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Topic: How do you handle fake people without going nuclear to their face?
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Jessica2407
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From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 03, 2013 02:12 AM
  
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Originally posted by charmainec:
Regarding your reference about elders, can you be more specific? Trying to understand. Like we were brought up respect elders, not to back chat them or even challenge them because they were "older". Do you mean it in that sense?
Yeah. We have this thing in Hindu communities that the elders are to be respected for their wisdom but what if they are not wise at all??? Duh! Also because they say that elders have a way to curse those who are disrespectful towards them which to me is BS. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
Moderator Posts: 3888
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 03, 2013 02:14 AM
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Originally posted by charmainec:
Life is not a popularity contest.
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charmainec
Moderator Posts: 7210
From: Venus next to Randall
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 03, 2013 04:06 AM
My dad was Hindi.. Were we brought up the same.. Makes so much sense now.
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charmainec
Moderator Posts: 7210
From: Venus next to Randall
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 03, 2013 04:16 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
I like you already
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lilithpluto
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From: pluto
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted September 03, 2013 06:55 AM
i dun get close with thm. Its a hi-how's yr day-how's yr work-okie, see you. Bye type of conversation. Nothing deep. Pleasant, superficial talk n polite. i definately will never share deep talks or thoughts, for safety reasons.My way may not work for you because i dun give a damn what anyone says about me. I do tend to b a bit too serious.  IP: Logged |
NoRainNoRainbows
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 04, 2013 09:08 AM
That is so annoying Jessica and doesn't help.....just leave the house when you know they are coming, or avoid them if you live with them. no good usually comes out of contact with such people for either side!!  (ps will reply to you privately later, J'ai mal à la tête, but for your thing dont worry too much  ) IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 04, 2013 09:43 AM
I don't. I just go nuclear.IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 10077
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 06, 2013 03:29 AM
My advice is to take a look in a mirror. If you are finding fakeness around you, then you can almost rest assured that you are being fake yourself.If you feel like you have to "go nuclear in someone's face", you should take a good honest look at your own self and figure out where that really comes from. What are you so angry about? (and i'm sorry i didnt realize you were 13 years old earlier) I notice that there are a few people here that dont have anything to say on the forums unless I am involved. Besides talking **** about me, they really don't have anything else to share with anyone, and that is terribly sad.  Because IMO they should. They should have a **** load of great things to share with people at this point in their lives, but no..... they are still self centered and have nothing to add to any convo. And would rather waste their time tearing someone else down. Who's the real phoney balogna? If you only come here to talk **** about others, but otherwise have nothing else to add....and I mean for years upon years,.....then I feel sorry for you. And I"d quit talking about who is 'fake' and who is not. Clearly you don't have a clue. BTW it's you.
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 06, 2013 03:48 AM
The two people who are talking about 'fakeness' are two people who never post in this forum regularly, or help people out here on a regular basis. They are usually absent, unless they are talking about themselves. It's clear they don't care about anyone except themselves as we don't see them helping out people here in this forum and instead just come here to ***** about other people when the opportunity presents itself. One only talk about her love for a certain food or about me. And that's it. It's time to grow up.Rather than **** talk others maybe utilize that energy to post about something helpful on the forums. Rather than start drama and make it all about yourself, maybe post something that will help other people in some way. I'm sure I'm not the only one who is sick of the high school BS. Get creative, get real. For the love of god. Say something important, say something impressive, say something 'real', and maybe help the rest of humanity out in some way.. Or remain in high school mentality, if you so choose. I guess what I am saying is stop wasting your time talking about 'fakeness' until youre really real yourself. Stop wasting our time here. Anyone who's been around awhile thinks you sound foolish. Stop it. Youre embarassing. IP: Logged |
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posted September 06, 2013 04:00 AM
Fake people are people who never post unless it's to try and hurt another.Fake people are people who never show up to say anything unless it's negative about someone else. They never come here to help anyone else out, only to talk **** . Fake people don't say anything important or useful and only come around to try to provoke others who they are jealous of. Fake people shouldnt waste their time because they only end up looking like bigger a-holes than they already are. IP: Logged |
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