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L0veLess
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posted August 18, 2012 08:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for L0veLess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Did you have any sexual experiences? Not that you HAD sex but like kissing and touching?
Share share!

What would this be related to? The moon? Mars?
List your aspects.

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Did you experiment with other kids your own gender, and if so, would you tell us about it now if you did?

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Also, Do you happen to know any of their birthdays and placements???

I have noticed that i've done things with lots of sag and scorp influenced people. Never any earth signs.

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posted August 18, 2012 10:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I foresee this being moved to Sweet Peas in the near future.

Yeah, I did. It was mostly curiosity rather than actual passion. It's hard for me to describe because there are so many levels of lust, passion, and love, and most people appear to me to not understand that, and English seems very limited in describing those subtle but important differences. That caveat aside I'd say I was 14 before I experienced even a hint of sexual attraction (though I fooled around before out of curiosity) and 17 before I actually pursued sex for its own sake (not that I was wild about it).

I have a Sag moon & mars (and also Eros). I think all my Libran energies (including Venus as well as Sun) kept me more passionate about mental subjects (though ironically more willing to experience it younger out of curiosity) instead which probably kept me from being more sexual than I was...though I suspect other things that might not be astrology-related also made a difference.

Maybe I'm naive (or perhaps the opposite of naive) but I'd think it would be the kids who DIDN'T kiss and fool around a little (as opposed to actual sex) who'd be the exception to the rule.

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L0veLess
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posted August 18, 2012 11:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for L0veLess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
interesting and i hope it doesn't get moved!this wasn't meant as some tell me your sex fantasy thread! haha

i get thrown off when i hear of people who didn't do things. like how did they avoid it? and why weren't they curious about that stuff?
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posted August 18, 2012 11:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interesting post, hopefully this isn't tmi...

I was a highly sexual kid or to put it less creepily - highly aroused.

I understood the basics of what sex was at age five. I remember in kindergarten observing a boy and girl in my class kissing and getting aroused by it, we were also under a "parachute" so it made it some how more intoxicating.

I also often touched myself "inappropriately" as a child, I got called out on it a lot. I was never told "lady like" manners because my mom was really open with me about sexuality and how its natural and not something to be disgusted by.

I also did a few "role" playing games with my girl friends as a kid and I always played the "boy." It was all highly erotic for a 8 year old, now that I think about it.

But nothing sexually abnormal happened to me, I was just a highly energetic and highly aroused child.

I think having Leo Sun in the 8th H made me really fascinated with all aspects of sex - even though I didn't actually have sex until I was 21. Also I have Pisces Moon -so I have a very vivid imagination and can get aroused by my little fantasies so easily.

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posted August 18, 2012 11:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for L0veLess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
nice nice!
i think that as kids it always feels thrilling because its new. And we take sexual things naturally, we don't really question why it feels good, it just does.

also 8h sun huh?
i know someone with mars 8h but they didn't discover all that stuff early on. Maybe because sun is the self? So it is expressed more apparently.

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posted August 18, 2012 11:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was a kisser in kindergarten, I liked grabbing a boy and kissing them. I don't remember it being a sexual feeling at least not in the same way I would feel now as a adult. I don't remember feeling anything sexual until I was about 11 years old and the kissing behavior been stopped before then. As I got older all sexual behavior became more repressed if anything.

Gemini Moon 1ST house, Mars,Eros,Sappho in Taurus 12th house.

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posted August 18, 2012 11:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by L0veLess:
nice nice!
i think that as kids it always feels thrilling because its new. And we take sexual things naturally, we don't really question why it feels good, it just does.

also 8h sun huh?
i know someone with mars 8h but they didn't discover all that stuff early on. Maybe because sun is the self? So it is expressed more apparently.


Yeah the Sun is all about self-expression and as children we start to develop it. And the 8th H at its most basic level is about sexuality. Also Leo is a strong placement for the Sun and I also have Aries Mars on the IC and it trines my Leo Sun - lots of fire energy going on with me.

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posted August 18, 2012 11:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for L0veLess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ahh and isn't IC linked to childhood and past?
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posted August 18, 2012 11:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for L0veLess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by ail221:
I was a kisser in kindergarten, I liked grabbing a boy and kissing them. I don't remember it being a sexual feeling at least not in the same way I would feel now as a adult. I don't remember feeling anything sexual until I was about 11 years old and the kissing behavior been stopped before then. As I got older all sexual behavior became more repressed if anything.

