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Topic: Like attracts like/Looking for trouble but being surprised when trouble finds them
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somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 2490 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 29, 2013 09:18 PM
Something that irritates me is when someone or some people go out with malicious intent, but are surprised and even assume victimcy when they are met with a challenge. I've seen that happen here in LL too - this user or that user's first comment in the thread is to challenge another and then when the other person rises to the challenge, the user is wounded and defensive as if they did no wrong.I at least am ready for opposition when I go out and challenge what someone says. I think in general I don't like people who aren't aware of themselves or their actions. With a whole whack of Scorpio, I by nature pay lots of attention to my surroundings - but tempered with an equal amount of air, I guess I don't blow it out of proportion that it affects my ability to stay at least level headed. In the heat of the moment, I still process what I say before I say it! I dunno, some observations...why do you think people do that? I guess it's just they aren't self-aware enough...? IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 407 From: Smalltown Pennsylvania Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 29, 2013 09:24 PM
There are people who can't help but say exactly what's on their mind at the moment. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 407 From: Smalltown Pennsylvania Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 29, 2013 09:28 PM
You say they aren't "self aware enough" maybe it's just them being comfortable with who they are and not caring what people think when they say whatever comes out of their mouth before thinking about it. IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 2490 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 29, 2013 09:29 PM
^Oh I know that, but I mean people who say negative or challenging stuff then feel hurt when someone says something negative or challenging back.EDIT! Are you taking this personally? It's good that people are comfortable enough with themselves that they don't care about what people think, but my issue is that some people talk smack then when someone talks smack back, they feel attacked. Answer to that instead! IP: Logged |
CatMote Knowflake Posts: 407 From: New Britain, CT, United States Registered: Apr 2013
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posted August 29, 2013 09:31 PM
theres a difference between not caring what people think about you than potentially offending people and saying something stupid/incorrect. ------------------ Sun Aries Moon Pisces Mars Pisces Venus Pisces Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn Ascendant Libra IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 46010 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 29, 2013 09:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by somethingexcellent: ^Oh I know that, but I mean people who say negative or challenging stuff then feel hurt when someone says something negative or challenging back.EDIT! Are you taking this personally? It's good that people are comfortable enough with themselves that they don't care about what people think, but my issue is that some people talk smack then when someone talks smack back, they feel attacked. Answer to that instead!
Everyone has different people who annoy them. So, there is not a one size fits all shoe
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Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 407 From: Smalltown Pennsylvania Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 29, 2013 09:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by CatMote: theres a difference between not caring what people think about you than potentially offending people and saying something stupid/incorrect.
Well I happen to say really stupid things just because I can't help it lol and don't think twice about what I just said because I'm a honest person and like to be as real as possible. So if someone were to take whatever it is that I said offensively than I would greatly apologize because that's not what I mean at all. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 407 From: Smalltown Pennsylvania Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 29, 2013 09:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: [QUOTE]Originally posted by somethingexcellent: [b]^Oh I know that, but I mean people who say negative or challenging stuff then feel hurt when someone says something negative or challenging back.EDIT! Are you taking this personally? It's good that people are comfortable enough with themselves that they don't care about what people think, but my issue is that some people talk smack then when someone talks smack back, they feel attacked. Answer to that instead!
Everyone has different people who annoy them. So, there is not a one size fits all shoe [/B][/QUOTE]
My motto is if you can't take the heat stay out of the kitchen IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 407 From: Smalltown Pennsylvania Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 29, 2013 09:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by somethingexcellent: ^Oh I know that, but I mean people who say negative or challenging stuff then feel hurt when someone says something negative or challenging back.EDIT! Are you taking this personally? It's good that people are comfortable enough with themselves that they don't care about what people think, but my issue is that some people talk smack then when someone talks smack back, they feel attacked. Answer to that instead!
Oh not at all I'm just a very deep thinker and tend to put my feet in the shoes of others and automatically stick up for the other person lol because I'm a libra and that's what we do dammit IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 2490 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 29, 2013 09:40 PM
quote: Barbiegirl10: So if someone were to take whatever it is that I said offensively than I would greatly apologize because that's not what I mean at all.
