" whether by alcohol or something else
And oh yeah, anyone see that scene in Higher Learning about mixing alcohol with sex? Short & sweet, she agrees to sex while very drunk (though she's not used to alcohol and it's her first time plastered) and he's ready for it, but she tells him to get a condom and he, both drunk and very immature, keeps telling her "just a minute" (and when she tries to push him off to go get a condom he's too strong for her) and so consensual sex turns to rape as well as exposing her to STDs and possible pregnancy. I'm sure many can do without a similar experience on their buckets list. IP: Logged |
ail221
Moderator Posts: 6698
From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 18, 2012 06:44 PM
Yeah I kind of disagree with the altered state one. Just because the experience its self is suppose to give you enough of a natural "high".IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: Wankety Wankerson
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 18, 2012 08:18 PM
condoms suck -_-IP: Logged |
SunChild
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posted June 19, 2012 06:49 AM
Yes exactly, Ghani. I remember after it happened I gave a 'wow' look to my husband, and started laughing hysterically, tears in my eyes , and at that moment thunder struck outside- and I laughed even harder. So surreal. IP: Logged |
Hera
Knowflake Posts: 8636
From: Olympus
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 20, 2012 03:38 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
condoms suck -_-
STDs suck more. IP: Logged |
Hera
Knowflake Posts: 8636
From: Olympus
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 20, 2012 03:39 PM
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Originally posted by SunChild:
Yes exactly, Ghani. I remember after it happened I gave a 'wow' look to my husband, and started laughing hysterically, tears in my eyes , and at that moment thunder struck outside- and I laughed even harder. So surreal.
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm... Something to look forward to..  IP: Logged |
Hera
Knowflake Posts: 8636
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posted June 20, 2012 03:41 PM
Pixie, do you have Virgo placements?  IP: Logged |
ghanima81
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From: Maine
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 20, 2012 03:50 PM
It's fascinating what you can achieve when you allow yourself to be FREE with somebody. Of course, all physical interactions are fascinating, even the "one offs". But the real connections.... DAYUM. Blows anything else out of the water completely. Makes you forget anything else. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: Wankety Wankerson
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posted June 20, 2012 04:44 PM
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Originally posted by Hera:
STDs suck more.
true, i agree 100%. but it would be nice if we lived in a world where people werent so promiscuous so you didnt have to worry about that. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
Moderator Posts: 7538
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 21, 2012 08:54 PM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Pixie, do you have Virgo placements?
Nope. But I am an air sign so I do like to think and examine ideas (weighing them on my little scales), and with so many strong Libra AND Sag placements I can sometimes be quite the contrarian (though I usually only mean to add depth and perhaps bring a more well rounded view to the subject). And I think the reason I didn't like that first threesome was because the guy was so controlling (almost like he was trying to direct a porn movie) and his wife was obviously not into it all (with either of us), she was just trying to keep him happy very grudgingly out of some sense of obligation and both her disinterest and his highly controlling nature were major turn offs to me, especially given my Sag Mars and Libra Venus, and the fact that neither one was particularly stimulating at the intellectual level didn't help (and he wasn't very inspired, he thought too mechanically if that makes sense). Every single time I went back by again the guy wanted to have another threesome and pestered me over it so that I stopped having anything to do with either of them (when before I'd gotten along with them for months, but right after my 18th birthday he talked me into trying it as an "educational" experience). So in my view I not only had a bad experience (though I suppose I did learn a little about what I did NOT like  ) but I lost the ability to have any meaningful contact with either of them at all and that also sucked because it got awkward when I met them with other friends of mine (that is, making me want to leave because I felt uncomfortable). IP: Logged |
sunnigrl83
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From: texas
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 21, 2012 09:38 PM
I've done 36. Most all with my husband. Almost 37. Good thing I was very altered, and passed out. Apparently I decided I wanted to try anal, but was really drunk and passed out. ( Thank God!!!!)Here's my bucket list. 1. slave\master bondage
I know it's wierd, but I'm sooooo interested in experimenting with it. But have no clue how to tell my husband. He'll probably think I'm insane.....
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Ami Anne
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posted June 21, 2012 09:45 PM
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