Gemini Moon 1ST house, Mars,Eros,Sappho in Taurus 12th house.


my little cousin got in trouble for that recently! haha

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posted August 18, 2012 11:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had crushes on guys since I was in preschool. This one boy I would pick flowers for before school.

And then the next year this boy would always say hi to me. So I was like oh that's my boyfriend.
I would kiss him sometimes. There is even a picture of me putting him in a headlock and kissing him.

Then by elementary school I got shy. Oh but there was a boy I had a crush on from 1st to 4th grade. I would write about him in my diary. I even drew a picture in my 3rd grade diary. Of us laying on a heart shaped bed holding hands in our underwear!!!

Didn't have a boyfriend til middle school. Nothing happened. I had walls up at that point.

Was just a total prude.

Didn't make out with a boy until I was 17.

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L0veLess
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posted August 19, 2012 12:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for L0veLess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL thats kinda creepy cute the drawing in your diary

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posted August 19, 2012 03:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
haha yeah

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sand
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posted August 19, 2012 05:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have never experienced a wet dream. I think i started too early. Too curious.

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posted August 19, 2012 01:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by L0veLess:
my little cousin got in trouble for that recently! haha

Yeah I got smacked a couple times for that LOL. When I was a teenager I guess my mom expected me to be like girls gone wild but I was completely the opposite, the focus shifted towards expressing my energy into art and school.

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posted August 19, 2012 10:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by L0veLess:
Edit:
Also did you do things with the same sex when you were young?

Yes. Though one girl insisted such things were just "practice" and came down hard on anyone who seemed a little "too gay." I never understood that at the time, though I think I do now. She was also very promiscuous with guys (she even fooled around with guys since before she was a teen) and as far as I know I was the only girl she ever fooled around with. We were also BFFs.

Anyway, you should add, "Did you experiment with other kids your own gender, and if so, would you tell us about it now if you did?"

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posted August 19, 2012 10:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I played doctor a few times

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L0veLess
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posted August 21, 2012 03:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for L0veLess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@pixie: haha okay i have changed it

I think i've kissed more girls than boys in my life! if i count those child years hah.
I was always kind of caught up in these kissing scenarios. My friend would be the girl and i had to be the boy and i hated that i wanted to be a girl. but we would hide in the bathroom and pretend we were at the beach and she was in a bikini and then id have to go into the stall she was in and kiss her. We almost got caught!

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posted August 21, 2012 03:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for L0veLess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by sand:
I have never experienced a wet dream. I think i started too early. Too curious.


so yur sayin that because yu took care of things at an early age that it helped you not have wet dreams???
and did you do things with friends as a kid or was this alone?

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posted August 21, 2012 03:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for L0veLess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I played doctor a few times

lol
i played police officer pulling me over (on a bike)and my punishment was i had to make out with him (my playmate) haha

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posted August 21, 2012 05:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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@pixie: haha okay i have changed it

I think i've kissed more girls than boys in my life! if i count those child years hah.
I was always kind of caught up in these kissing scenarios. My friend would be the girl and i had to be the boy and i hated that i wanted to be a girl. but we would hide in the bathroom and pretend we were at the beach and she was in a bikini and then id have to go into the stall she was in and kiss her. We almost got caught!


When I was roughly 7 I got shunned by the girls my age in my neighborhood (in part for having the barbies act out a lot of my family's dysfunction complete with profanity and "who drank my beer, ***** " ) and was thus forced to play with the boys. That was ok, but it got tiresome constantly playing "gun games" ("The Russians Are Coming" was a favorite and they'd like to shoot toy guns at cars as the cars were invading tanks). In retrospect it was an interesting & enlightening experience, and even a little liberating, so I'm glad for it now even if wasn't entirely happy then.

Btw, we were curious about each other's bodies and explored, but I wouldn't call it anything sexual (no more than I'd call boys looking under rocks "science"). There was one exception that I don't feel like talking about, but suffice to say I believe now that an adult put him up to it (and even if I'm wrong on that I'm certain he found a porno mag that he was trying to reenact, more to feel adult rather than because he felt any honest desire to).