See, that means you are self-aware! But if someone took it offensively...and you acted hurt and felt like you were being attacked, wouldn't that be unreasonable...? Also "Stay out of the kitchen" is one of my favourite quotes!! I can take the heat, so the kitchen is no fear of mine. IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 10031 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 29, 2013 09:40 PM
If you are someone who can 'take it' more than you can 'dish it', you can survive better in this world.I can take anything thrown to me. It's when someone is being dishonest or not taking what they themselves dish out, is what i can't handle. I'll handle anything anyone dishes to me. Just don't dish out to me things that if i serve back to you, you can't handle. IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 2490 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 29, 2013 09:41 PM
quote: It's when someone is being dishonest or not taking what they themselves dish out, is what i can't handle.
This is exactly what I'm talking about. Thank you T for understanding what I meant. IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 10031 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 29, 2013 09:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
Also "Stay out of the kitchen" is one of my favourite quotes!! I can take the heat, so the kitchen is no fear of mine.
Same here. Bring it. I'll separate your **** and put you in a muffin tin and leave you in the oven past cook-time and burn you if you arent careful. IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 10031 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 29, 2013 09:45 PM
quote: With a whole whack of Scorpio, I by nature pay lots of attention to my surroundings - but tempered with an equal amount of air, I guess I don't blow it out of proportion that it affects my ability to stay at least level headed.
I'm a Taurus, but have strong Scorpio elements and placements. Along with Leo ones. My chart is pretty balanced in all of the elements, but I am not foreign to the Scorpion's ways. They are a part of me and most of my besties throughout the years have been them. I'm am comfortable dueling with them if need be. And I always win. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 407 From: Smalltown Pennsylvania Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 29, 2013 09:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by somethingexcellent: See, that means you are self-aware! But if someone took it offensively...and you acted hurt and felt like you were being attacked, wouldn't that be unreasonable...?Also "Stay out of the kitchen" is one of my favourite quotes!! I can take the heat, so the kitchen is no fear of mine.
I agree I think that's very unreasonable but there are people out there who just can't help being that way. IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 10031 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 29, 2013 09:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: There are people who can't help but say exactly what's on their mind at the moment.
I like those kind of people. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 407 From: Smalltown Pennsylvania Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 29, 2013 09:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by T: I like those kind of people.
That's me all day everyday. It makes me who I am and I never do it knowingly I just say what I say because I'm comfortable enough saying it out loud even when it's crazy and makes no sense lmao IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 10031 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 29, 2013 09:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by somethingexcellent: This is exactly what I'm talking about. Thank you T for understanding what I meant.
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somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 2490 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 29, 2013 09:53 PM
quote: Barbiegirl10: but there are people out there who just can't help being that way
I'm going to disagree with you, so hear me out. I don't think that there's anything you can't help about yourself...I like to believe that you can always change for the better, or at least, change so you can be happier and have a happier life. So when someone is like that...I think they just need to learn how to take a step back sometimes...or at least how to see things from the other way, you know? I dunno, but changing yourself isn't always easy, for sure. Life. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 407 From: Smalltown Pennsylvania Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 29, 2013 09:56 PM
But what if they don't see it like that. I feel bad for people like its like you just want to slap some strength into them or something so I understand what you mean. But a lot of the times those people are the ones who are going through things and can't help but take everything a person says whether it be a positive or a negative personally even when it wasn't intended to be that way. Hope I'm making sense lol IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 2490 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 29, 2013 10:14 PM
Oh yes you are making sense! Everyone is different and you are right, just I guess the point of this thread was to complain a little. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 407 From: Smalltown Pennsylvania Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 29, 2013 10:17 PM
Oh your fine love I had my moment too earlier lol so you're just fine. I hope your better now IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 4640 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 29, 2013 10:38 PM
Lmfaaao.. SE Remember that one chick? The best part was I had no idea she had mummy issues.. I just figured someone must of hurt her...I wonder what our synastry is like..? Didn't she hate you too? IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 5630 From: teaselb@gmail.com Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 29, 2013 10:47 PM
As soon as I start to think I'm more level-headed, then something really upsets me.I think some things are taken as an attack when it wasn't even the intention of the poster. I've had it happen to me, and I've felt that way at times about others. I have to watch myself at times, if I feel overly-sensitive. IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 2490 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 29, 2013 10:51 PM
quote: Kerosene: Didn't she hate you too?
Are we talking about the one who said you deserve to work at Walmart? I think she confused you for me 'cause I worked at Walmart when I was like 15...for six months...also yeah she did clash with me a few times over astro beliefs. I'm open minded but she always said things work how they are. B#tch please, you say that now but if this was when Uranus and beyond was introduced, you'd probably be against them too. :eyeroll: IP: Logged |