After I was finally accepted by them (though it was complicated) I took to wearing my hair short like a boy (save when I visited Granny in the summer or lived with her during the 'rents divorce as she wanted me to have long hair) because that was best with my very active (and Sag-inspired) lifestyle, frequent playing in the woods, and Texas heat. I had become "one of the boys."

But one day (I think we were 9) I got tired of it and talked a boy into playing dress up with me. We put on his mom's makeup and dressed up (like girls) and we even stumbled around trying to wear his mom's heels...and then we made the mistake of going out to show off to his parents. I remember thinking something was wrong with how quiet and solemn they were when they saw us (me and their son) coming out like that and then his dad started yelling at him while his mom threw me out of the house. He wasn't allowed to talk to me for a year (we did, of course).

When I was 10 my BFF (the one I kissed and fooled around with that I described above) moved a street over who was in a family at least as messed up as mine and so we were natural friends. (Given that she was born November 1, 1982, so similar to my October 21 of the same year, I'm certain we had many placements in common as well, including our Eros in Sag, though I don't know where she was born or what time.) I was so relieved to have a girl to hang with again.

But when we fooled around, she had me be the boy, too.

When we got older and I came back after several months with Granny (having longer hair but I cut it ASAP) I was ok on a skateboard which she thought was cool but when I tried to get her to "thrash" along with me she said, "I'm a girl." I said, "So am I," and pointed out how I first got interested because the girl in The Crow (the R-rated movie that we snuck into together when we were 11) used one. She was like, "But I don't want to mess up my makeup and my clothes." (And when she saw me spill once she also commented that it was good I kept my fingernails short, unlike her.) Her doing a lot more pot than I did and being heavier, less fit, and far less agile no doubt discouraged her, too. She did, however, consider it briefly when she saw how many boys (which she loved and was promiscuous with) found me more approachable (though it was one more thing for girls to give me a hard time over, and of course many boys never thought I could be as good as them and nothing upset them more than to be proven wrong, though luckily for them I wasn't much of a daredevil so even if my ollies were better--at least by my reckoning, I know some boys thought theirs were better for being higher than mine even if they were much more likely to spill, but that was pointless, IMO--they could always show me up to the other boys by being stupid).

She tried "feminizing" me when we were 15 (it went something like this) but she stopped after we ran away from home in which case she I think she wanted me to be the boy and protect her.

Ah, to be so young. At least kids heal fast from all the stupid stuff they do (and is done to them).

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posted August 21, 2012 05:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think it's true that 4 out of every 10 girls have been sexually abused in some way before the age of 7 because my childhood friends were.....well, freaks. I'd rather not tell the stories but growing up my girlfriends def. had some sexual abuse/trauma at some point and wanted to play weird games.

I remember talking to an ex about this and he has similar experiences with childhood male friends. He was thinking about writing a book about it (weird childhood sexual experinces).

Sorry, i'm not going into details. It makes me sad.

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posted August 21, 2012 05:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If I remember some children are even caught masturbating in the womb. Yes I do agree some children do experience sexual abuse in during their childhood with leads to extenuating repercussions but part of it has to do with curiosity and trying to understand gender roles and gender differences.

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posted August 22, 2012 01:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i remember i used to make my barbies kiss, naked! hehehe i was pretty darn cute

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posted August 22, 2012 04:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for L0veLess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Pixie
geez! what an interesting childhood/teenhood!
i always wanted to run away! not that i had any home problems but because it just looked so cool. and you have the same birthday as kim kardashian! not year though. I had a bff who was born 15 days after me and im born at the end of cap like yu are near the end of libra. I never did any sexual things with her tho. The hannah montana thing was cute haha. I'm surprised you know anything bout that show since you probably didn't watch it! Also, I may not have much to reply with, but i really like reading about what you guys have to say

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posted August 22, 2012 05:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for L0veLess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by T:
I think it's true that 4 out of every 10 girls have been sexually abused in some way before the age of 7 because my childhood friends were.....well, freaks. I'd rather not tell the stories but growing up my girlfriends def. had some sexual abuse/trauma at some point and wanted to play weird games.

I remember talking to an ex about this and he has similar experiences with childhood male friends. He was thinking about writing a book about it (weird childhood sexual experinces).

Sorry, i'm not going into details. It makes me sad.


I always wondered about where my friends came up with these things and if they were absued.
Not that i ever asked them, but i don't think they were. I think TV and perhaps older siblings influenced them.
And no need to go into details! Say what you're comfortable with

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